what is the best way to get over someone?
2006-11-13 16:37:55 · 37 answers · asked by tessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sleep with their dad
2006-11-13 16:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Carl The green's keeper 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Read 'it's called break up cos it's broken' and 'he's just not that into you'.... They are corny and ridiculous but soooo good!!!
1. Do not call him.
2. Do not see him.
3. Do not think you're getting back together!!
4. Go out and get drunk!! (Give your mobile to a friend to look after whilst you're out so there is NO WAY you can accidentally slip and call them!!! Drunk is the WORST time to call!!!)
- you never know - if you follow this advice and don't act like a psychopath then you might end up back together. Leaving the person alone is the main priority - make them see how life without you feels and start your healing process immediately rather than dragging it out by ''catching up as friends'' etc...
2006-11-13 16:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by the voice of reason 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way is not the easy way. I don't think there is any easy way to mend a broken heart. I'm assuming you're getting over a romantic relationship, and mending this kind of broken heart is one of the most difficult and painful processes in the human experience. Know that you're going to hurt for a while.
I think most importantly, you should avoid going back and forth with this person. If it is over, it is over. Let your heart heal before you make any relationship decisions. Good Luck.
2006-11-13 16:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by madcatlover7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best way to get over someone is to date someone else and keep yourself occupied by going out with friends and family and meeting new people. Trust me, i know from experience. Don't answer the phone if he calls, don't open the door if he comes over.
2006-11-13 16:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by banee82 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to stay busy. Get a hobby. Stay around your best friends and plan things with them. Avoid running into him if you can. Be friendly but that is all. Join a club or something after school to keep you busy. I know I said that twice but being busy will help alot. Keeps your mind off of things. When you sit around...all you do is think. Hope this helps
2006-11-13 16:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by chocoholic_40 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
release the pain by crying. It's the easiest way to let go. Then just hold on to all the good times you shared and move forward. There are so many great opportunities out there. You're stronger than you think you are. Start writing down your weekly, monthly, yearly goals for yourself and watch the magic happen.
2006-11-13 16:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right now I am getting over someone too when ever you think of the name or see a picture of the person in your head say who keep on saying who until you complete erase that person out of you life!
My friend told me this and its reallying helping me!
2006-11-13 16:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
*sigh* what a question.
I wish I knew...
The best advice I ever heard involved giving yourself a little bit of time to really cry it over, and then pick yourself up, and make yourself up. Looking your best helps you feel your best.
Then start to get back into your social circle, and/or pick up a new hobby and/or friends. You'll be much stronger. Good Luck :)
2006-11-13 16:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by the_only_slushman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What helped me get over the pain of my divorce was moving toward the pain instead of fighting it. I embraced it as a part of who I am. Then the pain was replaced by a bitter-sweet understanding of the experience, and I was able to move on emotionally.
2006-11-13 16:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cry be mad don't blame yourself or that person just know it simply wasn't meant to be and someone better will come along it helps just be true to yourself don't worry about what he's doing worry about you hell if he helps be selfish for awhile your going to love and lose a lot of times until that one guy sticks it's life read a good book it helps me but just make sure you deal with it and i do mean deal with it get it out your system no matter how long it takes
2006-11-13 16:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by USAF1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Know that there is someone better out there for you.
Learn from this experience. Everything happens for a reason.
Know you are worth a better relationship.
All good things come to those who wait.
Life goes on.
Good luck!
2006-11-13 16:40:35 · answer #11 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋