me and my girlfriend start having sex but i cant last to long...she tends to get very angry...any ideas on how to make me last longer? and make it more enjoyable for the both of us?
2006-11-13 17:32:51 · 15 answers · asked by shayne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're just inexperienced by the sound of it. Your gf shouldn't get angry with you; it's something for both of you to work on (and besides, she should be flattered!) She can help by reaching orgasm quicker and taking some pressure off you.
My bf lasts longer when I'm on top - try changing positions and see if that helps.
It's just a matter of practice, practice, practice!
2006-11-13 20:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to have more sex to get more experience. Here are a few tips:
Masturbate a few hours before you expect to have sex... this will help you last longer.
When you are making love don't just have vaginal intercourse as fast and as hard as you can until you climax. Take it slow, lots of foreplay is great. If you feel yourself getting to aroused then slow down and do something else for a while, go down on her, kiss, massage her body.
... and if all else fails, and women won't like this, try thinking about something other than your partner and that you are having sex. Sometimes I think about work or what to do on the weekend, stupid stuff like that... then when you are ready, shift your thoughts back to that beautiful woman riding your manhood and let the sparks fly!
2006-11-13 17:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting her really hot before having sex. If she is close to climax then maybe you will last long enough to get her off, too. Try thinking of things that definatley turn you off while having sex and maybe that will keep you from going too soon. Good Luck!
2006-11-13 17:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kellie W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn,t worry too much about stamina if you just started having sex with her . You should concentrate your effots at becoming prolific in the art (it is an art by the way) of cunnilingus. Make sure she has enjoyed herself first,(maybe even second and third), After that ,they will be very understanding,and even helpful. Just remember,practice makes perfect!
2006-11-13 18:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by phllpvinc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbate first to get most of your sperm out so that you can hold longer during actual intercourse. while you are at it, don't trust too fast or hard, go gently and slowly; your gal will love it, plus your act will last longer. pause occasionally when you sense orgasm coming. you should last even an hour this way.
2006-11-13 17:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by jazzylips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doctor. Maybe he or she can give you something like Viagra to help you out. Or you could also try eating aphrodisiacs. Im not sure if they really work but its worth a shot.
2006-11-13 17:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by h2gj87 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.
He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied
2017-02-17 12:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maturity.
2006-11-13 17:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
Sometimes it goes with the experience..... young persons tend not to control it very much.... so try many things that can make you longer and not disaapoint your gf....
2006-11-13 17:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your girlfriend. she will give you inferiority complex. friends should share the strenth as well as the weaknesses. for the time being, try viagra with necessary precautions.
2006-11-13 17:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by prakash s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋