well there is this girl at school which i like a lot!but i don't even know her and we don't even go in the same class!what can i do to get near her and like, start talking or get to know her!help!(i hate the fact that she is always in company of other girls)
2006-11-14 08:33:25 · 11 answers · asked by sabino m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you are too young for a relationship . . . but you two can hang out. But don't start calling her your gf.
My advise, is walk up, say hello and introduce yourself. Then say something, I wish I could stay, but I am meeting a friend and I need to get going. Maybe we can talk again later.
2006-11-17 09:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be yourself and dont get nervous to the point where she would suspect it. Girls like it if guys notice them but dont approach them right away. It gives them something to talk about and look forward to and you may also be able to tell what she thinks of you by her attitude and body language. Girls like guys that are confident in themselves. Dont throw yourself at her or act shy. Just start with a simple look as you pass by her and her friends down the hall. If shes not looking, say "whats up" to one of her friends and you can even pass a look at her after that, then just keep walking. Pay attention to see if any of them start to get nervous or fidgety when you come down the hall the next day. If they are trying to talk to each other dont think that its because they dont want to say hi to you because they dont like you, because a lot of the time, and I mean a lot, girls want to look like they are cool and have friends around guys they may be interested in. Sometimes they will even go out of their way to ignore you because they might be nervous. Its very confusing but give it time and send little signals over the course of a few days - weeks. You will be able to better get the feel for what type of girl she is and also what type her friends are. And remember that while she may be attractive to you that doesnt mean she has a good personality. Always expect the worst so you know how to handle it if does happen. Good luck.
2006-11-14 16:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Onecolegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out where her locker is, before your seventh hour class leave a note in her locker. Tell her how you feel about her and that you would like to talk....Do this a couple of times without signing it. This way you can see what she says to her friends about the note, or if she just throws it away. If she makes a big deal about it wright another telling her more about yourself. Eventually tell her to meet you in a public place where people usually hang out. If she brings company ignore her and say hello as you leave. Or you could notice her sitting alone and sit down and start a conversation with her. Always start with a good friendship and build from there.
2006-11-14 16:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Angie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sense of humor helps in just about any situation man. It will be your best weapon against her fortress of girlfriends. Who knows you might even end up liking one of her friends (let alone befriending them) What you need is the confidence to go up to these girls. One way you can begin is to see if she has any similar subjects (teachers) that you have. Then make up a question about that particular class in which you know she could asnwer, such as hey do you have miss/mr. such and such for history? Or if you overhear a conversation that she's having and she's discussing how a certain problem confuses her in a particular class see if you can solve it. If you can, politely interrupt their conversation, answer the question, and then soon after she and her friends respond make a joke about the teacher. Its likely that both her and her friends wont be in favor of that particular teacher and will like your joke. This trick worked like a charm for me in high school. See what it can do for you. Good luck!
2006-11-14 16:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say definitely wait until she's alone. She's not going to be inclined to ditch her friends to talk to a guy she doesn't even know who's talking to her out of the blue.
It sounds kind of cheesy, but pay attention to the kind of stuff she does. For example- does she play a sport? Maybe wear a t-shirt for the soccer team? You could ask her something about some activity she's in. It doesn't have to be anything deep, just something to break the ice. If you two hit it off, the rest will take care of itsself.
2006-11-14 16:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by SuperAmy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a problem. I know I hate it when they hang out in packs. Here is some advice from one 16 year old to another: Casually walk up to her and tell that you would like a word with her. Then tell her you want to be her friend and find excuses to hang out with her be cordial(polite) to her you know open doors for her, help her with her homework, etc. After a while she will start to notice you more tust me you will know when this happens.Finally tell her how you feel about her.This has always worked for me. Good luck!
2006-11-14 16:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by coolkidd2379 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i have the same problem but all you have to do is one day go up to her when shes alone and start a conversation or you can ask her friends
2006-11-14 16:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by LAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're out of luck on that one b/c we are always with our girls!
2006-11-14 16:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Serene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her AND her friends... we always love a guy who gets along and respects our friends too... plus then you're name might come up in conversation and get her attention
2006-11-14 16:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by slooth130 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its better for her to be hanging out with girls that guys. walk up to her and be nice and funny and see if it works out.
2006-11-14 16:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by think2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋