My girlfriend was kicked out of her house and is living with friends. She stop calling me and is more focus with work. We've been together for about 8 months and hadn't had sex going on 5 months now. I really care about her in fact I propose to her and she said yes. I can only call her job she doesn't have a cell phone, and she always busy I feel like she trying to blow me off. It's driving me nuts yall. I want to stay but do to the circumstances I really want to leave. Should I hang in there or leave?
2006-11-14 06:54:59 · 30 answers · asked by 1king1love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to make her make the time to talk with you. If she agreed to marry you, and can't sit down with you to talk seriously, she isn't ready for marriage. Married people MAKE the time to resolves issues...however big or small, no matter what the circumstances. Tell her you need to talk, it is very important. And then ask her what is really going on...does she want to get married or not? Maybe she freaked out about the marriage thing, maybe not. The only way to know is for ask her.
2006-11-14 06:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you dump her, find her, and ask her why she's been avoiding you. If her answer isn't the most sincere explaination on Earth, don't even tell her she's dumped. Don't even complain about anything. Just dissappear and ignore her completely from that point on, giving her a taste of her own medicine. Find a new chick, never talk to her....never. If she cares at all, the pain will make her realize how much she took you for granted.
If she acts like she doesn't care, it proves that when things go wrong in her life, it's then all about her to the point that she shuts you out entirely. She doesn't let her lover into her life enough to go to him when dealing with problems. She's selfish about her own feelings instead of connecting with you.
2006-11-14 06:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer might be controversial but here goes. It sounds like she loves you but she has her priorities mixed up. Anyone that would put work before a human being is a piece of sh8t. Dump her and make her hurt. She will wake up one day when she needs to take a brief brake from work, and tries to call you but its too late because you let go and have found some one that will pay attention to you. Trust me break it off. Never be second best to anyone or thing. Good luck.
2006-11-14 07:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to her personally and see how she feels. I mean if you are engaged, she is making a commitment to you and maybe she is really busy with work and you need to be supportive of her job. maybe you can get her a cell phone?? But I think its something to talk about with her, tell her how you feel. I mean the whole sex thing, why would you not be having sex??? Does she not like it? If you feel you need to move on, then break it off, but I would talk to her first.
2006-11-14 06:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by samantha c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hear what's the deal! I think that this girel is feeling pretty confused herself and I also think that she is playing you for a fool. Make her realize that you are a person with feelings that you love her and you want to be with her. In doing this it would have to be in person so go take her to lunch and talk it out with her. Lte her know how you feel and if she is blowin you off then you would know just by her behaviour.
2006-11-14 07:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you call her at work, she's suppose to be busy. if you proposed and she said yes but you can only call her at work...why not go buy her a cell phone, add a line to your account that way its free for you to talk to her....
the only question i have is...why so long since having sex? does she not go to your house...where were you having sex before?
2006-11-14 07:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you asked the girl to marry ya, you must love her a helluva lot, right?
Love her enough to talk to her about it?
Tell her you feel like she's blowing you off....if she says that she is, then I guess you have your answer. If not, then maybe ya'll can work it out!
Best way to do this is try to spin it in a positive way. Tell her you miss her.
2006-11-14 06:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say hang in there. Is it possible to buy her a cell phone? Right now she has alot going on and sex is probably the last thing on her mind right now.
2006-11-14 06:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love this girl? If yes, then do what you need to do! You never know what a woman can be thinking of as you can only guess!! Talk to her and see where she is coming from and you decide what to do next. Good luck to ya!!
2006-11-14 07:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang there for a while.
Go to her house and ask her what's wrong.
Tell her that you care for her and want the best for her
If she's still not reacting to you after that then you can break up with her
2006-11-14 06:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by cass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋