Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

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My new husband hates his sister he just has no respect what so ever for her I don't really blame him, she has 4 kids 3 girls one boy and she doesn't work doesn't do anything for her kids it is all about her husband!! He can do no wrong (although) he is a drunken looser and treats his kids like ****!
She is always bragging how much money they have and how they have no debt !!! they have nothing to show for it! They live in a crappy OLD house trailer and they don't have a decent vehicle! Her kids love me I buy them clothes and toys and everything that tehy want but she never wants to bring them to my house we only live like 40mins from them and she always has some excuse no money for gas or some lame excuse!
I have caught her lying to me more than once I am sick of this and I am gonna have nothing to do with them and not go there and just stay away because I am just sick of it!!
Is this the right thing to do Just Cutting them off? wha

2006-11-13 15:32:38 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

I am interested in possibly driving with the laidlaw bus company as an option to returning to work when my maternity leave is finished. I'm trying to work part-time as opposed to full time so I can be home as much as possible with the little one for a few years at least. What kind of health benefits are available to the drivers? As part of my decision will obviously be based on whether or not I will give up my present job where benefits are available. Looking for the information on all options before I make a decision.

2006-11-13 15:32:07 · 1 answers · asked by firefighter 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if u could create ur own dream guy describe how he would look exc. blue eyes tall brown hair muscular, and the same for girls

2006-11-13 15:31:56 · 2 answers · asked by fbplayano89 1 in Singles & Dating

your weenie???

2006-11-13 15:31:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been wif my bf for abt 3months and we start to get lesser topics to tok abt..so wad can we tok abt to improve the relationship??

2006-11-13 15:30:37 · 8 answers · asked by orpaw 1 in Singles & Dating

How does one make out which type of love the partner is giving ?
Does unconditional love still exist in this day and age ?
What are the percentages of both ?
Can anyone share their experiences ?

2006-11-13 15:30:15 · 12 answers · asked by Bachelor boy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My GF is hanging out with her X, she broke up with him for me and now he is hanging out with her and helping her with home work and calling now and then and stuff, she says its ok because he was a friend of the family long before they ever went out, they dated for a year. Now she tells me that she would never go back out with him even if we weren’t going out. I’m still not Comfortable with this, I have tried to push the issue a little but she tells me he is just a friend now...comments ideas thoughts

2006-11-13 15:30:11 · 9 answers · asked by nitronuke 2 in Singles & Dating

First you guys need to know some things about this girl... she is my ex for one. We broke up in late Aug. and have decided that its not a break up... but rather a break apart. Well we tried to get back together a couple of times and we both felt it was too soon. (BTW, she considers Dating, being in a relationship)
With that in mind, we pretty much started dating... so, if thats the case... Why is she telling people that we are still broken up? Maybe I'm reading into this too much, but we were together for 2 years so I know her pretty well. If dating is so serious for her, should I confront her about it? I just don't know what to do...
Please help!!!

2006-11-13 15:29:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like... around their period time... girls' hormones are raging... and they want to get on you guys... is that annoying when you don't particular care to do anything?

2006-11-13 15:29:49 · 18 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there really any chance of waiting out a commitment phobe? She really does love me, I can see it in her eyes when she tells me, but as close as we seem to get, she shies back away just as far. Anyone else ever been through this? I love her free spirit and all, but what the hell? I need to know she's in it a little. (Dating for about 6 mos, she's gotten distant last 3 or so)

2006-11-13 15:29:40 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

i like this one girl and she and like amonth ago she said she liked me too, but i think since we haven't hung out in awhile, maybe things have changed a little. How can i tell if she still likes me?

2006-11-13 15:28:31 · 5 answers · asked by zemke14 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the liklihood if i post something under a fake profile that they can figure out who i am?

2006-11-13 15:27:44 · 8 answers · asked by carol h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 15:27:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause I grow impatient and turned off by girls playing hard-to-get. It's so much more exciting having sex with someone new and girls always have to ruin it.

2006-11-13 15:26:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been so crazy in love that they are they only thing you think about.Well thats how i feel i mean shes everything to me i think of her every second,minute,hour of each day just to know to wake up next to her and feel her heart beat next to mine is a wonderful thought. And the next step is to ask her to marry me and boy am i nervous as a midget at a urinal i mean just to be near her i get all sweaty and my whole body turns to jello but i will let my heart guide me in what i say to my pretty pink rose because i love her with all my heart. So do any of you ever have that feeling around your love?

2006-11-13 15:26:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what would you say if your brother got with a virgin did the nasty and she wants to get married to your brother and they haven't been together but for a year. He told you that he likes her, but that's it. would this be a mistake? my brother has never had a serious relationship and this is the longest one. She was trying to get him to propose he is only 23 and she is 18 or 19. what should I think?

2006-11-13 15:25:59 · 8 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5 in Singles & Dating

My SO left his emails on MY computer when he left for work. He has an ex-lover that he had promised me he would not be in contact with anymore last March. I perused them this past Sat. when he left his emial wide open on my computer, because I was curious if he had really stopped the correspondence, calling and visiting. In the emails I found that he hadn't. He says he's sorry, shouldn't have made a promise like that, "nothing" is going on...they're just friends, and that I'm out of line reading them and jealous. I think he's deceitful and dishonest. Obviously, things are not going well.

2006-11-13 15:25:48 · 20 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Singles & Dating

Even if she likes you, It seems to be a defense ,but she seems to like me as a good friend, but I want more. NOTE : like all of my Q's have been about her, and she has a nasty mind.

2006-11-13 15:23:54 · 1 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here is my problem. I dated this guy back in high school but I broke up with him after about 7 months, this was almost 7 years ago and I can get him out of my head to this day. I am so madly in love with him that all of my other relationships have failed. There is no way for us to be together because he has a live in girlfriend that he has been with for about 4 years now.

How do I move on and get over him when I am so in love??
Please, serious answers only.

2006-11-13 15:23:24 · 9 answers · asked by Insert_Name_Here25 2 in Singles & Dating

I've really had a long, dragged out relationship with this guy anyway. and to be honest i can't stand the girl (i mean she was sleeping with my guy) but i don't want to sound like i'm afraid of her by not calling her. But then again i don't want to bring my past up again i just want to move on WHat do i do?

2006-11-13 15:22:43 · 11 answers · asked by justme87 2 in Singles & Dating

Any ideas ?

2006-11-13 15:20:43 · 20 answers · asked by angel l 3 in Singles & Dating

i need to get out of the city i'm living in right now because it is driving me crazy!!! i have money saved up and would love to move out of here but if i do, it would mean leaving the most amazing man i have ever met. i love him and he wants to move as well, but not for another five years or so. sometimes i don't think i can wait that long. we have been together for about a year and he has hinted at proposing to me next year. i dont even know if i want to marry him, though, i'm very unsure about commitment and the idea of being single doesn't bother me too much but i would still rather be with him. moving somewhere else would make me very happy but is leaving him behind worth it??

2006-11-13 15:20:42 · 1 answers · asked by rsmith451 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i give my boyfriend of 9 monthes for his birthday. He means alot to me but ... im kinda broke so i can only go so far to buy him something ... i want to give him something that will make him feel special, like a king you know .. and to show him i love him with all my heart ... please help!

2006-11-13 15:20:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am still thinking of returning to my ex-husband whom I divorced three years ago because my teenage daughter who is 14 lives with him.

I am so confused about whether I should focus on my own life or just give up myself for her. She is suffering because my ex does not help her with schoolwork or afterschool activities and she lives 3000 miles away from me.

I can not concentrate on my life here. I started a new job here, yet I am constantly thinking about the fact that I should not be here but be with my child.

I am looking into working a seasonal job for Christmas to keep busy and earn some money, but is that the right thing to do?

I have made several promises to my ex that I would return but do not because I see his abusive controlling ways continuing. I read my notes of when I was in the house and how bad it was and feel horrible also.

How do I get over this guilt feeling and do the "right" thing?

2006-11-13 15:19:54 · 20 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

A few weeks ago my bff told me that my ex bf's crush told him that I'm trying to ruin his life. All I did was ask my bff to call him and ask him why he really dumped me. And then my other friend told my ex bf off. And my ex bf told my bff never to talk to me again and he said that he wanted to emotionally hurt me. Today in Math class my ex bf's crush comes over to my desk asking me about what my bff told me and then she also told me that she kissed my ex bf and that there friends with benefits now. What the heck is up with him? All the phone calls happened a couple of months ago and the whole me trying to ruin his life happened a couple of weeks ago. So when will this blow over? And will everything go back to normal again?

2006-11-13 15:19:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 20 years and i like a 16 year old who also likes mei know not to try anything until they are 18 but is it wrong for me to like a 16 year old is that a big age gap in like 2 or 3 years

2006-11-13 15:18:54 · 23 answers · asked by robert 1 in Singles & Dating

imagine planning a beautiful evening with your guy. You buy gold plates / glasses/ candles make a appeteizer. Plan a pineapple bath. While in the tub you tell him you purchased a Harley without his input. He ends it with you the next day because he's mad over it. Tells you , you can drive all over town with your gold plates and _ _ C _ who ever you want! and that you think your _ _ _ T doesnot stink! why do people turn this way? I cannot even describe how I feel. By the way he also called ME crazy! he's very good on the net and watches for me to post, was incredulous that I posted a question on a yahoo blog site! what a guy.

2006-11-13 15:18:35 · 3 answers · asked by tradergirl512 1 in Singles & Dating

i have always wondered what happens there................:)

2006-11-13 15:17:53 · 13 answers · asked by ninegoingontwentynine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have also been together for two years and she didnt start acting like this until her friends started to get married and i forget a birthday x2 the actual day wasnt sure of. i am shy so dont talk alot and she has stated that this is part of the problem. she also has a three year old son from previous marriage. withch i was with her before she was fully divorced.

2006-11-13 15:17:29 · 10 answers · asked by jamie09racing 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 15:17:06 · 19 answers · asked by Playa G 1 in Singles & Dating