Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

i like him so much but my parents dont allow me to date and i am 19 . I let him go because I know that once my parents find out it will all be over and our hearts will be broken. I would never want to hurt him so I let him go before the feelings got intense and it hurts so bad. I told him that we could be together if he gave me time to work things out with my parents. He was really angry and he just said to forget it. He still has me on msn but never talks to me. I am going to set things straight with my family ..should I ask him to give me another chance if my parents finally accpet the fact that Im not 5 and let me date noramally!! if you were a guy would you take a girl like that back?

2006-11-13 16:01:18 · 2 answers · asked by mb m 1 in Singles & Dating

its been 15mo since my ex and i broke up we were married 28yrs. my whole world has changed. he seems to be doing so much better than me. why , cant i leave it at that? he does not date and said he misses someone to hold at night and the sound of me cleaning. he claims he dont love me however, from time to time he will help me. he does not call me, i call him.my heart hurts. any suggestions? he knows i will always love him. how do i get past this?

2006-11-13 16:00:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and him just came out of a fight but things are going great now! and ive known him longer then ive known some of my friends now. but me and my friends used to be really tight until we got together.

2006-11-13 15:58:28 · 6 answers · asked by breann g 1 in Friends

I posted a while back about my mom seeing this guy much younger than her (he's 27) soon after my dad passed away. It's now been three months since my dad died and I have recently received information from other members of the family about this guy. I live 600 miles away so I'm not as involved with my mom's life. Anyway, I guess they say he is violent, drunk, controlling, and using all of my mom's inheritance from my dad's insurance policy. He is also listed on Megan's Law website for molestation of a child and just got out of prison May of this year for this charge.

My mom will not listen. She has admited to having sex with him (and broke down crying) and of being frightened by him on some occasions, but says that he isn't drinking anymore, and that people can change. She refuses to admit she gives him money and keeps lying to me. Even if I can't do anything for her (which I can't, she is screaming and cussing everyone out and won't talk to my sis now), what can I do for myself?

2006-11-13 15:57:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok I like this guy and we've known eachother for 2 years now. but the thing is he doesnt talk to me at school only on the computer. should I make a move? or stay where I am?

2006-11-13 15:57:24 · 21 answers · asked by tessie 1 in Singles & Dating

it is annoying

2006-11-13 15:57:12 · 11 answers · asked by dana5736 1 in Family

2006-11-13 15:57:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this girl who i enjoy hanging out with very much and we sort of get it on from time to time and i know she is like in love with me cause she has told me. but i don't want to date her cause she is a bit over weight. what should i do. what it be right to try and get her to work out with me and if so how do i tell her

2006-11-13 15:55:37 · 20 answers · asked by raul b 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my best friend know i like a boy since sixth grade.[Right know i'm in 8 grade.]But my friend never like that boy she HATES him a lot.But just last week she been flirting with him.

2006-11-13 15:55:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm having trouble telling whether a guy is nervous around me or if he's just being a jerk?

2006-11-13 15:55:21 · 11 answers · asked by musicrozier4 1 in Singles & Dating

Last year my husband and l separated for a short time when l found out he had been cheating on me. My daughter was very supportive which l love about her. The problem now though is that she refuses to have anything to do with her father even though we have sorted things out. She feels that he will cheat again and she hates him for what he has done to our family. I am trying to put it all behind us, not forget ofcourse but atleast learn to forgive. I don't think she will ever forgive her father. She is engaged and living with her fiancee so l guess it helps that we do not all live in the same house. I have spoken to my husband and expressed my concerns and he just says if that's how she wants to be it's her problem. The way l see it , it is our problem, she will not come to our home, if l want to see her l must visit her. Things are really starting to get me down. Does anyone have any suggestions please ??? I really need some help with this one.

2006-11-13 15:55:20 · 19 answers · asked by kazzadanni 4 in Family

...Tall girls who are three grades above their age group? does being good at sports (football, basketball, volleyball, track) make it better or worse? this has nothing to do with dating, i'm only twelve. I feel like all of my guy friends are pulling loose and leaving me with just my girl friends, I like having both because i'm a major tomboy. plz help, I went through a growth spurt and now i'm taller than almost all of them. Is this what is wrong? I havn't actually changed, so why is this happening to me?

2006-11-13 15:55:16 · 4 answers · asked by Hannah T. 1 in Friends

my boyfriend has been incarcerated for 2 1/2 years and he was just released a month ago. everytime i talk to him he picks an argument and wont call back for days, should i just give up on him and move on, or try to work it out?

2006-11-13 15:54:31 · 11 answers · asked by peachiz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 15:53:47 · 2 answers · asked by anu 1 in Friends

I have trouble meeting guys because I clam up around them. What can I do to handle this? I am an adult and feel like a goofy kid.

2006-11-13 15:53:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his name is joan hes so sweet and caring i absolutly love him i thought that i was over him but i thought wrong. things were great but then we got seperated my family dosen't approve of him but i think he's great. we broke up twice but i know he still has feelings for me like i have them for him what do you think i should do? help!!!

2006-11-13 15:53:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bff and i were really close except then he asked me out and i had told my friend that i have always liked him a little more than just friends so she told him that and thats why he asked me out even though i like him, its not really true that he likes me so should i still say yes??

2006-11-13 15:53:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 15:53:14 · 7 answers · asked by belizeanbeauty 1 in Singles & Dating

so yeah my bf and i have been together for like 4 years... and i have really been thinking of having a threesome with him... he has always wanted to see me with another female, i dont think i would mind doing it. i wouldnt be unfomfy about the situation my question would really be would it change our relationship.. having another female in the picture??? hummm... help me yalll thanks

2006-11-13 15:53:04 · 10 answers · asked by Zoe W 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad's remains are in Florida and I'm in Michigan and I need help with the expenses. Hospice informed me that there are foundations out there that can help me. Please send me a e-mail if you can help.

2006-11-13 15:52:58 · 4 answers · asked by ROXANNE I 1 in Family

My friends talk about it around me and every time I ask them what it is they just laugh, so can someone plz tell me what it is.

2006-11-13 15:52:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I pin up the wrinkles and jump right in...it's so sensual.

2006-11-13 15:52:24 · 11 answers · asked by billyboysblue 3 in Singles & Dating

tell my sisster n law that she really should clean her house she is so nasty dogs in the house cats and everything is ever where its so nasty i dont even want ta go and see my brother my nephew and there new baby there is never a place ta seat theres always stuff in the floor you cant even walk there is even food left from days and days just seating around and they have roaches really bad please help i dont want ta hurt her or my brother

2006-11-13 15:51:54 · 11 answers · asked by Jeannie T 3 in Family

2006-11-13 15:51:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend J. wont stop saying im obsessive about this dude. the thing is im not. i may hav asked a lot of q's about him on answers. but im not. i dont even care for the dude anymore. i want to REJECT the dude, but i wanna know if its rite to do it. how can i get her 2 blieve me

2006-11-13 15:51:41 · 1 answers · asked by the5500 2 in Friends

If you have been through couples counseling, what was your take on it? What exercises did you have to do between sessions? I am doing it now and have only been to one session. I just don't know exactly how much to share with my counseler and what I am supposed to do on my own, with my spouse? What types of questions did your counseler ask?

2006-11-13 15:51:19 · 4 answers · asked by bcooper1975 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know thissounds like a stupid kid crush thing but I really like him, My parents say I am Naive (don't know how to spell it) kid who has a lot to learn and I know I do but considering that this was their advice i am coming to the wonderful yahoo peoples what do you think i should do? Wait and see if he likes me? Make a move or forget about it?

2006-11-13 15:50:58 · 11 answers · asked by carivala 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend told me last night it turns him on to think of me being with other men and then telling him. He also said he would like to watch this take place. I love him and want to be faithful to him, and I don't really like this idea. Now, this makes me question his love for me. I thought when you love someone you want them to be faithful to you?

2006-11-13 15:50:50 · 19 answers · asked by fatt_bottom_girl2001 1 in Singles & Dating

Basically I have $467.23 dollars and I need to get married right away.

Is it cheaper to just marry a syrian woman from the middle east or just a typical American woman? I am so confused !!!

2006-11-13 15:50:33 · 3 answers · asked by ast5792 1 in Weddings

I'm suppose to be getting married next Sept, I want a small wedding, semi traditional. I want a small hall for the reception with a pot luck dinner but I want a nice ceremony elsewhere, my fiance doesn't. He doesn't see the point is spending money on renting another place than where the reception will be held, he also doesn't see the need to "dress up". Should be just elope and not worry about arguing over what to do for the wedding/reception...or is there a way to comromise?

2006-11-13 15:50:31 · 12 answers · asked by JustCurious 1 in Weddings