One marriage proposal came to me, he saw me & said ok,
one day his parents came to see me, they also said ok while going they asked my dte o b my unty told 1 yr less, they got angry, they went off, till now no reply, but he is nice guy, how to convert his parents mind, shall i met him or not, what should i do........
(my frds r telling i should not met him, if he likes me let him convince his parents, )pls help me.
2006-11-13 17:47:52 · 14 answers · asked by ani123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I'm reading your question right, the parents asked the date of your birth and your aunty told them one year less. And this is the problem? It's not like you lied to anyone.....is this guy worth all this grief...maybe you should think again.........
2006-11-13 17:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should not carry on with this proposal. if boy has really liked you than it's his duty to convince his parent's not your's.
Even though ur family to manage his parent's then in future u might get problems. so leave it up to boy's family now. if they come to ur family only then u should marry this boy, otherwise not at all. Cause already relations have gone bad in first instance so give them time and let them take decision. good luck to you.
dont worry u will get better proposal than this.
2006-11-14 09:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Hidimba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dear,
Sure.... nothing wrong in convincing. Go and meet him. But I do not why your parents created a mess. Pl. solve through your personal meeting and ask him if he likes you. If he is, let him convince his parents, it is not a big matter at all. OK all the best ...
2006-11-14 04:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by venkataramani p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are right, what is a simple liking on your part at the moment will take the shape of love if you make a lot of efforts to meet him. Let him make the efforts to get you two married, if he doesn't he never was. Filmi, but true, " Sometimes we should just leave it to HIM"
2006-11-14 04:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by Raj S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may want to marry you but since you dint say whether you liked him or not, he may be hesitating. Go tell him what is in your mind and if he really likes you he will understand and convince his parents.
2006-11-14 02:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lavalee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really genuinly interested in you then you can talk to him & try asking for his help to sort out the problem.
But if he isn't interested, let him go.
Don't waste your emotions on the undeserving.There will be someone better in your life.
Take care.
2006-11-14 02:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Vibs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?? I am so lost in your situation? Is this suppose to be an arranged marriage?? If so umm.... good luck with that! IT wouldnt be me! Thank You Jesus!
2006-11-14 02:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by lachocolatreine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that guy like u very he will come back to u.
Dont go to them. OK
2006-11-14 08:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by mohan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to write in plain English. No one understands you.
2006-11-14 03:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to him. I am sure he will understand the mistake.
2006-11-14 05:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋