our child, I also adimt to lying to the counclier and stealing numerous items from the store. can she use this in court for a divorce hearing concerning custody over our newborn son. Could i just say it is not mine? She has police reports to back her claims but I can say she is lying cause she is bipolar right?
2006-11-14 06:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She can and I hope she does use it against you.
2006-11-14 06:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by crash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she can use this in court. Does it have your signature?? It's kind of hard to say it's not yours if it matches your handwriting. Also, I don't think that you saying she is lying is going to matter when she has a police report. She's smart for leaving you in the first place if you hit her. You shouldn't have custody over your son without seeking counceling first. Obviously you have some rage issues and you will not have his best interest at heart. If you feel like you have grown past this point and are better now you should see a psycologist before the hearing and get something from him stating that you are ok and that he thinks it would be ok for you to have custody of your child. This would be a big step in not only impressing the judge that you have done this ahead of time but it would also let you know whether or not a professional thinks you are ok. I think this would be a good idea. I know it's expensive but what is money when you love your children? Good luck and I hope you are ok and are past this anger thing.
2006-11-14 15:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you deny that you wrote a paper and you did it by hand then it can be proven in the court that you lie on stand, and nothing is more serious in the eye of the judge then not telling the truth. It may be contempt of Court and heavy fine or even time in the jail. You may not get the single custody of the child but you may get visitation rights if you are able to convince the court that the you are have changed and that you regret things from the past. Her being bipolar does not make her liar nor bad mother.
2006-11-14 15:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she can and better still she should use it against you. In your present state, you should not have any custody of your newborn son, and visitation should be supervised, if any are allowed. You need to be in counselling, and to be honest with the counsellor. I hope and pray that you are barred from seeing your child. How dare you strike her and yell at her, and worse still, how dare you do it in front of your child. You just think that because your son is a newborn that he won't remember, well I think that he will always remember, and just know that you are a horrible person. You need to get help and fast.
2006-11-14 15:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you wrote it, its in your hand writing. She can use it against you and probably will. Come clean to the councelor (the same one or get a new one of your own)
Just because she has a mental illness doesn't mean you are the better parent. She isn't the one doing all the lying and stealing!
2006-11-14 14:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by buggerhead 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to add more to the "moral inventory" lying and blaming are just 2 more things. Why don't you step to the plate and when asked admit that these things were done but you want to seek anger management for it. Don't keep the cycle going.
2006-11-14 14:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by fyrechick 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's in your handwriting? She can use it along with the police reports and her sanity will not matter, especially if she's being treated for her mental disorder. You'd be lucky if she chose to give you split custody.
2006-11-14 14:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
any man who hits a women is not a man and deserves to go to jail or loose rights to his child
2006-11-14 16:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by crystal u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do belive that she can use that against you in court. due to the fact that you admit to hitting her they can say that you are a danger to the baby. you may have to have supervised visitation!
2006-11-14 14:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sure can use it. And if shes smart she will. and just because your bipolar doesn't mean your a liar!
YOU don't deserve to have the kids you womanizing bastard!!
2006-11-14 15:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by kayla0428 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋