Possible to get him back?
Me and this guy met a while ago and we never really discussed what eachother wanted. I just got out of a relationship and needed some space but never told him I kind of wanted to just sleep with him. He started to have feelings for me. I started sleeping with some guys behind his back because I feel that I can do what I want. He is sensitive and didnt take to this too well. He hasnt talked to me for an extended period of time and i try to at least be friends with him. He doesnt talk to me at ALL!!! Now that he has left me I feel that I need him. He is being mean to me and I am starting to be a ***** back by telling him i dont care if he ever talks to me again. Now i am friends with a lot of his friends and want to know if there is any way I can go about this should I just let it go or just give it time? Is there any way I can get my way out of this?
2006-11-14 07:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by xZDFghfdzS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jesus, how old are you? You meet a guy, then start cheating on him, then get into a hissy fit because he's "not your friend anymore." If you can't figure out what's wrong with this picture, you're too young to be in a relationship of any kind.
2006-11-14 08:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You and him can be friends again, but its gonna take a LONG time. I mean a very LONG time. YOU hurt him. You knew how he felt and instead of making sure that there was no mix messages, you slept with him, and then slept with other guys behind his back without telling him. Why did you do that? Because you knew it was wrong. YOU knew you were basically cheating on this guy. When you have a sexually partner, its smart to only be sleeping with them, regardless if you are in a 'relationship' with them or if its a mutual 'just sex' thing. Why would you do that? Why would you put your health and his health at risk by sleeping around with others, and not having the "respect" to stop having sex with him? He is hurt by you, and he is viewing you as nothing more then a cheap, nasty, slut. Sorry to be harsh, but its true. He held you high up in his sights, like you were real special to him. A really special girl to him. But now, he sees you no better then he does a street hooker. I say, keep away from him, change your ways and let him see that you learned from 'not being so smart'. Not because of him, but because you care more about yourself then that. Then you will get his respect again. Then he will be friends with you again. BUT, not until then. Blessed be...........
2006-11-14 16:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well stop being a ***** to him, be as nice to him as possible, find a time when you two are alone and apologize, and then yeah give him time to see if he will forgive you. He may not want to be in a relationship with you if you're the kind to sleep around, but maybe someday he will be your friend again.
2006-11-14 16:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Alice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, if this were me you did this to, i'd be royaly pissed, tell 'our' friends what happened, and never, ever, talk to you again...
now that i think about it, my last girlfriend cheated on me... I didn't know till after we broke up, but i still loved her... the moment i found out she was cheating on me i almost got sick, and felt like that any time i was reminded of her for some time... You broke his trust by sleeping around... so it's up to you, but i'd suggest two things... one. move on, stop trying to contact him. two, never sleep with more then one person unless it's all in the same bed, at the same time....
2006-11-14 16:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is hard to answer, because we're not sure of your desires. I'm not sure that even you know what you want. Rewrite your question asking specifically what you're hoping to gain. Whatever you want, you won't get it by being a ***** to him.
2006-11-14 16:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by robertspraguejr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't respect him at all. What do you want him back for??? if there are a lot of guys out there for you. Why would he want to talk to you and be friends with you??? WAKE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-14 16:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he deserves better but it was his fault he fell for someone like you.
2006-11-14 15:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by dbobb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey ether i'm your guy or you sound like on of my ex's is it possible e-mail me aT NAISTAGE@YAHOO.COM EVEN IF ITS YOU I'M NATE JUST TO LET YA KNOW
2006-11-14 16:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by the dude 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋