I am a 18 yrs old and I have never dated. I am a very nice person and I think I look somewhat attractive. I have guys that stare at me all the time, but none of them ever come up 2 me 2 date. It could be bc I am a virgin, but they dont know that. Am I doing something wrong. I smile and I act friendly, but sometimes I am a little shy., I know every1 is gonna say why dont u go up 2 a guy u like. Well, I was raised in a way that taught me any girl who goes up 2 a guy looks extremely desperate.It would be almost impossible for me 2 do something like this. Most of the guys that stare at me are caucasion, but I cant understand why they never actually come up 2 me. I am already in college and things are not getting any better. Alot of people say that I have an curvy body, but a child like face. I honestly want u guys 2 be the judge. If u have someting negative 2 say please say it nicely. I want honest answers!
2006-11-14 07:32:10 · 20 answers · asked by chocolatelolita87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honest Answers! I wont cry!
2006-11-14 07:34:14 · update #1
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2006-11-14 07:37:05 · update #2
okay, i have been in your shoes so i can understand where you are coming from, its not easy dating a white guy,most times when i and friends go out (they'd stare, smile, wink), they do all that but never approach, 2ndly am still a virgin, am 19 and am in my 3rd year of university..so u know what....take this from me....don't worry..talk to people, being shy can be very good but you need to come out of the cocoon okay (at your own pace) don't mind what everybody says, it's your life.....i saw your pics and your'e a pretty girl so just go with the flow for now......i was also raised to feel the guy had to make the first move, but you soon realise its a 2 way street (someday your'e gonna feel daring and you'll go for it) just take things easy.....when it comes, it comes..if not go out there and get it (cautiously)......as for having a child like face...watever....it's your face.....if they aren' t impressed by that wow them with your mind.......
hope this helps......
2006-11-14 07:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by meekmami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it could just be that you do look very young and that could make some guys your age shy away ((which is a good thing because that means theyre not perverts)). I dont know how you would go about letting everyone know how old you are, but yeah...
Another thing is the way you seem to dress. Very conservative. I am not saying that you should dress slutty, but that is why guys probably look but nothing more. They assume that you are conservative and probably wont give it up. So basically, all you are doing is not getting the scummy guys coming up to you, and thats a good thing.
When a good guy comes along for you, it wont matter what you are wearing or whether or not you have a babyface, he will come to talk to you and like you for you.
Good luck.
2006-11-14 07:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Barbi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're disgusting. The truth that you are willing to wreck your future fishing for a couple of compliments is just improper. Your face is ok watching, you may be a lot with less make-up and your hair a lighter colour. The motive you often can not get a boyfriend is because any man who desires to get with you is watching for an handy girl, which you might be, rather of a relationship. Put away the ladies, please.
2016-08-09 22:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your photo links don't work, so there's no way to judge your physical appearance. I think if you are that shy and old-fashioned, maybe people are picking up on it and keeping away. You should try to act approachable without seeming desperate. If there is a guy you like, try to "catch his eye" for a second. Eye contact will be a subtle way to show someone that you are noticing him, and maybe they will then notice you back. Just a suggestion. Meanwhile, try to fix those pix links. Good luck!
2006-11-14 07:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by escutler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're disgusting. the reality which you're prepared to wreck your destiny fishing for some compliments is merely incorrect. Your face is okay looking, you would be lots extra valuable off with much less makeup and your hair a lighter shade. the reason you probable can not get a boyfriend is as a results of the fact any guy who desires to get with you is calling for an undemanding lady, which you're, extremely of a relationship. placed away the girls, please.
2016-10-17 06:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to learn to Project Confidence!!!!!
"Walking and Talking" like a girl (Ugly duckling) with low self esteem is always a turn off for a guy!!!!!
These guys like what they see...but not the way you act....It's your actions!!! ***" I have not seen your PICS "***
You are saying that he guys only like your outside appearance....
Well, find a way to show them the confident woman inside!!!
2006-11-14 08:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by D'antwon ;-)~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need the direct link for us to see your pictures. You are posting the HTML code hon. Try again
2006-11-14 07:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys like you, but you don't really show interest in any of them, sometimes it's not enough to smile and be nice, you must talk more to them, that's not being desperate
2006-11-14 07:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by MAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may be afraid of you or intimidated. Just be confident and patient. Try talking to guys too. It might help them to realize that you aren't so intimidating.
2006-11-14 07:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very Tacky! A real woman don't post pictures on the internet. Grow up and maybe you might get a boyfriend!
2006-11-14 07:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by Cowgirl Joe 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋