Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

The thing is, he is not AT ALL abusive. I am not AT ALL concerned that he would ever, ever hit me or touch me angrily in a physical way. We are going to be married soon and have a really wonderful relationship.

The thing is, he has gotten angry with me about 3 times in our relationship and yelled so loudly at me (usually in the car where it sounds louder then it probably is) but even one time practically screamed. Now, the problem is that usually when this happens either he or I have been drinking. The first two times he was but tonight it was only me. He called me names (nothing really that bad) but yelled at me at the top of his voice until I cried and asked him to leave. He didn't, though. He just came in and apologized for making me feel bad. Alcohol has been involved in some of our fights but I have never, EVER yelled at him or spoken to him the way that he talks to me in those moments. I would never speak to him the way he speaks to me. He would never hit. So what is up?

2006-11-13 17:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by wendyshannon 3 in Singles & Dating

I know what its like to live with him in his place. But now the place will be full both of ours. Any advice you might have for me? Smallest or biggest thing.

2006-11-13 17:52:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm nineteen, and my boyfriend is twenty-six. When we first started living together, we had sex every night. Now, ten months later, we hardly ever have sex. I get sex about once every two or three weeks. He works very late in the evening, and comes home very tired. As well, he's on medicine that makes it difficult to get it up. I give him blow-jobs every few nights, and he rolls over and falls asleep. I have a very high sex-drive. Now that I never get sex, it's hard to think of anything else. I'm distracted all the time, and dream of sex all night. Whenever I bring up my desires to him, he says he's tired, and apologizes profusely. I could sleep with other people, because we are in an open relationship, but it would make him sad if I ran off and screwed a bunch of boys just because he works late hours. I get propositioned often, and it's getting increasingly tempting.

Should I keep ****-buddies? Wait for him to get rested? Try to continue on with my life terminally horny?

2006-11-13 17:51:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im super jealous i dont know what to do i dont like my boyfriend talking to other girls i mean i dont mind him talking a little but not like having a full deep conversation with chicks ive talked to him about it and he still does it

2006-11-13 17:50:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Give me 5 reasons why co-habitation (Living with the opposite sex) before marriage is bad? Best answer gets 10 points!! thanx n advance!

2006-11-13 17:49:49 · 18 answers · asked by babyphatangel20 2 in Marriage & Divorce

mine is spainkings....i like paddles....belts....hands.....wooden paddles.....

i roommate likes girls that wear stockings...

whats yours......

2006-11-13 17:48:11 · 13 answers · asked by gemini_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 17:47:59 · 8 answers · asked by bobby.k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One marriage proposal came to me, he saw me & said ok,
one day his parents came to see me, they also said ok while going they asked my dte o b my unty told 1 yr less, they got angry, they went off, till now no reply, but he is nice guy, how to convert his parents mind, shall i met him or not, what should i do........
(my frds r telling i should not met him, if he likes me let him convince his parents, )pls help me.

2006-11-13 17:47:52 · 14 answers · asked by ani123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Not too sure about love??

2006-11-13 17:47:05 · 12 answers · asked by agentruddy 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this true,and can it be true

2006-11-13 17:45:29 · 20 answers · asked by breann 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 27 yo. male from india; and i care for my parents more then anybody else. The issues in my life started a year and a half ago, when i left my 5 year long relation with my ex-girlfriend to marry a complete stranger whome my parents had choosen for me. I did that just to make my parents happy and to make their wish a reality, i did that to keep my family under one roof. However, now after 1.5 years my wife is not feeling comfortable staying with my parents and in the meanwhile we've now got a kid too.

I now find that the sole purpose of marrying my present wife is no more valid. the lady whome i married for my parents, herself is not willing to keep the house together. I wonder, if i should still continue with this marriage or should i rollback my mistake in life and leave her to marry my love of life (my ex-girlfriend)?

Your advice/help would be much appreciated...

2006-11-13 17:45:20 · 6 answers · asked by RN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months and i have know him for like four months. And we are starting to have problems.Like i called him today and proceeded to have a convoersation with him and i was like "hi baby" and then i heard a female in the background go "hi baby??" with alot of attitude in her voice. After that he hung up on me. I really don't know what to think bout this. Plus, i mean even when we first started talking i had alot of dought bout our relationship....and a wise friend of mines told me "when in dought dump him"...and i sometimes ponder over even if we should be together. And well, guys are known to not being faithful. I mean why tell me you love me and then cheat on me. I may be reading too deep into this whole thing. maybe?? but still, guys are known to just want to **** and mess around.Where are the good guys? the ones that want to love you and only you? I guess we ran out them type of ******.

2006-11-13 17:43:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you confess to the like you like(but don't know) at prom that you have been crushing on him for the whole year?
it might be the last time you ever get to see each other though..hmm..

2006-11-13 17:43:16 · 12 answers · asked by s89 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 17:43:03 · 17 answers · asked by sad_but_pretty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 17:41:17 · 12 answers · asked by benzhowz 3 in Singles & Dating

Last night I had a conversation with my husband, where I asked him if he can be honest with his family and tell them that he married me. If he can imagine having a real family with me, with children and all. He replied that he has been thinking about it and he knows me, and thinks that I am nice, and so why shouldn't he? But not now, and also that I need a whack sometimes to put me in shape. I lost my breath. I asked him what a whack is. "Whatever it takes, it depends on the situation." he said. He says that sometimes I sound irrational or too emotional. "Is a whack to scream at me or literally whack me?" I asked. "It is whatever the circumstances needs" he replied. I need some good, serious, sound advice here. Bear in mind that he has been a husband and a stepfather for three years now.

2006-11-13 17:41:14 · 14 answers · asked by ms_moonlight1977 2 in Marriage & Divorce

....you know, when someone just doesn't get it. Do you give up or keep trying to break it down until the light bulb comes on?

2006-11-13 17:40:46 · 7 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 17:40:44 · 6 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Singles & Dating

ok. you see 2 of my good friends are going out and they realy love eachother but i love her also.2 days befor she asked him out i had tolded her how i felt but she just egnored me and acted like it never happend.I told her that i "like" her but i realy love her but i think its wrong to come imbetween my two friends. So wat do i do. do i move on , wait for them to break up ( and that will not be any time soon) or just tell her (agin) how i fell or sumthing eles you can think of

ps:im 13 and in the 8th grade so that mite help

2006-11-13 17:40:07 · 18 answers · asked by nelson22 1 in Singles & Dating

Now have been told by my close friend that he loves me. After I asked him what are his feelings toward me. well after he told me that he loves me, i asked him why? he never responded. I kept asking him, the last time i asked, he said to just forget that he said it so i can chill out. Well after that he also told me that being that we are long distant, a relationship can't happened. So i asked, so you rather be friends? He said friends. Now he hasn't return any of my phone calls or text messages. and when he does return them, he always says everytime that he is busy and that he will call me back. But he never does. Why is he acting like that if he said that he loves me? And what should i do?

2006-11-13 17:39:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

latley my boyfriend really wants to go down south and that scares me because what if it smells or taste bad is there anyway to prevent this please help!!!

2006-11-13 17:38:36 · 6 answers · asked by snowballpoint 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 17:38:33 · 15 answers · asked by dvdai14 2 in Family

2006-11-13 17:38:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know whether i can bring flowers, i know i have to dress in all black, but how do i make it more personal if theres something more i can do , i dont know, can someone help me out, i cant go to sleep not being prepared for the funeral

2006-11-13 17:37:20 · 14 answers · asked by MrKnowitAll 2 in Friends

I mean.. are there people out there who DONT want to make others feel bad about themselves.. or talk down to others.. or backstab people.. i just dont understand. i am a 19 yr old girl and almost every friend I've had that's a girl has hurt me in some way. I never go out of my way to spread rumors or lie about people or start drama.. i just have never had interest in it. I am very easy to get along with.. so i don't know. ahh!

2006-11-13 17:36:54 · 14 answers · asked by keep it real 4 in Friends

2006-11-13 17:36:47 · 18 answers · asked by vipin 1 in Singles & Dating

i do it all the time.

2006-11-13 17:35:40 · 8 answers · asked by cutemay1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 17:34:53 · 16 answers · asked by benzhowz 3 in Singles & Dating

Before I moved to Ca is was a nurse in my present state. When I got out here I ended up doing home care for a man with a broken neck. Over the months I ended up falling in love with him. Then during the summer he took me to Vegas and we had such a romantic time. Then when we got back it was strong for about a month then it just stopped. I still go see him, spend time with him and he told me that he would tell me if he lost interest but I don't know. He was hurt so badly in his previous relationship that I don't know what to do. I am very confused. I really care for him alot and the last thing I want to do is hurt him. He is very religious and he said that our sex didn't feel right. Caused his loss of sleep. I can see at some points that he is still interested but at time not. I am black with two kids and he is white with none. Any advise. Should I tell him that I am in love with him. He is the main reason I am staying in California even though I hate it here.

2006-11-13 17:32:51 · 5 answers · asked by Staci R 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend start having sex but i cant last to long...she tends to get very angry...any ideas on how to make me last longer? and make it more enjoyable for the both of us?

2006-11-13 17:32:51 · 15 answers · asked by shayne 1 in Singles & Dating