caitlin hates ally who hates caitlin as well i want to sit with them both but ally wont move and the table is to crouded so me and caitlin moved. ally is the tom boish never goina were a dress type and caitlin is the if i had a choice i would were a prom dress everyday ally has been my friend since last year and caitlin since 3rd grade ( i am in the 8th grade) help
2006-11-14 07:51:13 · 12 answers · asked by ThePlotTacoKiller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
grow up
2006-11-14 07:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ive been thru this problem all my life I mean I'm always the one in the middle and ur gonna eventually have 2 tell them to grow up and that their little feud is hurting more people especially YOU the most important. I wouldnt suggest u just plain out stop being their friend without talkin 2 them 1st unless they just are being butt holes about the situation and dont care and jus becuz u've known caitlin longer doesnt mean u have to be more committed to her as a friend so dont let ur drag u down that route. Just remember this has nothin to do with u this is their petty little feud and ur NOT goin 2 be in the middle of it!!!!
Good Luck Sweetie and tell me how it works out!!!
2006-11-14 08:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Miz AmERYKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex desires to be ultimate buddies with me and that i nevertheless incredibly look after him and he nevertheless cares for perhaps its extra effective than worrying even nonetheless I even have advised him as quickly as he gets a female pal me and him let's imagine hi to one yet another as quickly as we see one yet another or call one yet another right here and there however the rest being ultimate buddies being solid buddies in simple terms isn't an determination. the factor is that's unfair on me because of the fact i nevertheless look after him, the hot lady if and while she comes because of the fact she understands we had a heritage and everytime me and him would be at the same time she could ask your self whats occurring whether each and every little thing is harmless and ultimately him if he nevertheless has thoughts for me he could act upon them and injury some thing probably which may be solid for him. What i'm attempting to assert is that what his ex is doing is misguided she shouldn;t be importing pictures and he shouldnt have pictures of her in his room. You tell him to guy up yet i mean it incredibly is the final and nicest way achievable is you may 'lady' up and supply him an ultimatium and if he gets all emotional approximately and says your doing this that and the different then you be conscious of that deep down his thoughts for you're actually not as good as he claims because of the fact he desires to stay ultimate buddies along with his ex. in case you dont desire to experience like this you be conscious of you may desire to get faraway from him. desire it facilitates solid success
2016-12-17 10:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by sameeruddin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay neutral and you should be safe , but if push comes to shove you should go with who you have none the longest and who do you have more in common with and go from there. but what ever you choose stay friendly with the other and never allow either person to talk about the other this way no one can say that you where being two faced good luck
2006-11-14 07:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can tell u is try your best to wouk things out between u and your friends, and if that don't work then u need to be the bigger person and tell the both of them to grow up and act their age.
2006-11-14 07:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sit with either of them! Or alternate sitting with one, then the other. Never play favorites.
2006-11-14 07:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in basically the same situation, and my friends are 27 and 25.
this will happen all your life, you just have to be diplomatic about it. there's nothing you can really do.
2006-11-14 07:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell them how u feel bout them trippin lyk that and tell them its not cool for them to make u feel like **** wheneva u want to be with both your friends. (or just tell them you wil stop being their friend)
2006-11-14 07:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Thobie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to get over themselves. that you are each of their friends and you expect them to accept each other out of respect for you.
2006-11-14 08:04:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DEALING WITH ,MY FRIENDS ARE THE SAME WAY, IT IS GOING TO BE LIKE A FULL TIME JOB TO GET THEM TO COMMUNICATE , I ALWAYS DEAL WITH THEM AT DIFFERENT TIMES
2006-11-14 07:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by COLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to them and let them know each other. its better and try like to make them have fun together get them closer it works
2006-11-14 07:55:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋