I was dating this man for 6 months it was serious been on several trips together have a lot in common etc.. During the time we have dated he we have been off and on because of him breaking up with me off and on and his off and on drug problem. He is foreign and was out of the country for a month visiting family.We were broke up before he left but he begged to see me and we spent the last 3 days he was here together and he called me when he was out of town.He said things would change but the last conversation we had didn't go well and I am just tired of all the things he's put me through.I have deep feelings for him but I need to get out of this and he is coming back today.I haven't heard from him since our last conversation because the phone disconnected but if he calls how should I handle this? How should I end it?If I see him agin all the feelings will just come back but i need to talk to him in person.I have also met someone.
2006-11-14 06:52:08 · 12 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't go back into that, stay with the new relationship and give that a chance. tell your boyfriend the truth and tell him why. than don't see him, or date him, keep distance between u and him.when we go into any relationship, we need to know if we can trust that person, rely on that person, and we must look at a person's track record, and past. are we truly safe with this person or will they eventually drag us down to their level.
2006-11-14 13:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 02:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-01-28 11:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't changes, then more than likely he won't. You need to cut ties with him, it sounds like a self-destructing relationship to me. I was with someone for 2 1/2 years, thought we had a great relationship, he kicked me out when I was 8 months pregnant. Wanted me back 3 months after giving birth, but I was with someone else, and I told him he had his chance. Didn't look back, and ended up with a great guy(hubby). The moral of the story, if you keep playing in this game, one day you will wake up miserable, and you could miss that great guy who would have given you the world. I say, let this die. You will get over it, eventually. He seems to keep you hanging because you make it too easy for him. Good luck! :)
2006-11-14 07:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for sounding so harsh, but what is it with all you ladies putting up with a drug problem and the financial burden that goes with that? Can't you find someone in life that wants to WORK for a living and provide the nice things in life by WORKING FOR IT!!!! Get away from him, why do you owe him a nice lengthy explanation and break? He doesn't seem to feel any obligation to you to change his ways!!!! You don't owe him anything either. Good luck, get out there and find a decent man who is willing to WORK and provide. That is a foundation you can build on.
2006-11-14 07:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by deputydawg23usa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Many girls break up with their significant others, is because they need time to figure things out. Don't take it personally, if you want her back, you have to show her you can help her. If you love her then you'll let her go, that's it. Not everybody who you date in high school you end up staying with, the chances are extremely unlikely. So if she doesn't want to, then you need to let her go.
2014-10-18 15:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-12 07:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still have feelings for your ex they are just that only feelings
feelings come and go so just because you have feelings for some one doesnt mean things are going to work out for you and that person and its not fare to the other guy i think you should try geting over your ex before starting a new relationship with some one els
the new guy will not be getting all of you he will also be getting your ex too so if you are done with the ex be done with him
2006-11-14 07:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by tony b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that you should stop seeing him. the relationship is not that strong if you have been off and on already. if you have found someone else that treats you good i think that you should end it with the one guy and go ahead and see what can happen with you and the new guy!
2006-11-14 06:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. Keep your mind busy and you wont start feeling again. Remember as soon as you see his face WHY you are not together. Remember "all the things he put you through"
2006-11-14 06:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋