I had sex with a girl named Mell and the next day she call me saying she wasnt looking for a relationship so I said ok ill respect that and give you time... But I really wanted to say to her "are you just looking for a sex buddy because Iam fine with that"
From my eyes it seems like that... Where still good friends aswhile and she enjoys me being around because I make her feel good and I cheer her up all the time she says. But I dont want to sound like the only reason I was around her because I wanted sex.
So how can I bring something up like that in a mature way...?
2006-11-14 06:48:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bone buddies
you are one lucky man
truly truly i say unto thee
2006-11-14 06:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 03:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by duperne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually you missed your window of opportunity already.i would suggest that the next time you two get intimate that is when you bring it,the whole situation,like are we just sex buddies or what ever.
2006-11-14 06:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by alexander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... you got urself a sex buddy... now dont screw it up...
u dont talk about it unless ur joking around... dont call her out to be a slut... just go with it... ur not going out with her so still hit on other chicks and try to get with other girls... when she wants to get with you... (if u did her right) she will come back... im sure u did too so dont stress about it...
have fun with it... dont think about it too much... and ull be fine
2006-11-14 06:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by stratis c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no mature way to discuss that because it is not a mature relationship!!!
2006-11-14 06:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Patti T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound more mature than she is....cheap s*x wont last
you can talk but why waste time on someone so shallow?
2006-11-14 06:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the mature way is to say it openly...don't stoll...grow up!! it's normal
2006-11-14 06:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sabs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a horny little monkey like me . Go for it .
Stay safe , have fun !!
2006-11-14 06:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by cant fight the feeling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋