Today 2 "friends" from my class asced me if i've ever had a boyfriend and in front of the boy that i like.So i tell them that i have never had a boyfriend(that is true) and i felt so ashamed in front of this boy.He for example,could laught at me and tell to his friends.I am just too disappointed.How to go to school tomorow?They are probably make fun ofg me.Any sugestions how to fix this picture of me in his head???Help please,i am desperate!!!Thanks..
2006-11-14 07:35:54 · 23 answers · asked by angee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW I'm 15.
2006-11-14 08:20:31 · update #1
My bf is 22 and he never had a gf till he was 19. I think it's cute and shows he had other interests besides just getting laid in high school.
he won't laugh at you, why would he?
if anyone asks you again, say "no i haven't had a boyfriend, i've been busy with other things like ___" or "I've been open to the idea of seeing what's out there rather than getting tied down to one person."
2006-11-14 07:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if this boy is making fun of you then you shouldn't like him. You shouldn't be ashamed of not having a boyfriend. Just tell them that you haven't found a guy that's worthy of going out with you yet. Don't be ashamed or embarrased, your time will come and when it does it won't be a guy that makes fun of you for not ever having a boyfriend but it will be a guy that will respect you and like you for who you are. Cheer up. Walk in that school tomorrow with your head held high, with confidence that you could have any boy you want. It will get better, I promise.
2006-11-14 15:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be proud of yourself for telling the truth. Also, you don't know that anyone is making fun of you. Ask yourself this...is it better to never have had a boyfriend or to have had a boyfriend you didn't like merely to avoid being made fun of? I dated my first boyfriend just so people wouldn't talk about me behind my back...I didn't like him at all. Of course, I wound up hurting his feelings, and the truth is that all those people I THOUGHT were talking about me really couldn't care less whether or not I'd had a boyfriend before.
Also, maybe this boy will want to be your first boyfriend! If he already liked you, he's not going to stop liking you because of this. Seriously.
2006-11-14 15:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jen A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you are only desirable if you have been around the block?
There is first time for everything. If you haven't found anyone you are attracted to yet, then don't settle. If this guy thinks it is a big deal that you haven't dated another dude yet, then he's not worth wasting your time.
Dating is not easy but most importantly NEITHER ARE YOU. You stay truthful and respectful to yourself, don't worry about anyone else.
2006-11-14 15:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by boogiemunn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, theres nothing wrong with not having had a boyfriend...you could have had plenty of action just notwith the same guy all the time. Anyway he probably didn't even think twice bout you not having had a boyfriend and if hes so worried about it drop him he's not worth it.
2006-11-14 15:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by sarapindity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much about it... Your friends are jerks, and they embarrassed you in front of a boy you have a crush on. It's not the end of the world - look at it this way, you know these two girls aren't really your friends.. and the boy you likes knows you're not dating anybody else, so he might just ask you out (or say yes if you asked him out)
2006-11-14 15:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he care if you never had a b/f before? I doubt that he will laugh at you because of that. No need to be ashamed as he may like you more because of it. You worry too much over nothing.
2006-11-14 15:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's when you hold your head up high and say "Actually, Friends One and Two, I never have had a boyfriend before. Many offers, but no one ever seemed to capture my fancy."
And then you look over to this guy that you like, look him over and say (jokingly) "Hmmm, how about you, Dream Guy? Care to help a girl out?" ;) *lol*
2006-11-14 15:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with not having a boyfriend? It just means that you haven't found a guy you have wanted to be with yet. There is no shame in being a virgin.
2006-11-14 15:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, its ok that you've never had a boyfriend. In fact lots og guys would even be glad you've never had another boyfriend. it might make him feel more special. dont be embarrassed at all.
2006-11-14 15:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋