what can i do to slow it down? this is SO embarrassing. i am in my 30s, but i still *** superfast. sometimes before intercourse and it never lasts more than a minute or 2 what can i do?!?!?
it is so humiliating when this happens with a new partner....
2006-11-14 07:58:17 · 11 answers · asked by superfastbob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe its medical- Go to your doctor, don't be embarrassed, discuss this with a doctor who specializes in these matters, and again don't be embarrassed.
2006-11-14 08:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by witchway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time with a new partner can bring on a different kind of pressure, so climaxing early on is not that uncommon. if this is an ongoing issue, here are a couple of options for you. You can try a stopping technique - when you feel orgasm coming stop what you are doing until the feeling passes and then resume, continuing until you each are satisfied. Another option is purchasing and using a cock ring, which helps hold off the ejaculatory reflex. There are also extended pleasure condoms that can help with very good results. Good luck!
2006-11-14 16:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by femmefacetious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone my friend in this. It happens quiet often but all that is in the mind. When you approach this aspect,what happens to you is excitement which leads you to faster ejaculation. Try this, before you get into the act, you must spend more time with foreplay, and other fantacies with your girl. This will release the tension in your body and hers. During the act observe your reaction. When you feel like you are about to release, slow down your tempo or even stop briefly, this will make you relax. You can do this twice or thrice. The first time may not be very succesful but gradually you will get used and you will remeber me for this. Get on it buddy
2006-11-14 16:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of something that will turn that bad boy off real fast just when you feel that pressure building. You know like hippos or reciting the alphabet backwards. Really concentrate and buy yourself some more time.
2006-11-14 16:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the doctor to put you on paxil. while it is used as an antidepressant, it also is prescribed to individuals that suffer from your ailment. it decreases sensation making it possible for you to last longer. i'd advise you to discuss this with your doctor rather than people on yahoo answers as a physician will be more qualified to tell you about your options.
2006-11-14 16:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony V 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
oh, try this. Stop eating heavy food...
start eating oalmeal in the morning. and salad for lunch and dinner very light... your energy level will go down and you will have hard time ejaculating... due to the low energy level. It works. trust me.
2006-11-14 16:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by confusedagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are numbing creams available for that in adult stores and online.makes you last longer.
2006-11-14 16:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a cock ring and see if that helps.
2006-11-14 16:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by geminiblue26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-11-14 16:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 7⤋
ok, so, this happened in sex in the city, too.
..carrie broke up with the guy...
well, my b.f. used to think of football??
2006-11-14 16:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋