do I call the number from his phone to see how she answers or from another phone? do I ask how she knows my huband?
2006-11-14 07:27:39 · 21 answers · asked by 2STUPID 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Call from his phone and see how she answers...............
2006-11-14 07:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call and ask for him. If she says he's not there, then ask, "I'm sorry, who is this?" And if she asks who is this, tell her "I'm his wife!" Don't be mad at the gf, be mad at the dog who has her number. Also you can go to anywho.com and click on reverse directory and look up her number (if its listed and is a home number) you can get an address and a name of who she is. If I was in doubt, and he was out, I'd take a little drive and see if his car was there, if so, call first her number and ask for him then his number and tell him not to come home. Be prepared financially to rip his heart out through his chest AFTER you have cleaned out the bank accounts and credit cards and gotten a new car with his signature, consult privately with a lawyer before pulling any stunts and see what your rights are. I say when a man cheats, he deserves NO MERCY! Good luck!
2006-11-14 15:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well- first of all- why were you looking in husband's phone list? Secondly, and more importantly- ask HIM who the woman is- there are many many legitimate reasons to have a woman's number on your phone list, especially in the business world...You either have to trust him or get out of the marriage, there is no middle ground here.
2006-11-14 15:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by verdes0j0s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about just asking your husband? All this going behind people's back and stuff is really ridiculous. Say you call the woman and its completely harmless and her and your husband are not together like that, but then the next time that your husband talks to her, she mentions that you called being all frantic and wanting to know how she know him...what would that start? An argument. So just be honest with him. Just ask him. "Eliminate the middle man...er, woman"
2006-11-14 15:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Barbi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call her using the husband's phone and ask her how she knows him. Then I'd confront the husband and see if he says the same thing. Don't get all stressed out, it could be something really innocent. Just talk to your husband if you don't want to call her.
2006-11-14 18:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by albert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found a phone number in my X's pocket...I called the number and asked if she knew a man by the name of ... And she said YES..I asked how...And she said he had been dating her for a few months now...I informed her who I was and she did not even know he was married...We compared notes and I never said a word to him about it.....But she sure did next time he saw her!...He was really quiet when he came home....lol....I was really nice to her....After all, It was him at fault....She even called me after he left her place and told me everything that happened!...See if it works....Good Luck...
2006-11-14 15:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your reaction when finding out who she is. What have you got to lose by calling? What have you to gain by calling? If you can answer these 2 questions.. then you'll have your answer as to whether you should call or not. Or you could just ask him, which would be simpler in the end, concidering you should be able to talk to him about anything.
2006-11-14 15:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by its_me_horses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him before jumping to conclusions...I mean...if something was going on do you think he'd be stupid enough to leave her name and number on his phone, knowing that you could pick it up anytime and see it? My husband has all kinds of women's phone numbers on his phone..if I freaked out everytime I saw a new one, I'd probly be dead...
2006-11-14 15:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Amy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call from your husbands phone and then say now exactly how do you know (insert husbands name)? Then tell her to leave him alone as he is married to you and tell her that you will be discussing this with him right after this call is over.
2006-11-14 15:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You jumping on a strange woman is NOT going to stop your man from cheating. If he is a cheater, and you know this, MOVE ON!
All you will ever have is pain. He is the one cheating, not the other woman. He made vows to you, not the other woman! Blame him...NOT the other woman.
2006-11-14 15:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you knows it's a woman's phone number? is it a cell number? is it a home number? could a man be there? i hope to god he's cheating on you, since you're basically already assuming he is
2006-11-14 15:43:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋