Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

2006-11-14 07:37:25 · 24 answers · asked by Guille 2 in Singles & Dating

guys only.
what do you like?
skinny, average, atheltic(not body builder but some muscle), chubby or "fat"?

[say your dream girls height as well!!]

2006-11-14 07:36:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents anniversary is this week nd me nd dad do not get along. Everytime we're together we end up gettin into a BIG argument!

So everytime we see each other we jus ignore each other. Sometimes i need stuff frim my dad lik lunch money , a drive to my friends house. nd idk wat to do! If i go to my friends house or sumwhere else he'll complain tht i don't wanna be wit him n stuff lik tht.
Plus he always drifts off after he gets out of work nd doesn't get home till 6:00pm every day ! He gets out of work @ 4pm. He never lets me or my bros go outside at all!! Nd he never lets us play video games! I don't think it's fair! I need to be wit my friends cuz at skool we barely get to hang out.

Wat can i do about all these probs??
(I kno it's a lot of questions but i really need suggestions!)

2006-11-14 07:36:26 · 1 answers · asked by alexis12491 1 in Family

could u possibly add a link?? plz, thx!!

2006-11-14 07:35:56 · 9 answers · asked by Sara mary jane 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Today 2 "friends" from my class asced me if i've ever had a boyfriend and in front of the boy that i like.So i tell them that i have never had a boyfriend(that is true) and i felt so ashamed in front of this boy.He for example,could laught at me and tell to his friends.I am just too disappointed.How to go to school tomorow?They are probably make fun ofg me.Any sugestions how to fix this picture of me in his head???Help please,i am desperate!!!Thanks..

2006-11-14 07:35:54 · 23 answers · asked by angee 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter has been dating for 1 month. He hangs all over her if they are in arms reach. I have asked her to not do this in public, he says there is nothing wrong with it. I say it looks trashy? Who is right? They are 17 years old.

2006-11-14 07:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anna C 1 in Singles & Dating

I never really liked my sisters' g/f but i don't want to see my sister hurt. Also i would be lying if i said i didn't like the stuff i make my sister's g/f buy me to keep me quite.

How doi resolve this so everyone is happy?

2006-11-14 07:34:49 · 65 answers · asked by thed0gsb0ll0x 1 in Singles & Dating

I guess I would have to say I have sort of a bad reputation. I'm very impulsive and do things without thinking. So I unforutanly usually end up having sex with some random guy or doing somthing so embrassing that I make a fool out of myself. A couple of weeks ago I ended up going home with this one guy and sleeping with him. Well he told all his friends after I told him not to tell anyone and I was so embrassed. Everyone was bugging me about it and I was getting really upset. I was discusted with myself. I was discusted with him. I feel so embarssed and the mistakes that I have made in the past won't stop haunting me. Help!

2006-11-14 07:34:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

down?

2006-11-14 07:32:51 · 6 answers · asked by mark s 1 in Friends

it's been that way for years now. is there something wrong with me? it's the ONLY way I can come.

2006-11-14 07:32:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BIL is a pompous ***. He even admits it. He acts really friendly to my face, and in from of his mom and my husband, but when he IM's me, he's rude, arrogant, and calls me a lazy whore. I'm 7 1/2 months pregnant, and recently left my job. I keep the house clean, cook supper, do grocery shopping for a family of 5, help my mom out at her house, and have a four year old daughter and a husband. He thinks that he's better than everyone else, and his mom just adores him.
How can I get her to see that her precious son is a serious problem for me? If I say anything, she just goes, "Oh, that's "Nick" for you." I am pregnant and DO NOT need this stress.

2006-11-14 07:32:14 · 12 answers · asked by I_didn't_do_it 2 in Family

I've known this guy my entire life, I mean, I don't have a memory he's not in. We did that whole kids thing where I liked him and he didn't like me and then he liked me and i didn't like him. Then we started dating when i was about 15, but we broke up because i cheated on him.. among other things, I mean honestly I was probubly the worst girlfriend. Yet he claimed to still want to be with me, so when i was 16 he begged me (litterly on his knees) to go out with him just once. But after all this time he seemed more like a brother to me but i agreed to go out with him because .. and this is gonna sound weird, it hurt me to hurt him. Needless to say it didn't work out and we where just friend but he always wanted more, then my mother passed away and in all the chaos we lost contact. But i saw him again a few months ago and we said hey and he looked so different and i started thinking maybe we could give it another try... so.. your opinions? (ya i know, i sound like a total *****)

2006-11-14 07:32:13 · 11 answers · asked by Rhiannon 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 18 yrs old and I have never dated. I am a very nice person and I think I look somewhat attractive. I have guys that stare at me all the time, but none of them ever come up 2 me 2 date. It could be bc I am a virgin, but they dont know that. Am I doing something wrong. I smile and I act friendly, but sometimes I am a little shy., I know every1 is gonna say why dont u go up 2 a guy u like. Well, I was raised in a way that taught me any girl who goes up 2 a guy looks extremely desperate.It would be almost impossible for me 2 do something like this. Most of the guys that stare at me are caucasion, but I cant understand why they never actually come up 2 me. I am already in college and things are not getting any better. Alot of people say that I have an curvy body, but a child like face. I honestly want u guys 2 be the judge. If u have someting negative 2 say please say it nicely. I want honest answers!

2006-11-14 07:32:10 · 20 answers · asked by chocolatelolita87 1 in Singles & Dating

We were happy together one evening kissing & all then out of the blues he told me he had sex with another girl about four weeks ago. Why the HELL .... I mean how am i supposed to deal with this I love Him he treats me good.. I wish he hadn't told me at least i wouldn't be crying now, at least i would still be able to eat.. I dont know where to go from here I still want to be with him but can I trust him again.. (to make things worse he had sex with her in the same bed he makes love to me)

2006-11-14 07:32:05 · 13 answers · asked by terrybogle 2 in Singles & Dating

would you date them

2006-11-14 07:32:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who's a boy and we are just friends. We have all the same classes so we'll walk 2gether & stuff. Well I needed a pencil so I was lookin through his backpack and I found blunts and weed. I was shocked to the point where my face was glued to the same expression. I didnt want him 2 know that I found it so I wrote him a note asking him if he did that stuff 8 he said that he didnt know, which told me yea. We started arguing and I couldnt believe that he did that stuff. I didnt know wat 2 do. At the end of the day I came past his locker and he wanted to talk 2 me. He told me that he doesnt do that stuff anymore. I still didnt tell him that i went in his backpack, so i jus went along with it. I asked him y and when he did it and he said last year, and it really makes u feel good. He's a really good and close friend that I trust. He has real good judgement and he's smart cuz he's in all honors classes like me. Now he's got me wonderin if I should try it or not.

2006-11-14 07:31:39 · 6 answers · asked by Jana 2 in Friends

my boyfriend and i have been together a few months now and i have no idea what to get him for xmas. hes really into his truck and cars in general. but this past september his stepdad passed away so hes had a really tough time and id like to try to cheer him up.

any suggestions?!?!

2006-11-14 07:30:59 · 6 answers · asked by leenbeen 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to do something special for my husband. It can't be anything too mushy because he doesn't really like this. I would love something to show him how special he is to me. I can't think of anything creative.
There are a couple of things to work around though...We have two children 4 years and 10 months. Also, I am a stay at home mom, so I want to try and make this as inexpensive as possible so I don't spend all of the money he has just made. I live in the Indianapolis area if this helps.

2006-11-14 07:30:02 · 9 answers · asked by Kerri E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So he was crying in the bathroom...... She was later found with a gun to her head. She came to my crying. I don't know what to do. I love them both so much. My husband and my very best friend. I told them that I didn't want anyone to know of this. Not even her husband, for he too is a very good friend of mine. He doesn't deserve to be hurt by this. All of this happened only yesterday. We are all pretendign nothing happened. it's killing me, right now i am shaking as I write this. But they are my everything. How do I forget and live as if it never happened. Or at least deal with it with out going mad?

2006-11-14 07:29:13 · 7 answers · asked by notme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is the only problem that I have with him. We will be talking and if he sees blonde hair he will look at the person for a couple of seconds and linger on that person.

I have tried telling him my feelings that it hurts me and upsets me and he doesn't do it as much but he still does it.

I have tried checking out other men in front of him but it seems babyish to do what he's doing to me.

I was thinking about being tough with him and dropping him at his house if he does it again each and every time he does it. Does anyone have anything that works for them? Don't tell me that I'm being petty because it really bothers me and I don't blatantly check out other men in front of him.

2006-11-14 07:29:06 · 18 answers · asked by hope 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy met a while ago and we never really discussed what eachother wanted. I just got out of a relationship and needed some space but never told him I kind of wanted to just sleep with him. He started to have feelings for me. I started sleeping with some guys behind his back because I feel that I can do what I want. He is sensitive and didnt take to this too well. He hasnt talked to me for an extended period of time and i try to at least be friends with him. He doesnt talk to me at ALL!!! Now that he has left me I feel that I need him. He is being mean to me and I am starting to be a ***** back by telling him i dont care if he ever talks to me again. Now i am friends with a lot of his friends and want to know if there is any way I can go about this should I just let it go or just give it time? Is there any way I can get my way out of this?

2006-11-14 07:28:22 · 2 answers · asked by xZDFghfdzS 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me like 1 1/2 years ago. We went out for almost a year. I think we were just stressing each other out and he said his feelings changed for me. I haven't talked to him since and the last time I saw him was like 10 months ago. He never contacts me and I never contact him. I sometimes think about him but I was wondering if he thought about me. Well I guess if he never contacts me, I guess I got my answer....right??

2006-11-14 07:28:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to tell my boyfriend of 5 months that i love him, but i know that he can be skitterish around moving quickly because of some past pain.
I know that he cares for me, but i don't want to tell him how i feel only to scare him when i could hold it in for a bit.
Any signs that i could look for to know that he's ready to hear it?

Before someone says something like 'if he looks at you a lot in class' we are not in highschool we are both in our mid 20's.
Thank you!
and i realize 5 months is not a very long time

2006-11-14 07:28:21 · 3 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

do I call the number from his phone to see how she answers or from another phone? do I ask how she knows my huband?

2006-11-14 07:27:39 · 21 answers · asked by 2STUPID 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are in our twenties and have been together 3 and half years

2006-11-14 07:27:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a long distance relationship,I truely love him but he doesnt even care about me.though this break up is extremely painful which may even cost my life.i need to break the silence and tell him that i cant tolerate his negligence anymore.i can move on only if i can make this break up official by letting him know that its really over than to keep quiet and suffer for a long time by keeping bitter secret inside my heart.i very badly need to get off of him.Honestly,i dont want to give him the right to destroy me coz i consider myself valuable.please suggest me a best way to break up without causing any kind of humiliation.coz the memory of this break up should be sweet in future.please help.

2006-11-14 07:27:18 · 15 answers · asked by Sheeth 5 in Singles & Dating

text me at badnana14@yahoo.com

2006-11-14 07:26:10 · 7 answers · asked by badgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Can a mutually agreed divorce settlement specify the non-resident child parent to have joint custody, but also pay 0% child support? The parent with the child residence makes 3-4x the income of the other parent and has agreed to 0% child support in lieu of a less than 50/50 split of the assets. Will the judge demand child support be paid?

This is in Texas.

2006-11-14 07:24:55 · 7 answers · asked by Texas 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a married woman.. my brother in law & I have a mutual attraction & have lightly flirted in the past.. I never thought much of it until this weekend when we all went out to the bar & drank alot.. he was telling me how sexy I am & kissing my neck and saying one day we would have sex and so on.. his wife was there and drunk as well and everyone I know thinks that most of the flirting we have done has been innocent (i thought so too until now)anyway on the way home hes like"your gonna get me into so much trouble"and was touching my leg the problem with this whole thing besides the obvious is that I LOVED it.. Im sure it had a lot to do with my ego (its always nice to know you are wanted) we talked after & he said he still loves his wife but there is something between us &then on Monday said he could not live with the guilt & didnt want to do anything about it..I know that he is right the thing is..I cant stop thinking about him..its wrecking my sex life & marriage how do I get over it

2006-11-14 07:24:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Its feeling of being in love,I lust over different men often.For example 2 or 3 men a day.What can i do ? WHY DOES IT HAPPEN TO ME ? i don't sleep around with men.ANY ADVICE ?I'M DESPERATE ?

2006-11-14 07:24:15 · 19 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Singles & Dating