Is it possible to be totally in love with someone and hate things that they do? Im in love but i hate this womans friends, lifestyle, morals, everything......is that sick or what?
2006-11-14 07:56:18 · 8 answers · asked by rr_comix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course...I adore my husband and love him with all my heart...but there are some things he does that I can't stand.....you learn to look over certain things when you love unconditionally.....
you have to take the bad with the good...nobody is perfect !!!!!
Good Luck !!!!!
2006-11-14 07:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of people who love there spouse but hate the little things they do. It sounds too complicated with you. You hate her her lifestyle, friends, morals. Why even be with her. YOU HAVE NOTHING IN COMMEN. Love Fades then what?? THINK about it
2006-11-14 16:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by mperezwp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very possible to be in physical love (lust) with a person and hate everything else about them.
It's a VERY unhealthy situation. More of an addiction to that person.
Get some counseling and move on.
2006-11-14 16:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask your self Are the things I hate about her , things I can over look or are they things that will keep nagging at me and I cant get over them ? Don't think on the short run.. think on the long run with years ahead...can you stand it ? because .. knowing this from experience.. you cant change the other person.. they are what they are no matter how hard you try..you wil soon despise her ... so you either can live with it, or you simply cant... good Luck
2006-11-14 17:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly WHAT part of her do you love? Since you state that you hate e/thing about her.........
2006-11-14 16:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you got to review what you like/love about her.
Don't worry, you could always mold her in your own image.
2006-11-14 16:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by E A C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think u can love the oppisite of yourself cause they have what you dont.
2006-11-14 16:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES BECAUSE YOU ARE LOOKING ON THE OUTSIDE, AND YOU WANT HER TO CHANGE THE INSIDE TO BE WHAT YOU WANT HER TO BE
2006-11-14 16:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by COLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋