i am 20 years and i like a 16 year old who also likes mei know not to try anything until they are 18 but is it wrong for me to like a 16 year old is that a big age gap in like 2 or 3 years
2006-11-13 15:18:54 · 23 answers · asked by robert 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope... Mines 18 and I'm 25... We met when she was 16... I have a 6 month old daughter by her... (though she was of legal age in my state when we met ;-) )... It's not wrong to like someone younger then you... but then again... I guess you could call me a bit biased :-D
2006-11-13 15:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by grimmy19812000 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Age may just be a number,but the law says that you are messing with a minor.Can you say (rape),Can you say (jail time) because that is what your doing and what you'll get if her parents decide to step in.She is still a child,Your (suppose) to be a man.You know as well as i do that,if you haven't already been with her.It won't be two years before you or and her decide that 2 yrs. is to long to wait.Then what?Are you going to man enough to back off and back her off,because she will press up on you,Each and every time you too are together?Or will you stay with her and make love to someone else for two years until she reaches 18?If you do that,you are going to have bigger problems because she won't like your extra affair.That's the question you have to ask yourself.
2006-11-13 15:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is illegal for a person eighteen years or older to date anyone under the age of eighteen. I would break up with her immediatedly before you run into major trouble with the law. What you are doing could easily land you 50 or more years in prison. I hope you make the right decision for the safety of both you and that girl. Shame on you
2006-11-13 15:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by leged56 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
rob: It is demonstrated by the question you ask that YOU are too young to even, make this judgement call ! A 16 year old IS a child in a woman's body ! Go fishing in your age pool ... why waste your time (and hers) ? 16 will get you 10 !!!
2006-11-13 15:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
:) u r great cos u didnt force her.. just keep tis up..
20 & 16 is not the problem.. the problem is do u both love & care bout each others?? & can u accept a 16 yrs old gal be ur gal fren??? i mean accept all her sickness benefit?? & do u have time to teach her from the mistakes..???cos she still young & childist(i'm sorry)
2006-11-13 16:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the age gap,it's the fact that she's under age.If you sleep with or try to sleep with her look to go to jail over it.Is that what you want?Find someone your own age or at lease older than 18.Otherwise it's called rape.
2006-11-13 15:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
if her parents are ok with it, you shouldn't have a problem....a guy i know was 18 and his girl 15, her parents had him arrested!! he is now on the megans law website for sex offenders but it doesn't say why just makes him look like a child molester....his name and pic are on there for ten years....think about what you are doing...good luck!
2006-11-13 16:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS THIS SIMPLE: NOTHING HAS TO HAPPEN FOR YOU TO GET IN A LOT OF TROUBLE. YOU MAKE HER MAD AND ALL SHE HAS TO DO IS SAY YOU TRIED SOMETHING WITH HER.
NO JUDGE, JURY OR POLICEMAN IS NOT GOING TO BELIEVE A 16 YR OLD GIRL. SORRY, THATS JUST THE WAY IT IS.
2006-11-13 15:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the person in question has an open mature attitude and displays a sense of development I think they should have the right to make decisions of thier own personal affairs. However it is wise to have the consent of a parent.
2006-11-13 15:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by LADY ~ 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
at 16 they still have alot of growing up to do, if you must then just be friend with them for now.
once they turn 18 if you feel there is still a connection then try dating but until then you're just looking for trouble.
2006-11-13 15:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by gypse76 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋