Is he still in love with her? I have asked him not to do so because I think it's disrespectful (to me) but he continues to do it. He and I have been dating 4 years and he dated her right before me for almost 3 years. She's married now.
2006-11-14 06:49:24 · 9 answers · asked by workinggirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unfortunately it does mean that he may still have feelings for her. If you've been with this guy for 4 years now then you should be able to talk to him about it and let him know that its affecting you. If he stops doing it then he really doesnt have feelings for her and he obviously respects how you feel, but if he doesnt stop and possibly gets upset then you need to leave him asap. No need to waste another minute with a guy whos not giving you his 100%. Good luck!
2006-11-14 06:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Zoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't automatically mean he wants her back. He may love her still but not in the way he loves you. Whe you share a relationship with someone for years you can become extremely close. My first boyfriend and I dated about 3 years. Many years later and through many relationships with other people we maintain a close relationship.
What you may need to keep in mind is that they were extremely close for a significant portion of their lives. No matter how much you go through with him now it can't erase the things they went through together and the same goes for you. The two of you share experiences that he has shared with no one else and never will.
2006-11-14 06:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by autumnfire519 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either extremely obsessive, immature or hoping to see how she misses him so and so hopes to read about it on her blog. Sounds very strange that a person would do so for such a long time after end of relationship. Actually sounds disrespectful to you also.
2006-11-14 06:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either still has feelings for her or he's now doing it just to piss you off. I guess he's been doing it for 4 yrs now so I cant imagine it bothers you that much since you've dealt with it all this time. Maybe stop saying something about it and when he sees its not bothering you anymore he will stop.
2006-11-14 06:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to stop -
Regardless of whether he likes her or not it seems like a bit of an obsession. If he truly does not have feelings for her, then he should understand how this makes you feel. This is a bit odd..
Good luck.
2006-11-14 06:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by BlankProfile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he's still hung up on her and i would get rid of him because
if he's still doing it he's not going to stop as long as you stay
with him and let him continue to do. it seperate from him for
a while you don't have to leave him just yet and see what he
does. if he continues to do that then you know its time for u
to get to steppin, if he stops then don't leave him.
2006-11-14 07:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're a rebound.
Get rid of him before he starts reading yours every day.
2006-11-14 06:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by crash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is still hung up on her or why would he care what she is up to?
2006-11-14 06:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not over her.
2006-11-14 06:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋