This is a long distance relationship,I truely love him but he doesnt even care about me.though this break up is extremely painful which may even cost my life.i need to break the silence and tell him that i cant tolerate his negligence anymore.i can move on only if i can make this break up official by letting him know that its really over than to keep quiet and suffer for a long time by keeping bitter secret inside my heart.i very badly need to get off of him.Honestly,i dont want to give him the right to destroy me coz i consider myself valuable.please suggest me a best way to break up without causing any kind of humiliation.coz the memory of this break up should be sweet in future.please help.
2006-11-14 07:27:18 · 15 answers · asked by Sheeth 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How would it cost you your life??? Anyway, if he doesn't care, you shouldn't either. You will realize when you find a great guy down the road that really loves you, that breaking up with this guy is the best thing you ever did. Hang in there.
2006-11-14 07:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by YoMamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't even care for you, it sounds as though he has already broken up with you and you are living a dream that will never come true.
To make the breakup official, write him a letter and tell him that you need more from a relationship than he is willing to give, that you need committment, and affection. Then wrap up every gift that he has ever given you, put them in a box and mail them to him. There is no mistaking that message. And by taking this step, and making the first move to officially sever your relationship, you don't give him the opportunity to hurt you.
2006-11-14 07:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how you really feel, like what you just said in your question. Tell him the long distance thing is not working and his negligence is not making it any easier. I'm not sure why you would humiliate yourself by breaking up with him. The ending of relationships is a part of how they sometimes work. Be happy that you are strong enough to know that it is not working and you are willing to do something about it.
2006-11-14 07:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you sweety & I think u should take a few days to relax, do not contact him during these days..then call him, try to be brief and non-emotional(it's only a few minutes,u can do it), tell him that u did some thinking and u decided that this relationship is not giving you what you want or deserve, don't give him a chance to make up other scenarios..just end the call...if after that he finds out that he loves you..he can always change his life for you...otherwise, he doesn't deserve ur time or effort..Goddluck
2006-11-14 07:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be Honest , tell him how you feel about everything in your relationship. If he freaks out , oh well, You just be the Bigger person, an Hold your head up. Better to have loved an lost than to have never loved at all.
Good Luck
2006-11-14 07:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by lilredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel, tell him you care about him but ytou care about yourself more than this relationship its painful and you deserve someone that makes you happy. Plus long distance relationship most of the time dont work out
2006-11-14 07:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and say "I don't want to be your girlfriend any more. I'm sorry, I am going to do something different with my life now." Do not call him or have any contact for about six months so he has time to get over you. Tell him that if he wants to be friends or whatever in the future, he can call you next spring or summer, but not until then.
And don't let him argue with you.
2006-11-14 07:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 23:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by spies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have never seen him, he bothers with you just when he wants to. Simply send him an email say this relationship is not working for you and it is time for you to move on. Wait for one email from him to make sure he got it. Then block his email address from reaching you. Then read the book "He's not all that into you" Good Luck
2006-11-14 07:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really valued yourself you wouldn't stayed in a pointless relationship with someone that's makes you feel so bad about yourself and his miles away from you. and this break up wont destroy you i feel it take a big weight off you and that's what killing you slowly right now . if he has not notice the great person you are not worth waiting for him. REMEMBER we are here to choose not to chosen
2006-11-14 07:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by Lolita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋