Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now, in the beginning there was a incident that went badly ( badly but not unforgivable, poor judgement camping and meeting new people - more drinking then should have occurred ) and some of my family and friends now don't care for him.....lets be real don't like him at all!
My sister is getting married in April of 07 and she just informed me that her future husband has said my boyfriend is not welcome at her wedding !! * GASP *
I am the maid of honor and my boyfriend is the one that measured me for my dress and we talked about how fun it was going to be to get dressed up together and do the wedding thing and get our pictures taken and how great the place they are getting married is, and how fun its going to be!

How am I suppose to tell him hes not allowed to be there now??
Am I being selfish here, after all its not my wedding !!

2006-11-14 07:59:48 · 18 answers · asked by Silly Mouse 3 in Weddings

i have a 46 yr old boy friend, that i guess thinks im crazy,what i would like to know is the strip clubs in g,ville sc do the girls go all the way in those private rooms when a man gets a 50 dollar dance or what? he tells me they only do sexy dances, please someone help me on this he tells me he does nothing wrong when he visits the strip bars in g,ville sc, i,m 36 been with him 19months is it worth the wonders i have in my mind?

2006-11-14 07:58:56 · 9 answers · asked by freemeimok 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what can i do to slow it down? this is SO embarrassing. i am in my 30s, but i still *** superfast. sometimes before intercourse and it never lasts more than a minute or 2 what can i do?!?!?

it is so humiliating when this happens with a new partner....

2006-11-14 07:58:17 · 11 answers · asked by superfastbob 1 in Singles & Dating

My Father in Law is rich. when I met his son he was living in a scary apmt & I came with the $ into the marriage & NEVER asked for a thing. I sold my 2 houses & we bought a house together. (By together I mean he didn't contribute, not that I care because I don't, it is just a fact.) Anyway, Father in Law and mother in law are still married and have multi properties. The "farm" is 400+ acres where their kids grew up. The mother in law says to me on the phone one day that if HE died she would sell it off. So I say (by the way my husbands ex in laws live next to this "farm") if you sell it off, it will break my hubby's heart. He sees his kids (Not mine) and grand kids growing up there. So months later we are there at the "Farm" for Easter and the drunk Father in law tells me to keep my eyes off of his Farm! And that when He dies he might leave it to the boy scouts of america. HE has never appologised . We have been invited to the Farm for Thanksgiving, do we go?

2006-11-14 07:57:45 · 9 answers · asked by goodflgirl2k 2 in Family

She has been making dress for years, but never a full wedding dress. I worried about how long it will take.
Has anyone ever made there wedding dress? How long did it take? My wedding date is February 23, 2008.
When should we get started on making it?

Thanks!!

2006-11-14 07:57:27 · 12 answers · asked by camille 1 in Weddings

Possible to get him back?
Me and this guy met a while ago and we never really discussed what eachother wanted. I just got out of a relationship and needed some space but never told him I kind of wanted to just sleep with him. He started to have feelings for me. I started sleeping with some guys behind his back because I feel that I can do what I want. He is sensitive and didnt take to this too well. He hasnt talked to me for an extended period of time and i try to at least be friends with him. He doesnt talk to me at ALL!!! Now that he has left me I feel that I need him. He is being mean to me and I am starting to be a ***** back by telling him i dont care if he ever talks to me again. Now i am friends with a lot of his friends and want to know if there is any way I can go about this should I just let it go or just give it time? Is there any way I can get my way out of this?

2006-11-14 07:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by xZDFghfdzS 1 in Singles & Dating

I am thinking of having children to please my husband if releases me for any financial obligations for them if we get divorced. He is kind, considerate, and loving but I don't want the burden of a baby. Due to stressful jobs, long commutes and our busy schedules we get two hours together a day and our house is a disaster. We are only intimate 1-2 times/week. I don't want to be a milk machine. He thinks I can be mom/wife/grad student/ladder climber at the same time. I am open to adopting an older child, but he is not. He doesn't want to get a divorce and is willing to give up fatherhood, but will resent me if I don't fulfil his dream. I would be more open to the idea if we were financially comfortable or if my education was complete, but he wants children now. His low self-esteem keeps making excuses to not look for a better job or not to get an education himself to provide more money. I gave up all of my hobbies and postponed my education to be with him. Should I give up?

2006-11-14 07:56:27 · 12 answers · asked by BigD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible to be totally in love with someone and hate things that they do? Im in love but i hate this womans friends, lifestyle, morals, everything......is that sick or what?

2006-11-14 07:56:18 · 8 answers · asked by rr_comix 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for a little while as of now. We both got into the relationship because we were looking for something serious. I have a dilemna I have changed my myspace status from "single" to "in a relationship" he has yet to do this. I tried to make a comment about it the other day but he didn't respond. Should I say something to him or should I stop worrying about it? I know its kinda stupid to even worry about but I worry that it could mean he doesn't yet claim me in other areas of his life as well. Please Help!

2006-11-14 07:55:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The average cost of the engage ring in Japan is the three times of your monthly salary.

2006-11-14 07:55:39 · 13 answers · asked by kotae_oshiete 1 in Weddings

i would love to find someone who wont play games and someone who has potential and that is going to college like me

2006-11-14 07:55:32 · 1 answers · asked by derrick_green19 1 in Singles & Dating

We are getting married in Vegas, and will have friends and family coming to join us. I would like to find a nice place for everyone to get together after the wedding to eat, and was wondering about a good place for this. I am thinking either a restaurant, or even a nice buffet. I would like to keep my cost to about $20/per person (yeah, I'm cheap...I'm getting married in Vegas) and will have a party of about 30-40.

I'm pretty informal, and would like someplace "cool" versus some place fancy. Any recommendations on places to check with for a reservation?

2006-11-14 07:54:52 · 7 answers · asked by rhanalynn 3 in Weddings

Okay, okay. so i have a crush. he has blonde shaggy hair with big hazel eyes. hes skater but doesnt dress like it. hes totally hott and hes next to my bffs locker. sometimes he smiles at me but other times he acts very mean to me. One day in algebra he and his friend were sitting together. I heard him and his friend talking and the friend said and pointed at me"go out with her. how do know for sure if he likes me if we arent even friends?

2006-11-14 07:54:26 · 9 answers · asked by Michele 1 in Singles & Dating

First of all he's 27 & she's 18 what does she have over me or was it out of pity he supposed to be her mentor he tells me it was an accident and that she made the first move and it's the first time it has happened.... should i believe him

2006-11-14 07:53:50 · 33 answers · asked by terrybogle 2 in Singles & Dating

please don't report this question, if you're too uncomfortable then just don't answer, but i'm confused, i haven't done anything but my vagina feels weird, it feel itchy and strange do you know what's going on? my mom thinks it may be the thongs i wear agitating it but i don't think so...what do you think?

2006-11-14 07:53:30 · 20 answers · asked by ~sexybiatch~ 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend moved in with me 2 years ago. Shortly after, I started heaing from my landlord that is this guy from her school keep on coming to visit my girlfriend and they spent time together in my house. I didn't think big of it because it could be just a rumor. When I and my girlfriend made a trip to a neighboring island for a private vacation, he followed. I felt very odd and start asking her questions about him. She just told me he is just a concerned friend. I didn't buy the story. I told her to pack up and move out of the house. I started thinking i did a wrong thing to her out of my own suspicion. I asked her to come back and she agreed. I never got to find out the truth because she won't say it. Few months ago, her best friend told me that she has been asking him to sleep with her for a long time. She denied it all initially. she told me what my landlord was saying was true. Against all the things i have given and done for her...... What should i do?

2006-11-14 07:53:04 · 13 answers · asked by confusedagain 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-14 07:53:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently met someone who makes me completely happy and whom I have a lot of things in common with. I love his conversation ad we have a great time together. Now the thing is we just got together not too long ago...i would say about 2 1/2 months ago. I really care about him and we have a great chemistry. I don't want to rush into things because my relationship failed because we rushed. I'm not sure what to do at this point. I have a lot of emotions running through me at one time. HELP...!!!

2006-11-14 07:52:36 · 4 answers · asked by choklate_princess85 1 in Singles & Dating

about 2 years ago i hurt my arm.and it dosent work right.or look the same. when people find out its seeya. there should be a free dating sight for disabled. and parshely disabled people! after all its just my hand.

2006-11-14 07:52:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married almost 5 years, living together for seven years, and together for 10 years total. no children, but a 80 lb golden retriever whom we acquired together when the dog was a puppy. my husband has an engineering undergrad degree and a MBA from a prestigious university. he earns 6 figures plus annually. i have been in grad school throughout most of our marriage and only working part time. he has paid the majority of expenses over the years. we have no debt and about $200K in assets (mutual funds, IRA, stocks, etc). we own no real estate. we live in nj, a community property state. if we divorce, will i be entitled to half of our assets. we have no prenup. i am a designer and make considerably less than he does. please advise. thanks.

2006-11-14 07:52:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, what is the best revenge you ever got on a man who cheated on you? DETAILS, PLEASE! Men, if you had a cheating floozy, you can get in this too!

2006-11-14 07:51:57 · 10 answers · asked by marquella_la_nice 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my fiance have decided to get married out of country and I was wondering what the best way is for us to go about having a reception when we get back? Is there a certain amount of time you are expected to wait and are gifts out of the question?

2006-11-14 07:51:50 · 5 answers · asked by d☻min☺ 5 in Weddings

caitlin hates ally who hates caitlin as well i want to sit with them both but ally wont move and the table is to crouded so me and caitlin moved. ally is the tom boish never goina were a dress type and caitlin is the if i had a choice i would were a prom dress everyday ally has been my friend since last year and caitlin since 3rd grade ( i am in the 8th grade) help

2006-11-14 07:51:13 · 12 answers · asked by ThePlotTacoKiller 1 in Friends

My fiance and I are getting married in June 2007 and we are trying to decide where to go on our Honeymoon. Which is the better deal... Bahamas, Grand Cayman, or Hawaii..... We get two free round trip tickets to any of these.. Which would you suggest?

2006-11-14 07:50:57 · 7 answers · asked by mattsbaby125 3 in Weddings

Essentially, which is more important to you love or sex?

2006-11-14 07:50:31 · 21 answers · asked by radiancia 6 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband are more than 99% sure that we are going to split up after Christmas. We are waiting until after Xmas to make Christmas for our little boy more enjoyable.

He doesn't seem to know anything is wrong between us as we are very good actors and most conflicts are only aired when he is sound asleep. (I know-he will pick up on the environment etc)

My question is, how the hell do I tell my 4 year old son that Daddy is leaving?
I obviously understand that the truth as to why isnt an option (unfailthful husband-Bastard!!) as he is not old enough to phycologically deal with all that adult stuff, I just don't know what I will say when he asks the inevitable question "Why???"

Please help me as I am wanting to do things right and be the strong mum that he will need me to be........I have promised myself that although I will be in pieces inside I will stay strong for my little man, he doesn't deserve this anymore than I do!!

Answers on a postcard please........

2006-11-14 07:50:26 · 13 answers · asked by desperate housewife!!! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He works with the girl. I even beat her up once and broke my hand cause I hit her soo hard! She keeps text messaging him, he has told her to stop. Should I say something to her or just leave it alone?

2006-11-14 07:50:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 07:49:14 · 28 answers · asked by enochsangel 4 in Singles & Dating

i 'm 26 w/a baby on the way on 12/23/06 and i dont have a job and my mom gets on my nerves. and i cant stand her. i'm ganna be a good father.(i'm using my moms computer right now..thank's from mikey

2006-11-14 07:48:59 · 16 answers · asked by dounut 3 in Family

2006-11-14 07:48:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating