I have been wif my bf for abt 3months and we start to get lesser topics to tok abt..so wad can we tok abt to improve the relationship??
2006-11-13 15:30:37 · 8 answers · asked by orpaw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Same problem, you're not alone!
2006-11-13 15:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about your day.
Think of the smallest things you noticed today or something interesting that happened.
Like mayyybe... you heard a song on the radio that you liked.
Or... you almost fell down the stairs.
ANYTHING! Heheheh.
Even the smallest things can become long conversations... or atleast A conversation. : }
2006-11-13 15:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
movies, education, desires, aspirations.... i was in a relationship where we didnt talk much. i started to think i was socially retarted or something. now im in a relationship w/ a different guy and we talk all the time. either my x was socially retarted because apparently Im not, or it was just a dead realtionship (not compatible). i like this new relationship soooooooooooo much better
2006-11-13 15:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. i had the same problem too.. it started when she stop playing games (she needs to pursue her degree) and dat's wad got us togther...
but wad i personally do is..
1. have faith and trust in the relationship
2. drop a few text here and there, letting him/her knows dat u have them in tots all the time (sweet msgs works damn well)
3. drop in a good nite/sleep early/sweet dreams call... (when they r in bed, u will be on their mind
it works for mi... hope it works or u too.. remember it's the tots dat counts...
2006-11-13 15:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about what happened during times you did not spend together. Turn on TV, make fun of things when watching. talk about memories...sometimes, one just pops up in your mind. GIrls should talk more than guys...although I talk less than my bf does.
2006-11-13 15:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there something that you and him both like alot and have in common together? Maybe you could talk about that?
2006-11-13 15:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about daily occurences first
favorites- of anything
looking into the future
Try going to new places- it seems to spark new discussions.
2006-11-13 15:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about work, movie, future, family planning, etc.
2006-11-13 18:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by *n*g* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋