I have trouble meeting guys because I clam up around them. What can I do to handle this? I am an adult and feel like a goofy kid.
2006-11-13 15:53:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a female. Why in the HELL would I want a dominatrix?????
2006-11-13 15:57:33 · update #1
open up. practice with a friend who is very outgoing (pref. a guy) and is not afraid to tell you what you are doing wrong. don't try to change yourself, just find someone who will love you for who you are.
Good Luck!
2006-11-13 15:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah T. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Go to the library, borrow & read up some self-help books
2) Always learn to put on a smile, speak & behave properly
3) Broaden your shoulders, widen your smiles to people
4) Talk or speak with confidence and with proper gestures
5) Pick up some nice but not silly jokes so you can use them sometimes
6) Learn to dress and put on make-up to impress & attract guys
7) Use all the above 6 steps to test it on an outgoing guy and see how it goes
After you've practice these 7 steps, you shd feel a total change and more confident, so when you see guys again, you'll feel you're changed like a new person. Once you're confident, you can handle & talk things like a real woman and you'd be sure that you won't behave like a kid anymore!!! Good luck!!!
2006-11-13 16:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to craigslist, post an ad..and just practice chatting with guys. Ignore the weirdos though, and don't give out personal information. Practice the following with a text messenger:
1. Initiating conversations
2. Fueling conversations
I suggested craigslist because it is free, and you can try chating with people from other cities. I'm not suggesting meeting anyone. Just for now practice conversations in a penpal sort of way.
2006-11-13 16:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Angel_In_America 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your a female what you can do is make sure you accept who you are first of all. when you know your going to be around guys make yourself look sexy and attrative therefor your looks may overdue your goofy kid inside you. And being shy always happend to me you just need to open up on the subject that they are talking about or whatever. shyness will always be there but once you start to open up they will focus on you. I hope this helps
2006-11-13 16:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to have the same problem. well, maybe not extreme. im a a 14 year old kid, and i feel like a goofy adult. I'm pretty good around guys, i just be myself. when you see a guy, talk to him!
2006-11-14 02:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Renee Gibson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am usually very shy and I don't like it. I think about doing something and do it- Try being a bit spontaneous about things.
2006-11-13 15:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this may sound stupid and you may need some supervision if you try to do this but you should try getting a little bit tipsy so you can get more relaxed around the boys. and then just reomve the alcohol little by little
2006-11-13 15:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by raul b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find a good dominatrix and ask her to take you under her wing.
2006-11-13 15:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this ebook
http://www.ebook-maniacs.com/Overcome_Your_Shyness.zip
2006-11-17 10:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by Y Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You may grow out of it even if ur an adult
2006-11-18 14:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by cait12350 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋