If half of what I have is her's and half of what she has in mine, then half the sex is mine.
If I want sex every day, but she doesn't then at least I should get it every other day?
If she gets to keep sex from me, then I should be able to keep something from her?
What are your thoughts?
2006-11-14 07:24:13 · 18 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I give her back her other half then can I get all my stuff back?
If I don't like my stuff and give it all to her can I then get all her stuff?
2006-11-14 08:08:37 · update #1
Very funny, good luck to convince her. Do you have in writing that the half of what you have is her's, and half of what she has is yours? If not get it before you start argument, you may end in situation that the everything of what you have is her's, and only what she wants to share of what she has is your.
2006-11-14 07:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both of you have to be willing in order to have sex. You are not "entitled" to sex, and no, you have no right to deprive her of anything if she doesn't want to have sex.
Have you thought about why she doesn't want to have sex every day? The best way to find out is to ask her. Find out what you could do so that she enjoys sex more. If you make her feel good, she'll like sex more, and want it more, which in turn will make you happy! Usually what women like is lots of soft touching and kisses and things like that beforehand. Foreplay is very important to women, it gets us prepared for sex. A woman's vagina needs to lubricate and get bigger inside before she's ready for sex, or else it won't be pleasurable for her, and it might even be uncomfortable or even worse, painful! For most women, orgasm is not possible from vaginal stimulation alone, most need clitoral stimulation, usually by her hand, or your hand, whichever works best for you. Here's a webpage that talks about how to talk about sexual matters:
http://www.allsexguide.com/better_sex_through_communication.htm
Treat your wife with respect and ask her what she would like!
Good luck!
2006-11-14 07:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're keeping her happy- emotionally then you shouldn't have any problems getting sex. Men are turned on visually and women are turned on emotionally...so, talk to her sweetly, do things for her, be a gentleman, and treat her like a queen and she'll give you whatever you want...unless she's pregnant...but that's another story..
2006-11-14 07:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Amy B 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Intersting way of thinking. I agree, if you are married, you should make your partner happy in everyway. Sex is something sacred to marriage and marriage is about comprimise. If you want sex everyday, you should make an agreement of everyother day so both win.
2006-11-14 07:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Bev.. you need to get over yourself, and respect that she doesn't want to make love to you so often.. Now, you really need to grow up if you think you should punish her just because she doesn't want to have sex with you every other day.. That just isn't love.. if you're that self centered and cold-hearted.. then she should leave you. =(
2006-11-14 07:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Celena 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My thoughts are you need to grow up. Sex isn't a game. It is something to be shared willingly and with affection. If all you want her to do is lie there and take it...then you are doing it wrong and that is why she doesn't want to!
2006-11-14 07:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Bev 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Funny!
2006-11-14 07:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good idea I don't know what you could keep from her... I tell my dude to take it if he really wants it that bad. I don't know I would think she would want to compromise and give it to you every other day.
2006-11-14 07:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by hot like me 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Make her happy and you'll have all the sex you want. When mama's happy, everybody's happy!
2006-11-14 07:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too immature to be in a marriage at all.
2006-11-14 07:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by Shepherd 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋