Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

My mom had this best freid all her life and about 5 years ago my mom divorced my dad and now her best friend hasnt talked to her in 3 years and we know her number and she doesnt return the calls so i wrote a letter and i need to know... do you think its even worth it? i mean its been 3 years and she mad at her

2006-11-13 14:28:18 · 8 answers · asked by Luke J 1 in Friends

my brother's wife hates sex. she does not like if he touches her and does not even sleep next to him. she does not want to get councelling she says nothing is wrong with her.

2006-11-13 14:28:07 · 35 answers · asked by rennygyal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I always thought my mom didn't like my fiancee because he was shorter than me. During family gatherings she always made comments about how short he was and how she didn't think he was a very good guy for me. But I think it's more than just his height. My fiancee is Mexican. I think that is why she doesn't like him- she's racist! What can I do to change her mind about him? I've already tried telling her how thoughtful and kind he is, but she doesn't care. And whenever he used to come over she always gave him the cold shoulder. This really bugs me because I love my mom, but I also love my fiancee. And I can't choose one over the other. And this problem is getting worse everyday.

I want my mom to come to my wedding!

2006-11-13 14:27:19 · 25 answers · asked by birdsfishforeverandever 1 in Family

it all started when we wnt engagement ring shopping. we got a ring she got a penny's card and put it on it. i gave it too her the next day for anniversary. week later returns ring, two days after kicks me out of house, we talk she takes me back, two weeks later kicks me out again. says i didnt really mean to give her the ring she felt she pressured me into it. now i find out that since the first time she kicked me out she has been chatting with these two guys online. we have been talking some what but she wont really listen to me about how much i love her. also have a 6 month old daughter together. who come to find out wasnt an accident as what she put it out as. hole in condom her doing. i feel so lost with out her yet i feel betrayed by her too. and i have a bit of a grudge against these two guys. i cant go from seeing my daughter all the time to only on saturdays. should i trust her and go back? know some info about two guys. getting final answer wendsday the 15th

2006-11-13 14:26:10 · 15 answers · asked by jamie09racing 1 in Singles & Dating

If a girl I like just broke up with her boyfriend of 1 1/2 years, how long should i wait before asking her out? He actually broke up with her, btw.

2006-11-13 14:25:12 · 16 answers · asked by adam 2.0 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex had a problem with being faithful in our marriage we have a son together My ex got involved with man for 6 months He was the reason for me to finally loose my love for her. I wasn't expecting to meet another girl nor be involve again However my girlfriend is like my soul-mate she is awesome inside and out! obvious out of respect I divorce my wife which now broke-up with her b/f
she keeps to herself on her emotions but states on still having feelings for me and at this point she isn't ready on meeting my g/f. I now live with my g/f and i have my son 3 days a week, My g/f has a major problem as to why she can't be around with me when i get my son at the ex's house
I feel that i divorce my wife and i live with my g/f should be enough reason to trust me! On the other hand i have compassion
towards my ex's feelings on not yet ready to meet my g/f
Am i wrong? or is my g/f wrong for not having patience?
What is the solution to this problem?

2006-11-13 14:24:07 · 39 answers · asked by FLEXizme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am seeking advise on this because I have spent so much money on this useless marriage already and i dont want to waste another penny on it. How can i get divorced without an attorney, or spending to much?

2006-11-13 14:23:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just happened across information on herbal supplements that are supposed to give larger erections for males and more desire and sensitivity for females if taken 10 minutes before sex. Has anyone used these? Do they work? Are they a waste of money?

2006-11-13 14:23:26 · 12 answers · asked by sugarbud 3 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my Ex's likes me again, and each week she's getting more flirty and talkative like she did before we dated the first time, my question is what should I do about it? I know that if I wen't out with her again it would be over in like 2 weeks so I'm not stupid enough to hurt myself, should I just let her keep on and see what happens or what? I still like her quite a bit but reality is we wouldn't last long at this time, now down the road is a different story once she matures a little bit and figures out what she wants.

2006-11-13 14:23:25 · 6 answers · asked by Joey M 2 in Singles & Dating

make fun of fat people while they are not around???

2006-11-13 14:23:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex had a problem with being faithful in our marriage we have a son together My ex got involved with man for 6 months He was the reason for me to finally loose my love for her. I wasn't expecting to meet another girl nor be involve again However my girlfriend is like my soul-mate she is awesome inside and out! obvious out of respect I divorce my wife which now broke-up with her b/f
she keeps to herself on her emotions but states on still having feelings for me and at this point she isn't ready on meeting my g/f. I now live with my g/f and i have my son 3 days a week, My g/f has a major problem as to why she can't be around with me when i get my son at the ex's house
I feel that i divorce my wife and i live with my g/f should be enough reason to trust me! On the other hand i have compassion
towards my ex's feelings on not yet ready to meet my g/f
Am i wrong? or is my g/f wrong for not having patience?
What is the solution to this problem?

2006-11-13 14:22:48 · 8 answers · asked by FLEXizme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he says he is only going there to get the money should i trust him or not because we almost got a devorice because of this women

2006-11-13 14:22:42 · 7 answers · asked by bigmom6979 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex had a problem with being faithful in our marriage we have a son together My ex got involved with man for 6 months He was the reason for me to finally loose my love for her. I wasn't expecting to meet another girl nor be involve again However my girlfriend is like my soul-mate she is awesome inside and out! obvious out of respect I divorce my wife which now broke-up with her b/f
she keeps to herself on her emotions but states on still having feelings for me and at this point she isn't ready on meeting my g/f. I now live with my g/f and i have my son 3 days a week, My g/f has a major problem as to why she can't be around with me when i get my son at the ex's house
I feel that i divorce my wife and i live with my g/f should be enough reason to trust me! On the other hand i have compassion
towards my ex's feelings on not yet ready to meet my g/f
Am i wrong? or is my g/f wrong for not having patience?
What is the solution to this problem?

2006-11-13 14:22:24 · 5 answers · asked by FLEXizme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi there,im new here and just want some advice and to find out if this is experience is common or just happening to me.i had issues with my ex's
family either due to my colour,age,but this is a bit different.i'm going out with an older guy.we live together,we love eachother.he's white,i'm black.he's been married twice,has 4 girls,two from each marriage.his kids dont like me.when they come to visit i make the extra effort to make them happy.i take them shopping,i bake them cakes every time they visit,i got the 15yr old some jewelry cos she just had her belly button pierced and a necklace,christmas presents,i talk and advice them like a sister or friend.It gives me plesure to do all this and i wouldn't do this if i didnt like them.His 15yr old had the guts to call him a Paedophile to his face in my precence(i think thats very rude)because he's with me but the ironic thing is her mother is 20 years younger than him but that doesn't bother them.she's now going out with someone 10years younger than her but that doesn't bother them.
they told him they wont come for christmas or ever again if im still with him unless he leaves me.i dont know what to do cos ive not dated a man with kids before and its putting pressure on us and i dont think he's being supportive and it makes me very unhappy and he knows i have my own problems to deal with.all i want is his support,to present a united front or bond to them,
so they will realise that they cant come between us and to stop giving him ultimatims,or stop dictating to him who,what age or kind of woman he should be dating and mind their own business.
they had to deal with it when he got married to his second wife regardless of what they think of her.his eldest daughter doesn't get on with her mother inlaw but that didnt stop them from getting married and i dont make it my business or judge them so i dont know why they should make our relationship their business or prejudge me.what goes on between us two consenting adults in our home is our business
what do you think i/we can do to solve this situation

2006-11-13 14:22:07 · 7 answers · asked by no1queenofcharm 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i liked him. but now i love him to death
i cant get him out of my head. & he sed the same to me.
he txts me every night & day
and we meet up sumtimes on weekends.
i dont kno wat my parents would say if they find out.
but i really wana kno wat other people think about it all
should we still date?
or do you think the age is to much of a gap?
[x]thankyou.

2006-11-13 14:21:53 · 36 answers · asked by stacey s 1 in Singles & Dating

What is your pet peve

2006-11-13 14:21:48 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

I like my co-worker. We don't actually work on anything together (and we won't in the future) but she sits 20 feet away from me and out office is only about 80 people. I'm not her superior nor is she mine. We've had lunch a few times and she's come to a dinner party I threw plus a movie with me and some of my friends. I have a really good time with her and I'm pretty sure she has a good time with me. We have a good flow and I don't think either of us flows well with a lot of people. That being said I tend to read these things wrong. Am I completely insane to want to start an office relationship? I'm not going to be a jerk to her or anything so I don't see it ending poorly. We're both genuinely nice people. Can I pursue this? If I ask her to dinner on a weekend just her and me is that a clear signal of my intentions?

2006-11-13 14:21:07 · 2 answers · asked by jbortfeld 2 in Singles & Dating

shes been folowing me around all day with a bible and tellin me things like "we all get weird feelings! feelings will pass!" how can i get her to understand im bi and nothings gona change that?

2006-11-13 14:20:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what hardships did you have..financially, any advice? or what should i do to prepare before i get married???

2006-11-13 14:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

how do you get over your first love when you feel like you just want to die because they are with someone else and it's like they hate you? for no apparent reason they just don't know you anymore and you didn't see it coming it just happened and you are so used to them being in your life! good advice please!

2006-11-13 14:19:47 · 16 answers · asked by tweety 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong to buy a really expensive gift for a boyfriend that you were with for 2 years? I mean, is it true that it can jinx you and bring bad luck to the relationship?

I wanted to buy my ex (who pretends that he is my boyfriend) a $600 gift but I don't know if it would be ok since we are not officially in a relationship. ANY ADVICE?????

2006-11-13 14:19:37 · 3 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

you ladies justify a man's actions. If a man is a complete a s s hole to everybody except YOU. You see him as a Nice & sweet guy with a bad boy image. What is the theroy behind it.

2006-11-13 14:19:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend is a girl i've known for twelve years (since we were four in summer camp). we can talk about anything and i even set her up with her boyfriend and theyve been going out for about three years. life has been great until this year (junior year in high school) when guys made fun of us when she was driving me to football practice....they think its weird to have a girl as a best friend.

its not like i go to sleep overs and hang out with her girl friends and shop and stuff. we both do things we like to do: paint ball, see movies, go to broadway shows...and be in broadway shows since we're theatre kids.

everyone yells out things now like "he's so gay" and crud. wtf??!!! im not gay (even though i dont see anything wrong with that...im not against it) but now i feel like me and friend, Dani just cant hang out anymore.


HELP??!!! wat should i do?! shes the only one that knows me better than i do and i know her. but we cant hang out anymore...my whole team laughs. HELP?!!

2006-11-13 14:18:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

fall over????

2006-11-13 14:17:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since I was 32 I have always been with younger men. I am now 49. My husband is 14 yrs younger than me and we would still be together if he had his way. I seperated from him because he is hopelessly addicted to drugs. We have been seperated for 7 months.Now I am seeing another younger man and I wonder if there is any hope I will have a normal relationship ever. Men my age are not attractive to me. What to do?

2006-11-13 14:17:05 · 6 answers · asked by Dee 5 in Singles & Dating

women can be as pretty as a rose blooming on the first day of spring or they can turn into a deadly cobra if you push the right buttons.So always remeber when it comes to a womans heart the most fragile thing she has be sure to treasure it and keep it and never let her go no matter what.Because once a woman gives you her heart its a change of life you feel different you want to wake up each day and its crazy because you have this special person that entered you heart.So do you agree that a woman can be either a rose or a cobra?

2006-11-13 14:16:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like singing, acting, ect.

2006-11-13 14:16:05 · 8 answers · asked by He Haunts Me 2 in Singles & Dating

Should I tell my partner that slept with someone else a couple of months ago while i was experimenting with drugs (plural, and it wasnt crystal meth) We are broken up now and its only been a few days since we have been broken up but i am in two minds about whether to tell him or not and im scared of his reaction and scared he will never forgive me or speak to me again.

2006-11-13 14:15:22 · 6 answers · asked by bonz_a_liscious 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents told me alittle over a month ago that they adopted me...I was wondering if i want to find my real parents..where could i go that will help me find them?

2006-11-13 14:15:18 · 4 answers · asked by breyanasmommy 2 in Family

my best friend is a girl i've known for twelve years (since we were four in summer camp). we can talk about anything and i even set her up with her boyfriend and theyve been going out for about three years. life has been great until this year (junior year in high school) when guys made fun of us when she was driving me to football practice....they think its weird to have a girl as a best friend.

its not like i go to sleep overs and hang out with her girl friends and shop and stuff. we both do things we like to do: paint ball, see movies, go to broadway shows...and be in broadway shows since we're theatre kids.

everyone yells out things now like "he's so gay" and crud. wtf??!!! im not gay (even though i dont see anything wrong with that...im not against it) but now i feel like me and friend, Dani just cant hang out anymore.


HELP??!!! wat should i do?! shes the only one that knows me better than i do and she tells the same. we're brother and sister only not....help??!!

2006-11-13 14:14:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating