im super jealous i dont know what to do i dont like my boyfriend talking to other girls i mean i dont mind him talking a little but not like having a full deep conversation with chicks ive talked to him about it and he still does it
2006-11-13 17:50:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend is free to pursue any friendships he chooses. Your jealousy will just make the matter worse, and push him further away from you.
He knows his place with you, so you should not worry about him talking to other girls. Your BIGGEST competition is the time he spends away from you with his GUY friends!
2006-11-13 17:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...you have to cool down a bit...you can't stop the guy from talking to girls or having female friends just because you are in a relationship with him...he is doing nothing wrong by having conversations with females...and the only way you have a right to feel jealous is if he is actually flirting or cheating on you....
You have to trust your boyfriend...trust is very important in a relationship...otherwise, your relationship will go through a lot of problems and you will end up ruining your chances with a guy you obviously love...
2006-11-14 02:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by Need Help! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not his talking to other gals that is bothering you. It is your low self-esteem. Try to search your mind and body, for the clues to why you feel so insecure. Do you feel less pretty, or do you have less education than some other gals? If your boyfriend really loves you, you are pretty enough, I'd say! If you are kind and have a lovely personality, you are a fine person. You can always learn what one needs to know, and if you have other insecurities, address each one, until you feel better. If your boyfriend speaks or flirts with other gals only to make you jealous, then he is the one who has a problem. Let him know that he can speak to others as much as he wishes, but if he is trying to make you jealous, he's out of luck, You have other things to do! You are 'Good enough" and if he doesn't see it, then it's 'Dump Him" time!
2006-11-14 02:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by bpember744@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy never kept a good friend. You should learn to trust him. As long as he's not verbally hitting on other girls or flirting, you shouldn't be worried. And the same goes for you: he should be ok with you talking to guys as long as there's no flirting/hitting on going on.
2006-11-14 01:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by mysticaura29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you stay on his case about it, he will leave your butt. don't smother him, you talk to whom you want and it doesn't mean anything, he sounds like a flirt, but just as far as that goes that is allright. you couldn't have a grocery buisness with him if you are that jealous. you would have a nervous breakdown. or even how about a bar together. he would have to wait on his customers. or find you a real ugly fat man and stay home.
2006-11-14 01:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by granny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't stop him from talking to other girls, if there is any relationship here . you better grow up a bit or there won't be a relationship , imean as long as he isn't touchy feely with these girls then relax
2006-11-14 01:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by robert s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, u need to grow up. just because hes talking to other girls doesnt mean he likes them. u need to share ur man.
2006-11-14 01:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by blingding 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will lose him eventually. sometimes if you are the only to benefit , keep your mouth closed, been there and dumped him
2006-11-14 01:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by iMaTwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋