my boyfriend, who has a hard time communicating his feelings, approached me recently and asked my thoughts on marriage. i would like to in the future, but he has clearly stated he does not believe in marriage, that he shouldn't have to get married to commit to someone. He has been engaged in the past, but been hurt in these relationships. i don't know if his unwillingness to get married is due to past problems, or if he is testing me to see if i will still commit to him regardless of his beliefs. he brings up marriage subtly now and then, in little ways i happen to notice. I can accept if he doesn't want to get married, but i can't help but to wonder if perhaps he has other intentions in the future, and is testing me? please help, i would really appreciate someone's opinions, thank you!
2006-11-14
06:53:09
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nightwolf
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Marriage & Divorce