ok, this is shallow but I want to get girls with my money?

Question

Easy with the harsh responses, be serious. I am 28 years old and I make a ton of money ($500K+ a year). I am a very attractive guy and very in shape, but I am shy as hell. I really don't care if a girl is with me just for my cash...bc frankly right now I ain't looking for anything serious anyway. Problem is, I am super shy and don't have a ton of "game". I am happy to let my $$ do the talking for me....just don't even know where to start. Don't answer with "get a stripper or prostitute". How can I use this to my advantage

Answer 1

Try clubs, if you see an attractive girl buy her an expensive drink...that would be a small investment for if she isn't interested you can move on to another. Remember to hit clubs aimed at a younger population, they would buy the money thing easier.

Answer 2

Just remember women that go after money....demand more each and every day to retain them and once the well runs dry, they are gone. Many of these women take it as a competition to see how fast they can make the well go dry. So be warned before stepping into this game that you might be broke in under 6 months...no joke.

Go out and get designer suits.....get a top of the line sports car, prefer black with blacked out windows....gives that mystery feel to you. since you are shy this can work well for you.....as strong silent types can go over well. Just be quiet, say few words, just flash cash, nice diamond ring n cuff links, suit, shoes, etc. All this can be done at local art shows, local upscale pubs, etc.

Sstay away from the hookers, etc as these are bottom feeders and if you truely make 500k a yr you don't want these guppies let alone the baggage and diseases that come with them.

Just flashing a biz card and handing it over w/ few words can go along way. Make sure its not some basic Office Max $39.95 for 1000 cards business card. Go out and spend good money on professional business cards that are on very thick paper and professionally laid out. This speaks LOUD volumes on your character and business.

I don't make what you make but not far behind....own a few biz's, single, shy, 37 and about to get back into the game myself. This is the advice I have been giving myself.

Just don't over do it.....keep it simple, clean and high class and that should draw them in. Plus go have your eyebrows plucked, nails done, hair, etc at a salon.

Just remember......the less you speak....the more she'll ASSUME you are what she wants or is looking for. And the easier it will be for you.

Answer 3

well if u think its shallow and it is thats the sort of girl you are going to pick up do you really want a chick that only wants u 4 your money ? should not be 2 hard their are plenty of cows out their that only look at guys 4 1 thing money your silly if you are as you say u are then your looking in all the wrong places but if u want 2 be used then head 2 a night club and get your mates talking about your money near girls and it wont be long before you get a cling on. I still think your silly im 30 and pick up lines and money same thing to me. good luck

Answer 4

Even if you aren't looking for anything serious you shouldn't sell yourself short and be willing to settle for a woman that wants you only for your money. If you work then you should know men from work, have them introduce you. Or try a gym, lots of women there. Or there's a dating service for millionaires, male and female. You don't have to be one (you only have to make a minimum of $150,000.00 a year) but if your not now you will be after 2 years anyway. Try golddigger.com,
strikeyourmatch.com, millionairesclub123.com.

Answer 5

Hey. If you are attractive, use a dating service or something so you don't get gold diggers. I am very attractive and recently divorced. I've been through the gold diggers. It totally sucks. Just be really careful. If I wasn't in a relationship, I'd date you. Good luck and be really careful.

Answer 6

Call me ;]

Seriously, why would you want to do that? You'll be unhappy and miserable knowing you're being used, even if you don't think so right now. Go to a bar with friends, and force yourself to be social. Try online personals. Create one and let someone find you.

Answer 7

Well my dear,$$$ is not everything.Why not use the money to go for a self improvement course?It will help you a great deal.It's okay if you don't care,but there is no joy if you want to be with someone and let your money do the talking.(Wealthy people always like to do funny thing,i wonder)

Answer 8

LOL micg this is hilarious I'm sry but it is. U dont need game to be get a girl just be ur damn self and no big deal if u dont mind them using u 4 ur $ then relax and have fun and B safe. :)

Answer 9

I think you have just made the begining. You should have girls approaching after reading your question here. Just do not make efforts to avoid or turn them away.

Answer 10

Here's an awnser to your problem...go to church ...join a church group ....meet a shy girl...you just may get lucky and get a life partner...or you may get a golddigger...either way you'd be happy!