How do I get my friend to speak to me again? I really miss him and well, I just want to hear from him again!:(

Question

Im new to this Question/Answer thing, and I hope it is a place where maybe you guys and girls can help me around a little..ill promise ill help in return.. :) thats what friends are for... so yea anyways, 5 months ago, i met a friend on a online game called "StarCraft". We ended up being BEST of friends.. jokes, real talks, there for another, aiding another...and more.. but recently I we kind of gotten into a arguement, and he stoped signing on Yahoo, and also the game. Now i think he might have deleted me from his account or made another one, cause whenever I e-mailed him, I have gotten no response at all :( :( :(.
Worst part is, he lives in NewJersey, JerseyCity, and I live in Toronto Ontario Canada. I REALLYYYY want to get across and speak to my bud, IM SORRY for all things i done to him.. i want him back in my life again :'(. He might have also blocked me on his MYspace, i tried msg him. Herez his link: http://www.myspace.com/thecalculator I really want him back. plz some1 help!

Answer 1

Sorry to hear that dude.... ya never know when a friendship is gonna take a comlete, and hard, left turn. I've had it happen, and it sucked major. Never got back to a decent level of friendship w/ him either - and he was "local". Long distance friends are harder to keep, and esp. "fix" when there are probs. You might try again later, if the chance comes up... otherwise, search for a similar person. Heck, if I played StarCraft online, I'd challenge ya - just to help get your mind off of the situation, and into some fun again.

Luck.

Answer 2

Hi Shawn,

Well, I'm sorry to hear about your friend loosing touch with you. I know that it is tough to loose someone you have a common bond with. It's hard to find friends, and harder to keep them.

One thing you need to keep in mind, Shawn, is that sometimes people come into and out of our lives and it is just for that time. Perhaps you needed someone like your friend for that time more than at another time that you two could have met (for example, 2 years ago or 5 years from now). So the timing for your friendship was "ripe" for a specific period.

So, when people kind of fade out in your life, and you out of theirs, it's ok. Don't be sad. It's just a part of life. A few months from now, you may make two really great friends, and one of them last a lifetime, and the other for only 10 years. We never know; there is no rhyme or reason.

So, if you don't reconnect with your friend, don't be so sad. There will always be someone out there who will share the interests you share, laugh at the same jokes, have the same goals. Just enjoy the friends that you have, when you have them, and remember the ones that have moved on with love and warm thoughts. We're only here a short time, so just make the best of things.

I hope this works out well for you!

Answer 3

I think your friend needs some time to cool off. Why don't you wait a few weeks and try to contact him again. If he still doesn't respond it's time to move on... sorry sweetie.