Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

The girl (23) is very mature for her age, a college grad, has a good job... has been through alot in life... always lived w/father so is def not seeking a parent wants a family one day and a loving man.
The guy (43) chose the career path after the military in hopes he'd find a wife somewhere along the way... women he'd been with cheated.. he took time to figure himself out and what he wanted and focused on work. now owns a house and has a good stable job and wants a family.
they both agree on many things, life, children, relationships, love, have some of the same friends... The girl is friends with his mother and two brothers, helped move him into his home and set up/organize it. There is a flirtation between them nothing more than friendship... the girl wants to wait till marriage or engagement for sex and the guy knows this... could this become a good relationship/marriage?

2006-11-13 16:53:33 · 8 answers · asked by mk2004 2 in Singles & Dating

So basically I had a girlfriend and we dated for about 6-7 months... we were really good then my jealousy issues got in the way when she started hanging out with my best friend even though there wasnt really anything going on... its been about 3 months since we've spoken but I REALLY like her a LOT! and im wondering how I could possibly talk to her again so she can see how much ive changed since we've broken up. Any suggestions?

2006-11-13 16:52:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm dating this guy that I like a lot. Well we didn't talk or email all weekend, but I sent him an email today, just a short cute one, and my email just said he read it, but he didn't respond! Is this a sign he doesn't like me anymore? Or is he maybe just busy and is going to respond later? Am I overreacting?

2006-11-13 16:51:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my bf and I have been dating for 4yrs and I have known for 2 of those years that he he wants to wait to get married until he is around 28yrs old, which would put us at 10yrs of dating. I finally asked him why he wanted to wait so long, and he said he wants to save up as much as possible, eventually move out (within the next 3yrs), and save until he can afford or at least put an incredible amount down on a townhouse. Now that seems logical to me, and I love him to death and support him all the way. My question is, why does he want to wait so long to marry me? If your b/f told you the same thing, would you wait for them?

2006-11-13 16:51:20 · 22 answers · asked by ridingis4life 3 in Marriage & Divorce

like, do guys mean skinny as in not fat?
or skinny as in no fat?

2006-11-13 16:50:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm married to Korean.We have 1 child but she has microcephaly & cerebral palsy.She is so pretty,sweet & friendly child.Some people said;she looks an angel,she looks so gorgeous and friendly.But my in-laws,they're not proud of her.When we went to the hospital,some patients asked her if she is her grandaughter.She replied "anyo"it means No.I pretend that i didn't heard her answer,i smile but deep inside my heart i felt too pain.Second time,when my in laws visit us here in overseas.She asked me to go shopping with her and my husband.My husband said bring our daughter but my in law said:No,just leave her to our friend.Her face seems not happy if we bring my daughter..I tried to understand my in laws because i know where they came from,they grew up in a country where too much pressure of the society..They are worried if their friends knows that they have disabled grandaughter..Why they worried?if they are true friends they should accept,support and help?Why they feel embarrased..It hurts

2006-11-13 16:50:31 · 8 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

but u liked the girl u are with in the beginning?

2006-11-13 16:49:47 · 10 answers · asked by Hootersbabe 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I find this girl that was in my 2nd grade class that lives in a different state and she's probably 12 years old.

2006-11-13 16:48:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex boyfriend and I were together for 6 years before we broke up. We have been broke up for a year now, he has had 2 kids while we were together and now he has one on the way with another woman. He gets mad when I tell him that i'm dating someone else, even went as far as getting physical with me. I tell him to leave me alone, i've even called the police on him and he still won't leave me alone. He broke things off with me and now im just trying to move on with my life but he keeps popping up in the picture. Why won't he leave me alone?

2006-11-13 16:48:14 · 9 answers · asked by banee82 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean i am in love with this guy who he lives in New Mexico and i live here in Texas..i wanna see him really really bad but i dont know how to get over to him..i have lied to him once and we cant be like we were before i lied this one time.i just need help because i love him a lot..and it seems if sometime soon i dont see him then we wont have nething nemore

2006-11-13 16:48:06 · 15 answers · asked by Lover Duckii Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been together now 2 years and a few weeks. Before we leave each other for mostly everything we tell each other we love each other. Lately, she's been nagging a lot about me just beind flirty and "not giving her enough attention". She started to really confused me a few weeks ago and I just havn't loved her too much since. I don't know if I wanna break up or just stay in the relationship. I never want to be with her anymore really either. What should I do?

2006-11-13 16:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy at my work place and he is so cute, we flirt a lot and have awkward eye moments. we r both currently not dating, are good friends, and the communication is incredible.

2006-11-13 16:47:24 · 7 answers · asked by what???? 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband works for three to four weeks at a time on offshore oil rigs. We have been together for two and a half years, but he has only had this job for six months. We have been married less than a month, and I really miss him alot. We have a 3yr old daughter and she misses having him around when he is gone. He stays onshore for about two to three weeks, so the time we have is precious.
Has anyone had any experience with this? I am not worried about our relationship right now, but I don't want us to grow apart or lose what we are to each other over time. How do I keep the love alive and keep from missing him so badly?

2006-11-13 16:46:49 · 7 answers · asked by toothfairy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i met a guy befor my papers were final in my divorce knowi think i migh be falling for him but he only knows the good stuff about me not he bad i did not think it was somethong that i migh turn long term but know im wonering if i should tel him the truth it is not anything crazy i never killed anyone just smaller things that are growing in the web i have tangled

2006-11-13 16:46:20 · 4 answers · asked by bett joe 1 in Singles & Dating

proposition a woman for a sex only relationship in a somewhat non risky way (a lot is at stake if she is not interested), how should she respond if she likes what she hears?

2006-11-13 16:46:12 · 4 answers · asked by sonahq 1 in Singles & Dating

Even if she has a really nice rack?

2006-11-13 16:42:32 · 18 answers · asked by yojuantopo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Did it affect your sex life because
a) she was not proud of her body
b) you were turned off by her body
c) both

2006-11-13 16:42:24 · 16 answers · asked by Stephanie S 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 16:41:49 · 18 answers · asked by Micheal A 2 in Singles & Dating

Today on MSN he told me that he loves me with all his heart. And we've only been daiting for 3days. But we were friends before we started daiting and I use to date his best friend who is jealous b/c I'm not daiting him anymore. Yeah but the thing is I don't really like him in the romantic way. What should I do? He really likes me and he daited my best friend and she said he never liked her as much as he likes me. Plz help.

2006-11-13 16:41:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad came from jail when i was like 9. im 12 now was in jail when I was first born until I was like four. went back when i was 6.So over all just 6 yrs with me out of my whole life. I hardly see him. maybe just like every other week or every 2 weeks. anyway my dad got a dog and now I think I may only be going to see him to play with the dog. Before the dog came I may have only went to get away from my mom or so my family wont get upset that i havent been over his house. My dad is such a....itiot,thug,criminal, man whore, wanna be, jocker, wont pay child support. Do you think I might hate him or sumthin? Am i a bad daughter? tell me pleez.

2006-11-13 16:41:34 · 25 answers · asked by MizzQ-T 2 in Family

ok my husband and I are divorcing. We have a 4 year old daughter. The father moved to GA and I live in VA. The father gets her everyother weekend from Friday till Sunday everyother Thanksgiving for 4 days every Christmas day till January 1st then a week in June and a week in July. I only agreed to one week for Christmas everyother year but he gets her every year. I told my lawyer I would let him make up his lost week in a different month but she didn't change it. How can I change this and if I do change it do you think the judge will look at me bad? My daughter hates going now and dreads everyother weekend with him....His parents come and get our daughter and over half the time he does not spend with her. Help me please!!!!

2006-11-13 16:41:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 16:41:07 · 15 answers · asked by just wondering 1 in Weddings

why cant you trust a man

2006-11-13 16:40:50 · 19 answers · asked by amberharris20022000 7 in Singles & Dating

I love the rhythmn,I love the words.
Simple sentence,A new words birth.
A summers evening,A winters day.
A long thought question,Lost in dismay.
beautiful answers,from heart felt souls.
Lovely ladies,with words that glow.
So I'll give you a word,with love from me.
its simple to say,shinublani.

It means" Your love in me,my love in you"
Has anyone on here ever done this.That word is from a new language I created.Its called the language of love.With love.Will Bitmore Scram

2006-11-13 16:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

my question is can a guy fake it. Ive had my share of fun, and I often get a compliment in the bedroom. do guys just say it was good so they can get more, or what? and can they fake orgams? like two or thrww in a 30 min. period? I felt offended when that happened to me. whats the deal?

2006-11-13 16:40:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 16:39:51 · 8 answers · asked by sly_witch2001 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked my boyfriend who was at his house last night and he said none of my business. Then we were watching tv and a woman knocked on his door a 11 pm at night and he opened the door and told her he was busy. So she just left. Is he cheating on me. If I asked him do you think he would tell me? P.S he has not called me all day either.

2006-11-13 16:39:27 · 23 answers · asked by Miss Tasia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 16:38:11 · 16 answers · asked by Mz.Newbooty23 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the best way to get over someone?

2006-11-13 16:37:55 · 37 answers · asked by tessie 1 in Singles & Dating

ok this is my problem i liked this girl and i asked her out and my best friend liked her 2 so her beat me up in front of her to impress her he go his friends and jumped me in front of her so i don't know if i should fight all 5 of them or i should just run plz help

2006-11-13 16:37:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating