I just found out a couple of days later that my ex-fiancee is going to be a father. I don't understand why, but that is really upsetting me. We broke up 8 years ago, and I thought that I had moved on a long time ago, but when I got those news, all the insecurities I felt when we broke up all came rushing back. About two years prior to our break-up, we had gotten pregnant, which due to my age, we terminated. This was a very difficult time for me.
Now, I am ready to have children, but unfortunately, I do have have someone in my life to have children with. And I see that he's moved on, found somebody, and they are having a baby. I'm not wishing harm, and think that he could be a good father (if he's grown up a bit), but in my own selfish way, I always wanted to be the first to have a child. Now.....feeling so guilty for feeling so jealous (which is completely not my style), I want to know an easy and quick way to deal with it....considering it's been 8 yrs since the break up.
2006-11-13
14:50:32
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