i dont want it to bother me and i have no problem with talking to any of his other ex's just her. she was kind of his first love but she broke it off not him. he says he loves me and i believe he does but i dont know he said he wouldnt leave me for her. and when i told him to be honest with me about talking to her he said he would tell me but he called her again yesterday and didnt tell me. im so confused please help serious answers only!
2006-11-14 06:51:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He talks to his ex and hides it because he likes her. You are serving as a filler in his relationship gap.
2006-11-14 06:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think it was a problem but he is hiding it from you. The way I see it even if there is nothing going on (which there probably is) there is a trust issue and you could never believe he wouldn't cheat on you or that you can 100% trust him have a talk but if you see this continue leave him. Trust me as a woman youll find another guy .... who wont be still in love with someone else
2006-11-14 14:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men generally want what they can' t have and if you get upset when you find out he has talked to her, then it is playing in to his idea of not being able to have her.
I would act as if you don't care that he talks to her, then he will not be hiding it as much. Some people have trouble letting go, even when they know the relationship is not health they will continue to hang on. How you handle it is what will determine how long it goes on and if you push him right to her.
2006-11-17 11:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by foolograce72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, yeh i totaly get wer ur cumin from, after goin out 4months i discoverd that he'd chosen between me and this other girl(who he'd slept with) its totally thrown me off! online messages about meetin up n "aww i havnt seen u in ages". the worst like.. so i kno wat ur feeling.
I think the best thing to do (much as i shud listen to myself..) is to trust him. He says he loves you, so giv him the space to talk2her, bein jealous only drives guys away. If worse comes to worse.. well, look at it this way, obviously he was not worth it and theres sum1 better waitin for you! Don't make him tell u everytime he talks2her, treat it like she's jus a friend2him, bcuz thats wat she is.nothing mor, altho thers a history, thats wat it is history.
neway. i cud babble on lol if u wana chat mor email me.
gud luck hunni!xxx
2006-11-14 15:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by *smile* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sen him back 2 her so he doesn't have 2 call an make u feel awkward
2006-11-14 14:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by due 21/12/09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you compromise on him sending monthly emails? try that
it shouldnt be more than that...no phone calls
2006-11-14 14:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋