i 'm 26 w/a baby on the way on 12/23/06 and i dont have a job and my mom gets on my nerves. and i cant stand her. i'm ganna be a good father.(i'm using my moms computer right now..thank's from mikey
2006-11-14 07:48:59 · 16 answers · asked by dounut 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe you won't like to hear this but it sounds like you have a mo who is looking out for you and your unborn child. It is hard to be happy when she is worried for you and the baby. Been there done that! My dad didn't talk to me the entire time I was preggo. Not because he wasn't happy or I didn't have a job but because he thought it was bad timing in my life and I wasn't stable enough. Let her vent...get a job...show her some responsibility! Good luck...Con grates!
2006-11-14 07:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by bbmk333 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has it ever occured to you that the only reason you think she's getting on your nerves is because your not doing anything with your life. You don't have a job, you have a baby on the way, and then you tell us your using your mom's computer right now. Do you know how sorry that sounds for a man your age??? Try getting a job before this baby arrives. How can you start off as a good father if you don't even have a job that pays money so that you can support this baby??? Get your priorities straight before you start talking like you do. Where's the respect for your mom as well??? You live in her house, you eat her food, you pay no bills, and then you have the nerve to say you can't stand her??? If I was her, your sorry butt would have been gone long time ago. Your tool old to still be at home with "Momma".
2006-11-14 16:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you seem a little education. Besides if you put your business on the Internet, then no one will know your business. Ever heard of spell check. Go back to school and then get a job. D*mn you are 26 with no job and using your mom's computer.
2006-11-14 15:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of people think that they have the answers whether they are asked or not. And a lot of times they are concerned for the person and so stick their noses in when not appreciated. If at 26 you aren't working and are about to have a child then perhaps your mom is just trying to say get a job, be responsible and grow up. I don't know other than that.
2006-11-14 15:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you are going to be a good father. What does it take to be a good father? Have you been a good son? Do you have a business that you can mind? Who is going to have this baby for you? Are you married to her? Does she live with you in your mom's house? Does she have a job? Why can't you stand your mom? Do you think this baby of yours can stand you if and when it grows up?
And finally, do yourself a favour - learn how to write in English.
2006-11-14 18:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by lycia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're using mum's computer to slam her because she wishes you to finally get a job and support a family?
I'll try to be gentle , GET A JOB you freaking slug.
Its hard to convince anyone that you are ganna be a good
father when you cannot buy the kid a roof or food.
2006-11-14 15:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are unable to provide yourself with a computer, it makes me wonder if you will be able to provide for your child and its mother. You obviously can't spell, nor use spell check, so this may explain your joblessness. Newsflash, it is your mom's business what you do with your life, as long as you are depending on her for ANYTHING!!! If you were an independent, self-sufficient adult, your mom would probably be fine with your impending fatherhood.
Get a job, get off your ***, and start setting a good example for your child NOW!
2006-11-14 19:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by alicia0821 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mikey,
Unfortunately there are too many people who do not have a life of their own so they try to live off yours. You must remember......whenever you tell anyone your business you are inviting them into your personal life. Whether it be your mom, sister, brother,friend, etc,. It literally kills some people when they don't know the latest that is going on in your life but you must decide if you are going to deal with people judging you if tell them your personal business or just remain silent.
2006-11-14 15:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you just want the whole your right your mamma's wrong thing forget it, get off your butt and find a job to support your family. no doubt you will be a good dad but really, you need a job whether or not you have a child, stop criticizing your mom if your still on HER computer.
2006-11-14 15:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by dbobb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mikey, how can you provide for your child w/o a job? I bet you still live w/mommy. Grow up & get a job, you're 26!!
2006-11-14 15:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by MEYost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋