Before I moved to Ca is was a nurse in my present state. When I got out here I ended up doing home care for a man with a broken neck. Over the months I ended up falling in love with him. Then during the summer he took me to Vegas and we had such a romantic time. Then when we got back it was strong for about a month then it just stopped. I still go see him, spend time with him and he told me that he would tell me if he lost interest but I don't know. He was hurt so badly in his previous relationship that I don't know what to do. I am very confused. I really care for him alot and the last thing I want to do is hurt him. He is very religious and he said that our sex didn't feel right. Caused his loss of sleep. I can see at some points that he is still interested but at time not. I am black with two kids and he is white with none. Any advise. Should I tell him that I am in love with him. He is the main reason I am staying in California even though I hate it here.
2006-11-13 17:32:51 · 5 answers · asked by Staci R 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, i am talking from experience. i was hurt so bad that i thought i would never date again. then a wonderful person pushed herself though my shell. i did not want to date her at first but then, i realied how hard she was trying just to get me and her together. (i also said many prayers about her) simply push your way in, trust me, he will open up, all he needs is to know that you care for him more that the world itself. For me, i am going to marry this girl once i am done with my mission (2 years spent serving my church). it may work out that way for you as well.
2006-11-13 17:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn Staci u F***** up when u had sex with him. Now hes having bad feelings about it. Let him know that u didnt do it with him just 2 do it and that u do love him or else u wouldnt have had sex with him. It'll definitly make him feel better about the situation. Hope i helped :)
2006-11-13 17:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Ush ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want to wait around in cali if you hate it just to find out he doesnt want to be with you ... so find out now - tell him how you feel and get a response - just try not to come on too strong... i would maybe tell him that you would like to pursue a relationship, rather than that you love him
2006-11-13 17:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by .......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well darlin...speak your heart out.You have to let him know how you feel towards him.Don't keep the feelings,let it go.Good luck
2006-11-13 17:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by ike mie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just fine to tell him and get involve.love is for everybody to feel
2006-11-13 17:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by anitsirc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋