at first i was thinkin of breakin up now he is, i thought we were doing good, now he's tired of us fighting, and he thinks our ages have something to do with it...(I'm 16 he's 20)....i don't want it to end though i love him so much, we have been together for a little over 11 months, y end it now, i don't want to, i want to work it out, i think one main reason is because i am not understanding i always want to see him or talk to him on the phone, and now im ready to change, but how should i let him know before its too late? i love him and i don't want to lose him, should we stay together or should we slipt up, right now were on a break until this weekend and he said he'd let me know what he wants to do. i will go crazy if we break up, but i don't want him to hurt no more and i dont want to lose him. what should we do? he also said he don't think that he loves me as much as he used to anymore because of how much we fight. please help, please!!!
2006-11-14 07:15:39 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he broke up with me today so just forget everything, thanks anyways
2006-11-14 09:51:02 · update #1
have you stopped to think that maybe u're suffocating the poor guy? I felt so claustrophobic just by reading about ur issue! Before u can 'love' someone u have to start by loving urself because it seems like without this guy u feel as if u're worthless. Love is not clingy. Love is not insecure. Happiness is not dependable on men alone. If this guy was able to 'love' u at one point...what makes u think the next best thing isn't? Take care girl!
2006-11-14 07:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Diana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason on Earth that a 20 year old guy should go out with a 16 year old girl, break up with him, you shouldn't have gone out with him in the first place
2006-11-14 16:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let this guy go. first of all, isn't it illegal for him to be dating you in the first place? well that aside, you need to experiance life more and just have fun. your still hella young so just have fun. i know it'll be hard but the best revenge on someone is to live your life to the fullest. if you sit there and be miserable all it does is confirm everything he sees. have some respect for yourself and live your life because it's not going to wait for you.
2006-11-14 15:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him kiss your *** and there is plenty of guys who would BEG to just be able to spend time with you....then go find one! And dont pick perves like the guy above that says to date him...find someone who you think will honestly care about you and your heart
2006-11-14 15:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I thought it was illegal to go with someone that is an adult and ur still a teen. O well try to compromise.
2006-11-14 15:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by Shearson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 16, you don't know what love is yet! The best is yet to come.
2006-11-14 15:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, break up with him, and then start dating me.
2006-11-14 15:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋