I know what its like to live with him in his place. But now the place will be full both of ours. Any advice you might have for me? Smallest or biggest thing.
2006-11-13 17:52:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you move in, remember to have a backup as well. A friend's place you can move into instantly just in case. That's so important, feeling trapped is just awful. Smallest things that get to women is cleanliness, the way he puts his shoes or wet towel. Have all the household stuff covered. Who does what....divide the load!
2006-11-13 17:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Don't move into his place. Get a new place thats both of yours.
2) Make sure he wants you there as badly as you want to be there. Anything less than him being excited about it is a red flag. A huge red flag.
3) Does your family and/or friends approve? If not, red flag.
4) Do you both see your future together? What's the future like? Is it agreed or are you hoping? If hoping, red flag. Get to agreed.
5) Have $1500 stashed away at all times in case you have to move out on your own. I made that mistake and it's a living hell. Don't even buy lipstick until you have "crash" money.
If all these signs are a green light, go ahead and have the time of your life. I hope you'll be really happy together! If one ore more is unsure, sew it up before you move in with him. Good luck!
2006-11-13 17:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing to consider before moving in with him is marriage, because that's what you will be doing....playing house and playing at being married.
2006-11-13 18:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u guys both clean freaks or both slobs? Because if there is a mixture of both then that trouble. one is always going to nag about the mess and the other is always going to complain about how much of a tight asss the other is.
2006-11-13 17:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by lula gula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry whatever u have used at least once during the last one month.
2006-11-13 17:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember it is now both of yuor spaces and make sure you love him if you dont you will want to leave or make him suffer .wasted energy ,make up you|re mind
2006-11-13 17:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he put the toilet seat down ?
2006-11-13 17:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋