I never really liked my sisters' g/f but i don't want to see my sister hurt. Also i would be lying if i said i didn't like the stuff i make my sister's g/f buy me to keep me quite.
How doi resolve this so everyone is happy?
2006-11-14 07:34:49 · 65 answers · asked by thed0gsb0ll0x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone say you should tell her.
I don't think so.. here's why.
What you should do it tell the g/f that she needs to tell your sister herself. Tell her that she has 3 day to do it.. after that you will.
Then in 3 days talk to your sister. You sister needs to know, but really the g/f should have a chance to say something herself.
2006-11-14 07:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Vanchaser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone happy...not possible. You do not want to be a liar especially in your sisters eyes. Weigh your options whose more important to you your sister, or her cheating, backstabbing, disgusting excuse of a gf? I would definitely tell my sister without a doubt. Think about it if your sister finds out now yeah she will be mad but not at you at her the cheater, she will actually feel so fortunate to have such a brother who has her best interest in mind. On the other hand if you do not tell her and allow this cheating gf to bribe you and your sister finds out down the line then not only will she be angry with her she will also hate your a**. By doing this you and the gf will have cheated on her and you both would of betrayed her trust. Obviously you need to remain the good guy and tell her NOW!!!
2006-11-14 07:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would suggest to talk to your sisters girlfriend, If she is kissing on other girls, then She obvilsioly isn't happy with her relationship with your sister. Tell her that these gifts that she is getting you have got to stop, "as much as you like them you don't them" secondly, You need to tell your sister, your only hurting her worse by letting this go on. She wont be to happy at you if she found out how long you have been holding this secret, let her now what her so called girlfriend has been doing, including the bribeing. If they think that hey should still be togheter that is there choice, dont worry about that, just tell your sister what is going on, she has the right to know. good luck! :)
2006-11-14 07:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by cashfan28 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding me? You need to tell your sister. Yeah, she might get upset with you and even possibly not believe you at first but that's your sister. You should have loyalty to her, not some cheating, bribing girlfriend that she probably won't stay with forever anyway. And imagine what would happen if your sister were to find out on her own that you knew AND didn't tell her AND that you were getting stuff to keep it quiet! That might cause some family drama ya think??
2006-11-14 07:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by sommerluvn77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in one tough situation. One hand you don't want to see you sister get hurt but on the other you're getting these cool gifts. Your decision has to be based on what's more important, which naturally is your sister. I would be upfront with your sister, but be careful of the how you say it. Some people don't want to know their spouse is being unfaithful and if your sisters g/f denies your sister might just end up being mad at you for trying to ruin her relationship. So, you first have to look at what type of relationship you and your sister have and would she choose you over her g/f or her over you.Whatever you do just be sure to be honest, you don't want to live with a guilty conscience.
Good Luck!
2006-11-14 08:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by luv 4 dogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't resolve it so everyones happy but you half to do the right thing and tell your sister, What kind of brother are you dude? Telling your sister infact will make no one happy. Your sister will be sad her girlfriend pissed and you will have no more bribes. BUt its the right thing to do. If you care about your sister at all.
2006-11-14 07:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Crisscross 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By having that girl buy you stuff, that makes you a bad person. If you want to be a good person you need to tell your sister. People will get hurt either way, but if I was your sister and found out that first you didn't tell me and second you were having here buy you stuff I would knock your *** out. Be the better person here.
2006-11-14 07:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would narc out that girlfriend! She is two timing your sister and your sister deserve a woman to be true to her, not to cheat! I hope that she is not bribing you by giving you sexual favors either, cause if so then both of you are backstabbing your sister. But if not, you need to tell your sister the truth. She'll find out anyway, and then she'll know you knew about it, and she'll hate you for lying to her.
2006-11-14 07:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your loyalty should be to your sister. You have to tell her. If she decides to stay with a cheater that needs to be her decision, but she has the right to know. And you should not worry about resolving this happily for the cheater. She made her own bed. I would hope that you'd be happier knowing you gave your sister all the information she needed to make informed decision about her own life.
2006-11-14 07:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by nicole b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better for your sister to feel some pain now than a lot later...her g/f will always do this, so it is only a matter of time before your sister finds out somehow.
2006-11-14 07:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋