I can only come if I am on top....any other women experiencing this?

Question

it's been that way for years now. is there something wrong with me? it's the ONLY way I can come.

Answer 1

funny, I only can on the bottom. and yes, it's been that way for ever.

however, I had one special experience that I have never fogotton.
it.
in my first serious relationship, I was giving him oral, and he was so expressive with is reaction and exactly how he was feeling that I actually came just doing that for him and listening to his reaction. it was awsome! (and that was 20 years ago!)

Answer 2

You're not alone honey. For most women that's the best way to ***. You're in control. It's all in the positioning. Try some masturbation. That always helps. It makes it all more intense either from your man or yourself. If it works stay with it. But if you're looking for something different try some oral stimulation or masturbation.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with you. For some woman it's easy and others have to work for it. You might talk to your partner and explore different ways that he can help stimulate your cli* while he is on top or you can reach down and stimulate yourself while in the other positions.

Answer 5

Be happy that you know how to make yourself happy when you are having sex. Some women complain that they have never and dont think they will ever have an orgasm. Can you imagine that?

Think of it this way, when you are on top, what is it that you are doing that makes you have the orgasm? If it's grinding on him, then when he is on top, grab his butt and tell him to grind and that would work. Whatever it is youre doing on top, I am sure it can be imitated in another position. If not, be happy you can have one.

Answer 6

There are many women who need a very particular form of stimulation in order to climax, you're not alone. If you can think about which bit your working you can find other positions to stimulate the same areas if you work at it.

Answer 7

Quite possibly. The female orgasm can often be quite tricky. One way to find out would be to try masturbating and see if you can produce on orgasm in yourself while on your back.

If you do, it may be your significant other's poor technique. If you don't, it may be the way your clitoris is positioned. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong, just that you are built that way.

Answer 8

i used to have the opposite problem but now i can make myself *** on top, i found that if u have more foreplay then you get more into the passion and the mood so everything seems to feel like alot more intense. i don't know. but having more foreplay helped me get there while on top.

Answer 9

Lucky for you that you can ***. I have never orgasmed while having intercourse (with any of my previous partners) The only way I can do it is by masturbating with my legs straight out.

Answer 10

not a girl, but you are not strange - there are some things that you like and some that you don't. I have my favorite positions as well - so if there is something wrong with you.. then there is soemthing wrong with me.