My girlfriend moved in with me 2 years ago. Shortly after, I started heaing from my landlord that is this guy from her school keep on coming to visit my girlfriend and they spent time together in my house. I didn't think big of it because it could be just a rumor. When I and my girlfriend made a trip to a neighboring island for a private vacation, he followed. I felt very odd and start asking her questions about him. She just told me he is just a concerned friend. I didn't buy the story. I told her to pack up and move out of the house. I started thinking i did a wrong thing to her out of my own suspicion. I asked her to come back and she agreed. I never got to find out the truth because she won't say it. Few months ago, her best friend told me that she has been asking him to sleep with her for a long time. She denied it all initially. she told me what my landlord was saying was true. Against all the things i have given and done for her...... What should i do?
2006-11-14 07:53:04 · 13 answers · asked by confusedagain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me that you are either way too trusting, far too needy (wanting a relationship bad enough to accept this behavior from the person you're currently with), or seeking validation in what you've already decided you want to do.
Here's what I did:
"I need you to get all of your things together and leave. I don't care where you go, but I won't be a part of your behavior any longer."
It sounds very psychological, doesn't it? Well, I thought about it for a long time. I wrote it down, I rehearsed it for hours. When my partner came home, I was in the other room. I repeated that line when I heard, "Hi honey." I didn't say another word; we just stared at each other - eye to eye. I wasn't going to offer an explanation of any kind, we both knew why I had made this decision.
You'll find someone better. If what you know is fact, you're too nice to this person and it's probably time you cut the ropes and get back on the available list. :-)
2006-11-14 08:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I have read, yours is only suspicion and which you have no facts about. It is odd for the man to follow you during your vacation. While I dont discard entirely what you have heard from the land lord, I suggest that you remain calm but with all your faculties open. Very soon you will learn whether or not this girl is cheating on you. At the same time trace her background, it will help in getting to know her better. Dont be emotional, you will make her clever and hide behind it. Good luck
2006-11-14 08:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely the 1st concern i will say is that your relationship became into not suited, the reality that she cheated tells you that your relationship became into not suited. She cheated on you with the aid of fact she became into searching for something. It does not merely ensue she knew what she became into doing and he or she did it. Then extremely of coming and telling you suitable away she waited and enable you to look this guy in the face understanding what she did, that incorrect. do away together with her that's barely a rely of time till now she would be waiting to do it lower back and next time she could desire to not permit you be attentive to and what occurs whilst she brings something lower back to you.
2016-10-17 06:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her like the trash she is, sweetheart. There are plenty of women out there who will not cheat on you. Ge t you one, and stop crying ove this broke down hoe that you call a girlfriend.
2006-11-14 07:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bull$hit story but if for some odd reason it's not...you need to be punched in the head for your stupidity.
2006-11-14 07:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump her and if she asks 4 a second chance say no and btw kick her out
2006-11-14 07:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by goldensamm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP HER LIKE A HOT POTATO!!! She is a lying, cheating biatch! You could never trust her. And, if she did it once, she'll do it again. You deserve better.
2006-11-14 07:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by CURIOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are thousands, millions of better women than that one out there. What do you think about that???
2006-11-14 07:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her and make her feel embarrassed in front of everyone.
2006-11-14 07:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by Eevi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a ***** ... dump her and move on .... dont waste ur energy for her
2006-11-14 07:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋