He works with the girl. I even beat her up once and broke my hand cause I hit her soo hard! She keeps text messaging him, he has told her to stop. Should I say something to her or just leave it alone?
2006-11-14 07:50:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good for you, (sorry you broke your hand). Sounds like she needs a "beating" - just kidding. She's not worth it.
I'd say if you and your husband have moved on and things are good, let him handle it. After all, he's the one that started the mess, let him clean it up.
Why can't he change his number so she can't "text" him anymore? It's a shame that they still work together, any possibility of that changing? I don't think I'd be very "comfortable" with that situation.
If she's bothering him at work, he can always report her for "sexual harassment". I don't know if you want to "open that can of worms" since they had an affair, it might not be a good idea.
If he's serious about not wanting to hear from her, I think she'll get the message. If not you may have to consider "other" options. Best of luck.
2006-11-14 08:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but I think there may be something still going on with your husband and this floozy. If he wanted to stop her texts from coming, he can call his cell phone company and have his number changed. But if he hasn't do so it is because he still has a thing for her and he likes having you to kick around like a fool! You need to lay the rules down and tell him he needs to tell this floozy to back off, or else you will beat his butt next and then DIVORCE him!
2006-11-14 07:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 02:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Why are you hitting the girl? YOUR HUSBAND was the one who cheated on you.
2. You're lucky she didn't put your butt in jail.
3. Your husband still works there? Again, I don't think the problem is with her.
4. See second sentence of Item 1
Your husband hasn't done squat to bring an end to this situation. The problem isn't her, it's him.
2006-11-14 07:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your husband was really not interested with the girl and it was truley over and he wants his marraiage to work then the 1st thing he would have done is changed his job and then changed his tel number.It sounds to me that your bloke is not over this woman.Maybe it turns him on having two women fighting over him.I think you should deal with your husband as he has played his part aswell and seems still to be enjoying it
2006-11-14 08:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by plumbob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why didn't he changed his number yet...he is still talking to her! either have him change his # or change your man! She has something to do with it...b/c she knows everything...you beat her once, either your husband needs to wake up and see how much this is affecting you or you should leave your relationship go! believe me I had the same problem and they always come back so you have to show your man that you are not playing
2006-11-14 07:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think saying anything to her would help considering an ***-beating didn't work. I'd just change his number so she couldn't text anymore.
2006-11-14 07:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by C.M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell that hoe bag to find her own man and if she dont then you are going to beat the living daylights out of her. or tell her she won him and then shake hands (like adults) pull her in and punch her in the face! works good, trust me! and not only her but ask your husband and make sure he isnt still leading her on w/o your knowledge. i hope you get to kick her *** and solve the problem!! YOU GO GIRL!
2006-11-14 07:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by ~*cRaCkNeSs*~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a tough one...
Your husband is the one who brought her into your lives...he needs to get her out!
Has he thought about getting a different job? or even better place a harassment charge against her!
Tell him to change his cell number...if she continues to text...he gave her the new number...
2006-11-14 07:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by jagergirl_1313 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. Tell your husband to get another phone number.
2006-11-14 07:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋