Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

If half of what I have is her's and half of what she has in mine, then half the sex is mine.

If I want sex every day, but she doesn't then at least I should get it every other day?

If she gets to keep sex from me, then I should be able to keep something from her?

What are your thoughts?

2006-11-14 07:24:13 · 18 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I have a 8yr. old boy. We were never married and when we split we agreed on the amount of child support he'd pay. So, we've never done anything through court. Four years ago he was accepted into dental school and now is getting ready to graduate and move back home. I started back to school this last semester. My husband (of three years) and I are seperated and looking at divorse. Now that I am a single mom of 3 and working full time and going back to school..my mom suggested that when my 1st ex graduates that I should reanalize the amount he pays and consider him to pay more. I know that when he graduates he will only be paying less than a third of what he could be forced to pay if I wanted to do it legally through court. But, I don't know that I have the balls to ask him to pay more. Any good advice?

2006-11-14 07:23:20 · 1 answers · asked by justme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 07:22:40 · 15 answers · asked by onebadpenguin13 2 in Weddings

My bf and I have lived in the same home for 3 years, have had a child together...yet he still has issues with a stupid trailer park skank he dated like several years ago, because she cheated on him (he cheated on her as well) He thinks I will cheat and ALWAYS accuses me even to this day. He thinks all women are the same...I have been with 2 men in 26 years...Im not a slut!
how can I make him or convince him him to get her out of his mind??? Hell shes even married!

2006-11-14 07:22:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are stuck in a room for 24 hours! We could do what ever we wanted to. What do we do?

2006-11-14 07:21:59 · 6 answers · asked by lightsabre91 1 in Singles & Dating

Granted guys are horny all the time, but sometimes we are more hornier than other times. Can you tell? IF you can, is that a turn on or turn off?

2006-11-14 07:21:37 · 12 answers · asked by Sammyp 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so today i got this really bad migrane. and i started crying in the Locker Room at my schoool... So like quite a few girlls saw me crying...then when i went to talk to my teacher these two guys could see i had been crying but they dont know why. and then i waited outside a classroom and this kid i hate who hates me saw me.........and i was then crying again so.... I guess my question is...........If they make fun of me for crying - the girls know why - like what should i do/say to them? Do you think theyd make fun of me or something

2006-11-14 07:21:08 · 6 answers · asked by smartypantsleen 3 in Friends

I will leave it up to the public to decide whom I should call. I have two phone numbers. One from a 26 year old woman who is 5'2" and from her picture looks pretty sharp. On her profile she said she was average. She is a chef and wants to open her own restaurant and she has seven tatoos and two peircings. She has no kids. The second is a 28 year old college student who just got divorced and has three little girls. Her picture looks good and on her profile it reads 5'3" and extra pounds. I can't tell from the photo because she's wearing black. She is 75% Italian. Oh and she is going to be a Journalist. Now my question to you is who would be the one for me to call? They both want me to call but I don't want to cause any problems if I don't like them. Who would you pick??

2006-11-14 07:20:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My divorce was filed last week... Finally! How long does it take for a divorce to get final? What is the fastest and what is the slowest?

2006-11-14 07:19:33 · 8 answers · asked by angelic1302 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this stuff has gone too far I hate it. Im 19 years old and my sis is 18. I know its not much of an age difference but im the older and i should get treated like that, but i dont. Im quiet and not that talkative and my sis is kinda loud and more outgoin. She always tries to protect me and i hate it. Everyone looks at her as bein my big sister like im weak or sometin and they make it seem like she has to protect me. Lets jus put it this way she gets more respect than me. My mom always treats her like shes older, she even talked bout buyin her a car before me and didnt even offer to help me buy one. How do i get this to change? I already confronted them about it but they take like its no big deal but to me it is. I want more respect, should i be more outgoin? What should i do?

2006-11-14 07:19:20 · 15 answers · asked by John 2 in Family

My colors are Royal Blue and Silver, any ideas for a wedding theme?

2006-11-14 07:18:30 · 13 answers · asked by Tamekia Anderson 4 in Weddings

2006-11-14 07:18:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he e-mailed me nest day and said sorry (I supposed he thought he hurt my feelings, don't really know why he thinks that), I said "it's ok, nothing to say sorry for, just the opposite way round". I don't know who should make the same turn, I felt it was me but I didn't because I wasn't sure I wanted to go out with him, but now I know I think I would and he doesn't call, do you think it's my fault?

2006-11-14 07:17:12 · 4 answers · asked by south e 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 07:16:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for a little over 3 years now. He is so wonderful. We have our disagreements but nothing horrible. He works incredibly hard and often comes home tired. My best friend and her husband have been married for 6 years. They are more like roommates that have sex. She confides in me all the time about how she loves him but feels as if he is tired of her. She is always jokingly telling my husband that he is "whipped" because he takes care of my needs so well. ( But I do the same for him.) She tells me everything about her life, as I do with mine. We were the very best of friends. Since her husband works overnight frequently, she spends the night at my home often. She sleeps on the couch and my husband with me in our room. Yesterday however my husband fell asleep on the couch so she slept on his side of the bed, instead. I woke up around 5 a.m and saw she was gone, figuring she was inthe bathroom i tried to go back to sleep but something felt wrong.

2006-11-14 07:16:49 · 40 answers · asked by notme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like me Im five nine and a half, 127 pounds, blue green eyes, brown hair, nice skin, 27 inch waist, 36c chest....is this to big for you???

2006-11-14 07:16:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at first i was thinkin of breakin up now he is, i thought we were doing good, now he's tired of us fighting, and he thinks our ages have something to do with it...(I'm 16 he's 20)....i don't want it to end though i love him so much, we have been together for a little over 11 months, y end it now, i don't want to, i want to work it out, i think one main reason is because i am not understanding i always want to see him or talk to him on the phone, and now im ready to change, but how should i let him know before its too late? i love him and i don't want to lose him, should we stay together or should we slipt up, right now were on a break until this weekend and he said he'd let me know what he wants to do. i will go crazy if we break up, but i don't want him to hurt no more and i dont want to lose him. what should we do? he also said he don't think that he loves me as much as he used to anymore because of how much we fight. please help, please!!!

2006-11-14 07:15:39 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My in-laws have been married for nearly 40 years. What do you get people who literally have everything they want? Gift cards are out of the question.

2006-11-14 07:15:04 · 8 answers · asked by herbestgirl 2 in Family

2006-11-14 07:14:34 · 6 answers · asked by abc 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I always knew my boyfriend has watched porn, but I didn't realize how frequently until recently. He gets really upset and defensive when I try to talk to him, and tell him how porn makes me feel bad and weird, and so its kind of a closed door issue because we just end up in a stalemate argument. He claims 95% of guys watch a lot of porn. Is this really true? Are all men into porn? I just don't get it because I try really hard to please my boyfriend sexually, and we see each other really frequently so its not like he's not getting enough in real life! I just feel like I'm not enough for him or something. Isn't it normal for me to feel this way? I feel wary because even though he's admitted he watches often, its not like I know when or what...it just all feels so secretive and icky. I can't help but wonder if he's into kinkier things and he doesn't want to tell me, or if he's fantasizing about other things while were having sex. When I question those things aloud he gets real

2006-11-14 07:14:08 · 33 answers · asked by neverneverland 4 in Singles & Dating

Sometime I think I am not the only one. I never told him that I have fallen in love with him because I am scared he is the first man I ever dating in my city for that long period of time. He is 18 years older than me I am 23. I don't wanna waste my time with someone who really don'tlove me the way I love him. How do I know he love me without him lieing. What are do signs.

2006-11-14 07:14:07 · 10 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am prepared to break into his house and steal some of his expensive stuff to break even. How can I be subtle and assertive at the same time?

2006-11-14 07:13:50 · 7 answers · asked by Obi-wan Kenobi 4 in Family

Sometime I think I am not the only one. I never told him that I have fallen in love with him because I am scared he is the first man I ever dating in my city for that long period of time. He is 18 years older than me I am 23. I don't wanna waste my time with someone who really don'tlove me the way I love him. How do I know he love me without him lieing. What are do signs.

2006-11-14 07:13:44 · 5 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Singles & Dating

I meet this guy at school and he would hit on me and told me he liked me. I told him that I had a boyfriend and that I loved him a lot. We then became friends, but my boyfriend found out he used to like me. He told me to stop talking to him, but he still calls me. He doesn't hit on me anymore and his a nice friend. What do you guys think? Is it cheating? I wouldn't do anything with him his just a friend.

2006-11-14 07:12:47 · 14 answers · asked by PiZzA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

according to you.
GUYS ONLY.

2006-11-14 07:12:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this man is my house mate. but has been in one other relationship for less than 5 year and even propose to her. he say they not together any more. im confused because he is still married

2006-11-14 07:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by purple 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 07:11:27 · 6 answers · asked by Adel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend died.

2006-11-14 07:11:22 · 14 answers · asked by amarie5137 2 in Friends

When we got married, I was still going to church, but had some doubts. Over the course of the next 5-6 years, after a lot of soul searching I realized that religion just didn't make sense to me and that I no longer believed in God. I shared with my wife about every step of my journey, even though I could see that it upset her that I no longer believe.

Now we've been married 11 years and it still bothers her a great deal. She still cries about it. It causes a lot of friction between us. But I can't pretend to believe something I don't, and even if I could I respect her too much to lie about it.

I'm not interested in re-finding my faith, so don't suggest that, but what can we do to accept that we don't have the same spiritual beliefs anymore without it driving a wedge between us?

2006-11-14 07:11:12 · 13 answers · asked by Steven S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have friend who told me to see if his girlfriend is cheating on him he told me to check it out because she is in 1 of my classes..

Ok first she is always talking to this guy in my biology class and they always pick each other as lab partners and they sit at lunch together and talk to together.

So is she cheating on my friend John.

2006-11-14 07:10:46 · 30 answers · asked by San s 1 in Singles & Dating