ok. you see 2 of my good friends are going out and they realy love eachother but i love her also.2 days befor she asked him out i had tolded her how i felt but she just egnored me and acted like it never happend.I told her that i "like" her but i realy love her but i think its wrong to come imbetween my two friends. So wat do i do. do i move on , wait for them to break up ( and that will not be any time soon) or just tell her (agin) how i fell or sumthing eles you can think of
ps:im 13 and in the 8th grade so that mite help
2006-11-13 17:40:07 · 18 answers · asked by nelson22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok first of all, i might know you but second of all DONT try 2 break them up, i mean isnt ur friendship mor important than a gf? i mean thats what i did, i had a guy i liked, i found out my friend liked him, couple days after i told her that she could have him she asked him out. but i still kind of like him. but i fell ur pain, its had to control who u like. but not to be mean if she ignored you shes not worth your time so build a brige and get over it. srry by the way i know how u feel. =)=(
2006-11-13 17:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by lauranakf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, she sees you as a friend and you need to accept that, especially now that she is dating your friend. That is not to say that at some point in the future that might not change, it just means you need to not waste all your time and energy on something that is obviously not going to work, especially because even if it did chances are you would lose at least one friend in the deal. Plus there is nothing worse than wasting all your time chasing after someone who will just end up hurting you because they don't feel the same way.
If they break up at some point in the future and you still have feelings for the girl then go for it... but until then just chill, my friend, there are many fish in the sea...
:)
2006-11-14 01:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by D B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't come in between them. It's clear that the girl loves him and so does he. If ever the girl had feelings for you, then something could have been done. I think you should try to look on new horizons. It'll be difficult if you are really in love, but you are still 13 and there 's lots of things that awit you. If she loves you, she'll come to you by herself.
2006-11-14 01:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what to do: love her, like her, be kind to her, but treat her like your sister, or better yet, treat her like someone your best friend loves, and just be nice... If you do anything about this, if you express your love anymore, you'll lose your friend and you''ll lose her respect..
If you really want to impress her, just be nice and get a girl friend of your own, and someday, if she is ready and likes you and your friend has moved on to another girl then you'll have a real chance of being with her..
Ok? Put yourself in your friends place.. Would he want you to betray him? No, of course not.. And you won't, because he really is your friend and you are his friend.. right?
I mean this.. leave her alone, or you will cause yourself sorrow..
2006-11-14 01:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Golfcarmel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really only have a 25% chance of getting the girl. anyway dont worry im like only 12 and in 7th grade.
if u really need someone to either be ur friend or watever, than email my friend:
saten20_rouge@hotmail.com
or my adress
saten20_rouge2@yahoo.com
im trying to copy her
2006-11-14 01:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never wrong to love anyone but I do not recomand coming between your friend and his girl friend because you could loose 2 friends in the process!
2006-11-14 01:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by duke4172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends that is the best way to go... you are young... love will come around again for you.. if you told her then she doesnt have that same feeling for you and wants to be friends.. believe me there will be others... take care yourself and be good to yourself and things will fall into place as you get older
2006-11-14 01:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by annieapple_1959 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're 13 then they pry will break up soon actually. if you value your friendship with the guy then i would say let it go because he will be pretty upset... also, if you already told her once, then im sorry but she made her choice... you should find another girl
2006-11-14 01:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by .......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what part of ignoring you did you miss?
she ignored you on that topic cause she doesn't have the same feelings and instead of saying it and hurting your feelings, she said nothing.
best to move on....if she wanted you she would never have gone after the other friend.
just cause you like someone doesn't mean they will like you back. get use to it, it will happen more often than you like.
2006-11-14 01:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard of that story of spiderman?
shes not available for u right now. im telling u, shes just so young and she is really into her bf. maybe there will be a time for u when she has feelings for u.
2006-11-14 01:42:52 · answer #10 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋