Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

and i'm currently working overseas is there a need for me to put everything down here and fly back ? not that i'm heartless or anything but its more like what can i do even if i go back ?

2006-11-13 17:32:34 · 6 answers · asked by igottanoe 3 in Family

2006-11-13 17:31:46 · 7 answers · asked by Y 2 in Marriage & Divorce

sudden death,my friend called,he got in wreck...tell me what do do for her?Not a joke,I need you guys

2006-11-13 17:30:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He loves me very much too. Should we get married, will our marriage last?

2006-11-13 17:29:39 · 9 answers · asked by S&D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to be the best kind of friend, one who allways believed you, even if your ideas were absurd. Not only that, i used to always trust people, you know, give them the benifit of the doubt until the proved me wrong. I allways could find it within myself to forgive and forget. But now, i have a hard time trusting my girlfriend, parents, and i can not make friends simply because i think the will just hurt me in the end. it's all because, sence april of last year, it's been one hartbreak after another. almost 15 times, i had thought i found someone to trust and they stabbed me in the back, watch me blead, and then brag about it. i need to become my fun loving, trusting self again, how do i do that?

2006-11-13 17:29:25 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel 2 in Friends

we live in NYC if that makes a diff

2006-11-13 17:29:16 · 9 answers · asked by TIE MY SHOE 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help. i'm 14 and i like my friend and awhile ago she said she liked me too . but i think somthing might've changed. what's a list of things that shows that a girl likes you? or some tips on what i should be looking for (what she does when she's around me, how she acts, ect.) any tips?

2006-11-13 17:28:14 · 7 answers · asked by zemke14 1 in Singles & Dating

it'll be a year untill i can see him again, and i want to know if i should wait for him, and just let him be till he comes home.

2006-11-13 17:26:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 17:26:46 · 24 answers · asked by Cherokee 1 in Singles & Dating

Say I invite my boyfriend to eat dinner with me and my family on my birthday...should he pay for his own food or what?

2006-11-13 17:26:00 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a wonderful husband, he doesn't have any problem with me neither do I have any with him. Being brought up in a partially disfunctional family, I'm pretty resistant and argumentative and sometimes feel very disturbed emotionally. I'm very direct and yes, sometimes rude. I'm very reactive and react suddenly. I just find out a reason to argue with my husband and try hurting him for any minor mistake, and after that I usually say I'm not gonna stay with you any longer because you are not suitable for me etc". Then the next day I feel guilty of hurting him (even if he's hurt me in return) and I apologize and we start a normal life again.
My concern is, will he take me seriously, if I continue doing this? How can I maintain a more balanced behavior?
This is happening quiet often, we're fighting for no reason, which is affecting our marriage. We have no kids. But I love him and fight with him bothers me more than anything in the world.
How can I have more control over my behavior?

2006-11-13 17:25:14 · 16 answers · asked by Just4YA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Now have been told by my close friend that he loves me. After I asked him what are his feelings toward me. well after he told me that he loves me, i asked him why? he never responded. I kept asking him, the last time i asked, he said to just forget that he said it so i can chill out. Well after that he also told me that being that we are long distant, a relationship can't happened. So i asked, so you rather be friends? He said friends. Now he hasn't return any of my phone calls or text messages. and when he does return them, he always says everytime that he is busy and that he will call me back. But he never does. Why is he acting like that if he said that he loves me? And what should i do?

2006-11-13 17:23:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to do somthing nice and fun, it would just be with my family. Thanx.

2006-11-13 17:20:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We married for couple months and we never have sex, yes. We married in America, we come from Romania. We sit and talk lots, playing board game, watch tv only sometime. New and old friends say to us "How is married sex?" and I say "No, no sex. We not have the sex." and they say why. Why should we? I cannot have kids. My womb cannot have them. Why we need to have it then? We see no reason. Husband is content with just being with me, he no like to leave me, rarely he and I ever apart, so he does not do cheats. Why people so mad and think we are upsetting? We did nothing wrong. We both never did the sex. You think we should have it? Why and why not we should?

2006-11-13 17:19:53 · 26 answers · asked by Wetawd!!NRR! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Easy with the harsh responses, be serious. I am 28 years old and I make a ton of money ($500K+ a year). I am a very attractive guy and very in shape, but I am shy as hell. I really don't care if a girl is with me just for my cash...bc frankly right now I ain't looking for anything serious anyway. Problem is, I am super shy and don't have a ton of "game". I am happy to let my $$ do the talking for me....just don't even know where to start. Don't answer with "get a stripper or prostitute". How can I use this to my advantage

2006-11-13 17:19:38 · 11 answers · asked by micg70 1 in Singles & Dating

some girls say its sexy. some say its freaky. do asian /european women like it or not? is ita symbol of sex? coz im goin to remove them.

2006-11-13 17:19:30 · 10 answers · asked by kanye w 1 in Singles & Dating

Took me a lot of courage to write this, so please be kind. I know what they say about dating the boss. I haven't made a move or breathed a word to anyone. I wish I could fully explain in a few sentences how confused I am. I have a serious thing for my boss. I have for almost a year. I've tried dating other people. I've tried ignoring the whole thing. I've tried concentrating on other parts of my life. But it's driving me nuts.

Problem is, I love my job. I love the people I work with and what I do. But my stupid heart has set itself on the single most dangerous person it could find, and it seems like it won't take no for an answer. He's ignored it like I have tried to, but there is no mistaking the energy between us when we're in a room together. People at work have been constantly trying to push us together. I resist because I know all things eventually must end - or change- and I don't want to end any of it badly.

Help?

2006-11-13 17:19:03 · 5 answers · asked by SBLady 1 in Singles & Dating

ok theres a girl i really like this one girl since 7th grade and i'm in the 8th grade now and today i was really depressed and she gave me a note that said "Tyler i know ur depressed about something and i don't like it when u r sad and i really care about u and it makes me upset to see u upset and i like it when u r happy because i'm happy with u" should i ask her out or not

2006-11-13 17:17:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 17:17:01 · 12 answers · asked by Y 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in love with this person for bout a year and a half,we was together every day and never really wanted to be apart but we split.
I need to know why i still have feelings for him and should i try to get over it or try to get him back?

2006-11-13 17:16:39 · 8 answers · asked by sweet angel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 17:15:27 · 20 answers · asked by Ben S 3 in Singles & Dating

m a 20 years old gal.my aim was to becom an airhostes but sacrifised my aimbition coz of my bf.he said no n was against it.second thing is dat i was getting job in converges,but he told me dats it is a call centre so i shudnt work der,i said ok.lastly wen i told him dat i have submitted my resume in british airways to work as ground hostess he said no.he says if i work in anyone of dese field as mentioned above he will leave me.plss help me.guide me.

2006-11-13 17:15:21 · 14 answers · asked by saakhikapoor 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 weeks now.We go to school together and have been acquaintances for about 6 months before we got together.I trasfered to a new school (which he atteds) this semester and the first friend I made there was this guy named Joey.My bf Eli didn't have a problem with Joey before he started dating me but then when he realized Joey had feelings for me and that I had become best friends with him he started causing problems.He was always really jealous of Joey hanging out with me to the point where him and 2 of his friends shived him into the boys bathroom to warn him to stay away from me and he did.What is his problem?He knows I don't feel that way about Joey and that he can trust me.

2006-11-13 17:14:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I know many couples that say that they lost their sex lives after they got married. Is this true? If so, why wouldn't they want to have sex with each other anymore? Our understanding is that it's mostly the woman's decision to stop having sex... so ladies, why?

2006-11-13 17:14:19 · 27 answers · asked by Stephanie S 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 17:14:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 17:13:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandfather (mom's dad) died yesterday unexpected. He was only 68. My mom is so totally not herself, like she has been lying in bed crying for 2 days! I loved my grandfather but he lived 3 states away, so really I have only seen him a few times in my life.
Although I did love him I can't really feel the pain that my mom must feel. I have tried to comfort her but evertime I do she grabs me and starts crying on my shoulder and saying that we kids (me and my sister and brother) take our dad for granted, and we should never take him for granted.
This depresses me because all of us kids have a decent relationship with the both of our parents but sometimes we just don't really show it outwardly.
So why does my mom turn her grief into something unbearable for all of us? I think my mom is using this as a reason to feel sorry for herself and the same time make all of us miserable. I would like some advice...thanks

2006-11-13 17:13:14 · 8 answers · asked by debra m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 17:12:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-13 17:10:12 · 20 answers · asked by french t 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. I am 28 years old and we took 1 year off. She is on the verge of moving out to california for me from boston and I just am not sure. She says she won't move here unless I give her a commitment but I am just not 100% sure about the whole thing. Normally 5 years would be enough time, but we broke up for a year last year during which time she lied to me and was dating some other guy (she told me she wasn't dating, was still telling me she loved me and wanted to be with me....meanwhile she is doing the hibbidy with some dude....hence my hesitation). She is giving me the ultimatum...I don't want to lose her but I am just not 100% sure.

2006-11-13 17:09:23 · 12 answers · asked by micg70 1 in Singles & Dating