Ok i met this girl, been on a date with her once and she is wonderful and i really like her...problem is we NEVER get to see each other at school really and we are both busy, Me im working...and she goes to her dads every other weekend and goes alot of places when shes not with her dad on weekends............Im confused i dont know what i should do i dont know if i should just break it off now or try to make ends meet...........We are almost at the stage to becomming a "couple" but we dont really get to spend time together and the next time ill get to go out with her outside of school will be atleast 2-3weeks.....someone give advice please im "so confused". Or someone help me find a solution
2006-11-13 14:50:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to her and make plans LoL
2006-11-13 14:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by RelientKayers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she is not so wonderful or she would make time with you!! Have you talk to her about this? Can you go to her dads and just watch a movie take a walk? Does she call you while she is at her dad's or does she have a double life someone else at her dads. If she likes you she will make time for you; make sure she is not just using a kind man like yourself.. Tricia
2006-11-13 22:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by trickytrish79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm not an expert on dating but here it goes: if you really like her you should contiue dating! Plan ahead of time to see her, call her when you know she's free. She probably feels the same.
But if it starts to get out of hand then don't get to serious or just break up. But don't break up just because of that...so just try and call her, IM her, text her. Do something to contact her!
2006-11-13 23:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... The smart thing to do would be to sit down with this wonderful woman and tell her how much you like going out with her. Tell her about your concern with the scheduling problems, and how you'd like to see her more often. See if she has a problem with you not being available because of your work schedule. The easiest way to see if there is a problem is to ask....... don't overwork your mind trying to figure all the possibilities... come right out and ask!!
2006-11-13 22:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to have lunch with you in school and when she leaves for her dads, go to her place and kiss her goodbye and let her know you care about her. send her flowers or a note, just to let her know you care for her and really want to be with her. mayber if she sees that she will want to spend time with you instead of having to go to her dads or maybe she will let you go with her to her dads and yall could hang out there. you might could go to her dads the next morning and spend part of the day with her! Good Luck!
2006-11-13 22:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by lucynlynsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club... where you want to date someone but you know there's not a good chance of it working out
2006-11-13 22:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by Timshel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well even with the lack of time you spend together it coud still work. But you sound young, dont overwhelm yourself with realtionship stuff now.
2006-11-13 22:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by anonbealove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work hard to "make end meet" as you say. If you guys really like each other, don't let complications ruin what could be an awesome relationship =)
2006-11-13 22:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by sicnarfj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in order to be a couple, you two need to spend a little bit more time, just find someone else that can spend more time with you.
2006-11-13 22:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by Oriel-Nirnaan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u feel dude.
2006-11-13 22:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋