how can a man?

Question

proposition a woman for a sex only relationship in a somewhat non risky way (a lot is at stake if she is not interested), how should she respond if she likes what she hears?

Answer 1

I couldn't tell ya how a man should make this proposition. I can tell ya, every time it's been made to me, I feel a little sick to my stomach and the guy just stops being attractive to me. You said there's a lot at stake, and so I'm guess that means she's married or you're boss or something like that, so, that being the case, I wouldn't recommend taking such action.

Although, now that I think about it, this guy once told me that if a woman received a dozen roses, and only one were red, while the rest of the roses were red, that was meant to indicate pursuit of a strictly physical relationship. It's a really obscure factoid from an era long gone, but it's a place to start. There's no way of knowing a woman would interpret such an arrangement in that manner per se, but it is the most eloquent way I can think of for making that statement. Still, if I got such an arrangement, I'd probably blender the flowers and warn all my gfs about the guy who sent them to me.

Probably not what you wanted to here, but is my honest response.

Answer 2

Depend how well you know this woman. I knew a man at work and just thought we were co workers we got along well with work and we would go out for coffee in the cafeteria. thought nothing of it till one day he said lets go for coffee again and this time he said i have something to ask you. You know im married right and have 3 kids not happy in my marriage and I need more from my wife than im getting would you be interested in getting together that way with me. I was cool and replied no I wouldn't be and that He would have to try some place else. But i never spoke of it to anyone again that is his private business and he trusted me enough to come and ask. must be hard to come out and ask something like that. so just tell this woman. unless she looks like a blabber mouth then forget it. it will be all around the office.

Answer 3

If she is a slut/has no emotional attachment she would be happy.

No woman with self-respect will say yes to your proposition you pig-headed scumbag.

Answer 4

you're just being selfish and unless she is also selfish it won't work, but i guess it doesn't hurt to ask. Just ask her like you asked this question.