Family & Relationships - 14 November 2006

i get scared to talk to him thinking that he dont know how to do the things i want him to do or maybe he is going to think differently about me

2006-11-14 08:35:59 · 16 answers · asked by caroline41091 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my husband for 2 years and we have a 10 month old girl. He's a great guy and a good dad, the only thing bad about his is 1) he has a very bad temper and hits things (walls, not me) and 2) he doesn't work. I know it's a big deal, I was working when I was 5-7 months pregant and he wasn't! I think the prob is that his dad was a dead beat and left him and his mom when my hubby was 3 years old and my husbands dad lives 30 min away his whole live and never tired to see my husband. I love my husband very much and don't wanna leave him, I just need him to get a job! My dad offered him a job of doing wherehouse and making $100 a day but my husband who is white said " I'm not a spick" BTW, me and his daughter are hicpanic. I don't wanna leave but I don't think I have another choice. My hubby wants to be a pro wrestler, but who knows how long that would take and if he would even make it.

2006-11-14 08:35:16 · 25 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im new to this Question/Answer thing, and I hope it is a place where maybe you guys and girls can help me around a little..ill promise ill help in return.. :) thats what friends are for... so yea anyways, 5 months ago, i met a friend on a online game called "StarCraft". We ended up being BEST of friends.. jokes, real talks, there for another, aiding another...and more.. but recently I we kind of gotten into a arguement, and he stoped signing on Yahoo, and also the game. Now i think he might have deleted me from his account or made another one, cause whenever I e-mailed him, I have gotten no response at all :( :( :(.
Worst part is, he lives in NewJersey, JerseyCity, and I live in Toronto Ontario Canada. I REALLYYYY want to get across and speak to my bud, IM SORRY for all things i done to him.. i want him back in my life again :'(. He might have also blocked me on his MYspace, i tried msg him. Herez his link: http://www.myspace.com/thecalculator I really want him back. plz some1 help!

2006-11-14 08:34:47 · 3 answers · asked by Shawn Miller 1 in Friends

you love someone more than life but they dont kno do you tell them or do you spend yo life wondering wat if or spend yo life on shoulda coulda wouldas do you tell even if you dont kno if they feel the same but wat if this is the only man you ever loved wat if hes says lil things to you but you aint sure if he feels lik you da wat do you do????????????

2006-11-14 08:33:58 · 12 answers · asked by I still live wit the side effect 2 in Singles & Dating

wats the best time of the year to plan a wedding(winter, spring, summer, fall.) and wat r some really cheap but acceptable wedding stuff available(interior decorating, catering, photographing, etc.)

2006-11-14 08:33:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend of 5 months has a problem with me having male friends. He thinks that females dont have guys as friends. I have a friend who is in jail but I knew him long before he got locked up. I've known this guy for about 3 or 4 years. He was my sisters boyfriend before he got loccked up but he like my best friend. So when he got locked up I started writing him. He been in for almost two years and I'm still writing him. My boyfriend found one of the letters and was like what the f*ck is this. I explained to him that it was an old friend but he aint wanna hear that and told me to stop writing him. So I stoped for a minute but considering thats like the only person I have to really talk to other than my boyfriend it was hard not talking to him so I went to see. Was I wrong? I let my boyfriend know I was going to see him and he got so mad that he would not even talk to me for like a week. Is it right for me to cut off all my male friend to please him? What to do!?!

2006-11-14 08:33:27 · 11 answers · asked by Pumpkin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well there is this girl at school which i like a lot!but i don't even know her and we don't even go in the same class!what can i do to get near her and like, start talking or get to know her!help!(i hate the fact that she is always in company of other girls)

2006-11-14 08:33:25 · 11 answers · asked by sabino m 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiancee' and I disagree about how often we should be having sex. weve been together for 10yrs and have 2 kids (6 and 2) we both work full time. And to me its hard to make quality time t engage in love making, he will just want to do it anywhere at anytime, and i like the setting to be perfect.....I wouldnt mind doing it more often there just doesnt seem to be enoughh time. we have s e x on average 2-3 a month. and as all men he would like it 2-3 a day :) Plus he always expects me to initiate, but I feel like hes the one that wants it so often. he needs to initiate....?

2006-11-14 08:32:46 · 13 answers · asked by MixedQtee 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for a caterer in the San Diego, Mission Bay area to cater a reception of about 100 people next August, probably a Friday evening. The food would be simple and easy to eat as it will take place on the bay. I live about an hour and a half away so can meet up to arrange things.

Also, if they have tables, tableclothes, etc...that would be helpful but I can arrange otherwise. If you know anyone who might be interested in the business please let me know.

THANK YOU!

2006-11-14 08:32:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I told my close female friend how I felt about her and she said we should remain friends.She said it wouldn't feel right going further even though we both like each other and that she don't deserve my feelings.

We left on good terms,agreeing to remain friends always.Said she can't imagine me not being in\part of her life. After this happened I went quiet on her for over a week to clear my head!She txt me once asking why I went quiet and also txt my mate asking him. I got bck in touch on Monday and her reply mentioned nothing bout what I said(I like her more than a friend).

Will the friendship be the same??
What is she thinking\feeling??

Should I behave differently, will she behave differently?
Anything I should do to rectify what I said? Why do I feel guilty for telling her?

Advice,anyone be in a similar situation?

2006-11-14 08:32:11 · 14 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Friends

We separated and I gave her purse collection to strippers one night. It was quite the party!!! Designer purses were flying all over the place and the lap dances were unreal. We have since reconciled and is very upset her purses are gone. What should I tell her happened to them?

2006-11-14 08:32:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-14 08:31:58 · 5 answers · asked by Pretty_in_punk 1 in Family

I've been dating this guy for about 6 months. He says that he doesn't think that he will ever get married. He says it's not out of the question though. We are together every day and if we are apart he calls me at least twice a day to tell me he misses me. He always pays when we go out and he's even taken me on a couple of trips. He's introduced me to his family also. I really care about him a lot but at the same time I don't want to waste my time if nothing will ever come of it. My friends think I'm wearing him down and that one day he'll marry me. What do you think?

2006-11-14 08:31:54 · 1 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

someone or something. tell me about it, and tell me how it happened.

2006-11-14 08:31:43 · 1 answers · asked by Digi 1 in Friends

2006-11-14 08:31:26 · 12 answers · asked by Pink Pony Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

First of all, I have a small package (yikes) and I never get naked. But recently at a friends house a group of folks wanted to strip and jump in the hottub. For once in my life, i was spontaneous and joined in.

There were 5 women 3 guys and as soon as we were all naked the girls started playfully joking about my small penis.

It was mortifying!!! I laughed it off and they really meant no harm, but now I am super embarrassed about it. Since then they have teased me a little bit and even when they are not, in my mind I obsess about it.

What should I do to get over this embarrassment?

2006-11-14 08:31:24 · 16 answers · asked by bob_xc452 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how easy is it to make friends? if ya want to make friends with me, IM me or e-mail me! cant beat having a good cal!

2006-11-14 08:31:23 · 9 answers · asked by stringostar 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had this girl for 3 years. We have done all but not gone to bed. She says she loves me a lot. She had earlier on broken with her BF and was very traumatised. She cannot go for an outing all night with me. I cannot go to her house until i give prior notice. Does she have something hidden?

2006-11-14 08:31:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked this before, and i got some pretty good answers, but i wanted to see what more people thought.

so here it goes:

I'm a 14 year old guy....but i'm homeschooled.


And I just moved across the country so i don't have any friends.


I see kids my age walk by my house every day coming home from school...but since i'm homeschooled, i don't have any friends, and I'm a freshman in highschool.

I'm kinda shy, but people say i'm easy to get along with...any suggestions on how to make friends, or any good conversation starters?

thanks :-D

2006-11-14 08:31:06 · 2 answers · asked by Peyton4Prez 2 in Friends

She gets all of the attion even though me and my sister are there two weeks a months and my dad gives it to her. Hello is there something wrong with us or something,we barly ever get to see him.What should I do .Someone help me!

2006-11-14 08:30:30 · 5 answers · asked by littlesunnycarebear 1 in Family

I like this girl and all her friends are heling me to talk to her coz shes really shy and only likes to study. They even GUARANTEED me that she doesnt know that i like her. Some of my friends are even telling me to ask her out, but isnt that a bad idea coz i dont know her yet and she might say NO? Anyways, everyone in my p.e class is finding out that i like her coz some1 leaked it out and its only a matter of time when shes gonna find out that i like her. Plz help me coz i dont know what to do??????????

2006-11-14 08:30:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First of all, I have a small package (yikes) and I never get naked. But recently at a friends house a group of folks wanted to strip and jump in the hottub. For once in my life, i was spontaneous and joined in.

There were 5 women 3 guys and as soon as we were all naked the girls started playfully joking about my small penis.

It was mortifying!!! I laughed it off and they really meant no harm, but now I am super embarrassed about it. Since then they have teased me a little bit and even when they are not, in my mind I obsess about it.

What should I do to get over this embarrassment?

2006-11-14 08:30:11 · 7 answers · asked by bob_xc452 1 in Friends

My bf goes on myspace and starts to talk to other wome, then he askes them if they want to go out and have a drink or a moive. Then he starts to talk about sex, and when we get into a fight about him going online or if i read what he sends then he gets mad and says he want to break up with me. Then i say im going to my house and he wont let me leave. He never hit me but he has been close to it. He say that he stopped looking and talking to other women but I asked my friend to start to talk to him and shesaid and i seen that they where talking about having meeting up, going partying,have sex, what she was wearing, about going to a sex party, leaving me at my house then going to have sex with her. After he talked about sex with her he wanted to have sex with me. At the time i didnt know til my friend sent me what they talked about. i love him with all my heart i didnt do anything to make him go to or even look at other women. I dont know what to do. Please help me out.
Thanks

2006-11-14 08:30:05 · 7 answers · asked by zevion 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-14 08:29:40 · 9 answers · asked by sheree 2 in Singles & Dating

I lost a friend 8 years ago and I dont know how to spell her last name can I find it for free?

2006-11-14 08:29:19 · 1 answers · asked by crystal u 1 in Friends

hi,its me agian I thank alot of you for your wise answers.yeah I 'm the guy whos 14 yr marriage is on the brink of distruction do to her infidelaty with other guy a 25yr old at that!we are in our early 30's.some of you asked if I gave affection I always did ,hugs soft kiss on the cheecks neck and mouth,that is affection isn't it?plus the words I love you and am in love with you never stopped coming out of my mouth.she is a depressed person and also very insecure about herself .I always told her she was beautiful in my eyes no matter what and the I'm commited to her.she did tell me at times that she felt lonely whether I was home or not.I tryed to comfort her and get her to explain these feelings to me but she would just shut down on me.I never went out with out her only to work and back.where did I fail!like I said she was always drinking and on the net.she is coming back home withour 2 kids but only wants to be friends until she figures how to live with that guy.what do I do?

2006-11-14 08:29:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Also, how long have you been married?

2006-11-14 08:28:44 · 12 answers · asked by cirdellin 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am also nine years old and he likes a girl and she has a great body than me.

2006-11-14 08:28:29 · 5 answers · asked by Simple Girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well my sister died three years ago and my Mother is still acting like it happened yesterday. I hooked her up with a counsler and everything last year and it doesnt seem to be working. She wont leave her house. She goes to the doctor and gets pain medication that she says she needs for her "back". Well I had a very imporant court date about 2 months ago and of course what does she do, takes all her pain pills at once, after I told her not to do it. Well she was so high on meds that she couldt even hold her head up. Not to mention that fact that she almost overdosed last summer cause she had double dosed herself by "accident". Well she was lucky I was there that weekend or her husband would of came home and found her dead. Well now I live 3 hours away from her and when I call to try to talk to her she is so messed up that I cant even understand what she is saying. Well Im sick of talking to her about this. She takes 5 differnt pills! Enough to knock out a horse.

2006-11-14 08:28:04 · 3 answers · asked by Loca 3 in Family

I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and things have going excellent, until last weekend. I found out he had lied to me. Well, he did something he knew I wouldn't like, and hid it from me. When I confronted him on it he admitted to it and said it was the only time. I think its the truth, but we have a long distance relationship and only see each other weekends. So he could be doing just about anthing without me knowing it. I don't want to not trust him forever but I don't want to be the idiot that trusts a liar. How do I know if I can trust him? How long should he be good until I completely trust him again?

2006-11-14 08:27:49 · 11 answers · asked by arzachel81 2 in Singles & Dating