i was never a nice guy, but i tried it.. atleast i pretended..
but lately it seems like its becoming for REAL!!
and i'm really confused...
i gotten used to being a nice guy so now it just comes out naturaly and i don't have to think before i act like a nice one!!
i really hate myself...
like opening doors for the ladies, i was never like this, but now its like some nice guy inside me is taking over!!
what should i do!
i was neve nice! i was more like a person who doesn't give a crap about what people say about me...
i'm 21
2006-11-13 14:45:54 · 14 answers · asked by Squall_22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to believe that you are capable of being a better person. This doesn't have to stop even at 80. It's like a jigsaw puzzle and you are a piece of that puzzle; to truly know yourself is to find yourself properly positioned in the bigger picture. You will find your answer in Jesus.
2006-11-13 14:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Dewdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r 21 and just now getting it?guys really r late bloomers. so anyway what's wrong with being nice ? y would u want to be a sh-t all your life ?go with it, open doors and all that, that's a good thing , and so is caring for yourself and others, it's all part of growing up, not like a baby stopmin his feet to get his own way , time to give back to everyone who put up with your nonsence while u were growing up , i'm proud of u
2006-11-13 22:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think everyone likes a bad***? Chivalry, it's what's happening. Maturity? Maybe? I dunno, I'm 18 I do those things, the chicks love it. I was raised that way though, don't look at as a bad thing but as an experience to see what the other side of the fence has to offer. If you really want to become a bad*** again try reteaching yourself.
2006-11-13 22:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by kriegor191 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's shows that you are maturing into a young men and women go for me like that. Men who actually treat them with respect and not just what they can put out. It's your inner being coming out more than that juvenile crap. Good job man!
2006-11-13 22:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by judy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to change your self. Enjoy being a nice guy.
2006-11-13 22:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be exorcised, and FAST. Otherwise that chivalrous guy is going to burst out and take over your world.
2006-11-13 23:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok to be nice, dont worry. the aliens did not switch your mind or anything, its a nuatural change
2006-11-13 22:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think respectful is what your thinking about stick to the new you. I know I was on the same road.
2006-11-13 22:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by lms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are growing into a man...get used to the fact that you are no longer a little boy and life isnt all about you...congrats!
2006-11-13 22:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice.
2006-11-13 22:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by George K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋