this man is my house mate. but has been in one other relationship for less than 5 year and even propose to her. he say they not together any more. im confused because he is still married
2006-11-14 07:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by purple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, he is still married. Look elsewhere, sweetie.... He is still married for a reason... he wants to make no committement to anyone, including you, and including his estranged wife. If you are hoping for anything with this guy, forget it.
2006-11-14 07:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see some most important purple flags right here. He has 2 youngsters with two distinct females. He's had 2 failed marriages. He doesn't understand the way to finish one relationship earlier than opening yet another. You might be madly in love with a married man. Do you fairly feel the third time is the allure? No method honey. He's going to damage your coronary heart as soon as you have got his little one. I noticed it occur with my buddy. She was once the 3rd wife. She in the end realized he was a horrible father and no longer an excellent husband. Now he is with wife #four but at the least he received a vasectomy. Just run away while you could. 5 months is nothing. Don't waste any more time and any more in case your heart on him.
2016-08-09 22:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five years is a very long time to not be with your wife. Something is wrong with this picture, if he is still married after 5 years and hasn't filed for divorce since he hasn't see her in this length of time.
2006-11-14 07:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NEVER date a married man. No amount of rationalization or excuses gives you a right to bed someone elses legal husband. None. Keep your knees together and wait until he is divorced - unless you want to be the kind of girl we call housewreckers.
2006-11-14 07:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its not right and you should find out his status for sure. Maybe she is in the military who knows. Think about how you would feel in the situation his wife is in. in the end that decision is up to you. also, if he;d cheat on his wife, why would he not cheat on you at some point? if they are truly separated, it is ok i suppose, but you should ask him why he is not in process of divorce
2006-11-14 07:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't seen her in 5 years he's fair game.
2006-11-14 07:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by Big Timer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can use that commitment as an excuse not to commit to you or to assume financial responsibility. HUGE mistake. Seperated is NOT DIVORCED. Tell him to get back in touch with you when he has resolved his issues.
2006-11-14 07:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why has he not gotten a divorce? Stay away from him, he has some problems, he is still married, so i think it is wrong to date him
2006-11-14 07:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is, why is he still married hmmmmm. That would be a warning sign to me "TAKEN EMOTIONALLY"
2006-11-14 07:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by Zoey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly.now what will you do when she re enters the picture ?
2006-11-14 07:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋